Life Pro Tip: Pluto in synastry is not for everyone. OUCH man, OUCH! :'(

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by deckedandecker on Monday, February 1, 2021 and has 10 replies.
So there is this woman who I have a Mars and Pluto double whammy with, basically, Pluto Trine Mars at 0 degrees where her Pluto Trines my Mars and then a Mars conjunct Pluto at 1 degree where my Pluto conjuncts her Mars. We seem to also have a moon conjunct Pluto but it is me with moon in that relationship.

Dear god, ouch. It freaking hurts so bad and it is so addicting. I want her to be dead to me so so so so bad but I cannot get her out of my head. I think about her every day even though a good part of me hates her guts.

At first I didn't even like her and she was barely anything to me but like a got dayum virus she grew over months to where now I cannot mentally and emotionally get away from her. Please help me lord.
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Did you push her away when she liked you?
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Posted by Tomboyyyy

You guys have Cancer and Pisces Mars? Or are you not millennials?
Pluto Trine Mars is at 0 degrees and both signs are Scorpio. Someone I knew who read this literally said this:

"Oh snap, good luck with that!"
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Dont over look that moon. Your statement has the moon victim written all over it.

I could go on and on about this synastry aspect bc I seem to always end up in it and as Pluto
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stuff hurts man

hurts....
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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Dont over look that moon. Your statement has the moon victim written all over it.

I could go on and on about this synastry aspect bc I seem to always end up in it and as Pluto


Please continue Pluto....

I'm curious how you feel in that dynamic?

I'm dealing with a moon/Pluto exact square...I'm the moon 🤸🏼‍♀️🥴

Edit to add...well I was. We aren't talking but it didn't end or we didn't walk away on bad terms at all...nothing like how you read about. Technically I've dealt with this aspect before but not exact and it was a long time ago with a less vocal Pluto.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Posted by Libra4rmTX

Dont over look that moon. Your statement has the moon victim written all over it.

I could go on and on about this synastry aspect bc I seem to always end up in it and as Pluto


Please continue Pluto....

I'm curious how you feel in that dynamic?

I'm dealing with a moon/Pluto exact square...I'm the moon 🤸🏼‍♀️🥴

Edit to add...well I was. We aren't talking but it didn't end or we didn't walk away on bad terms at all...nothing like how you read about. Technically I've dealt with this aspect before but not exact and it was a long time ago with a less vocal Pluto.
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Aahhh where do I start lol. And for the first part I mainly feel unaware. Its when things deepens that dynamics change. And its almost always either the moon or mars that aspect my Pluto. It usually comes down to me having to decide if I wanna leave or be left. Thats exactly how it feels.

I have went silent. Because at certain points, its not much to say. Everything becomes obvious and Im left with a decision to cut ties or continue down a road I know better than to take. Or dont want to take. Its not always intense either. Sometimes its just an affair that has lost its luster, or some kind of realization that this aint it. And yes, sadly when mars touches my pluto sex kept me around longer than I needed. I saw more than I needed. Learned what I didnt know. And left with memories I wont forget. I usually leave it all on the field so to speak.


Like my last whatever you wanna call it. My mars was a close sextile to her pluto(different gen, hers is in sagg) and her mars conjunct my pluto. The longing was definitely there as this was a tease for a while. I mean a while. It slowly heated up. At one point I began ignoring her texts because shit was going nowhere. Then one night, just out the blue( cuz my mars trines her Uranus too)everything popped off. And it was intense and shocking. It was very " Plutonic"in every way and Im still shocked. But at the same time, if you want complete honesty, I knew better. Couldnt help myself but I knew better and I probably wont go down that road again. Shes too destructive, toxic. Pretty girl, great personality but just incredibly toxic. And very suggestive and manipulative. And if I was to go down that road with her, it would end in my own destruction.


Man I got so many examples lol
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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Dont over look that moon. Your statement has the moon victim written all over it.

I could go on and on about this synastry aspect bc I seem to always end up in it and as Pluto


You're lucky you end up being Pluto because Pluto always has the power.
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Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by Libra4rmTX

Dont over look that moon. Your statement has the moon victim written all over it.

I could go on and on about this synastry aspect bc I seem to always end up in it and as Pluto


You're lucky you end up being Pluto because Pluto always has the power.
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Not really. You would think that but it doesnt go that way at all. Just ends up being the more introspective one. Or destructive.
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Posted by Libra4rmTX
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Posted by Libra4rmTX

Dont over look that moon. Your statement has the moon victim written all over it.

I could go on and on about this synastry aspect bc I seem to always end up in it and as Pluto


Please continue Pluto....

I'm curious how you feel in that dynamic?

I'm dealing with a moon/Pluto exact square...I'm the moon 🤸🏼‍♀️🥴

Edit to add...well I was. We aren't talking but it didn't end or we didn't walk away on bad terms at all...nothing like how you read about. Technically I've dealt with this aspect before but not exact and it was a long time ago with a less vocal Pluto.


Aahhh where do I start lol. And for the first part I mainly feel unaware. Its when things deepens that dynamics change. And its almost always either the moon or mars that aspect my Pluto. It usually comes down to me having to decide if I wanna leave or be left. Thats exactly how it feels.

I have went silent. Because at certain points, its not much to say. Everything becomes obvious and Im left with a decision to cut ties or continue down a road I know better than to take. Or dont want to take. Its not always intense either. Sometimes its just an affair that has lost its luster, or some kind of realization that this aint it. And yes, sadly when mars touches my pluto sex kept me around longer than I needed. I saw more than I needed. Learned what I didnt know. And left with memories I wont forget. I usually leave it all on the field so to speak.


Like my last whatever you wanna call it. My mars was a close sextile to her pluto(different gen, hers is in sagg) and her mars conjunct my pluto. The longing was definitely there as this was a tease for a while. I mean a while. It slowly heated up. At one point I began ignoring her texts because shit was going nowhere. Then one night, just out the blue( cuz my mars trines her Uranus too)everything popped off. And it was intense and shocking. It was very " Plutonic"in every way and Im still shocked. But at the same time, if you want complete honesty, I knew better. Couldnt help myself but I knew better and I probably wont go down that road again. Shes too destructive, toxic. Pretty girl, great personality but just incredibly toxic. And very suggestive and manipulative. And if I was to go down that road with her, it would end in my own destruction.


Man I got so many examples lol
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Thank you for your perspective from your side. I think the dude I deal with probably feels the same way. He practically begged me...well, he did, for me to end things and block him before because it was tearing him apart. I couldn't or should I say didn't want to...he's a grow man, if he wants to walk then tell me and walk. We then pretended that never took place. That was like a year ago. We have dw of mars/Pluto as well...square and a trine. Dw of venus square moon, His Venus falls in my 12th H (he drunkingly asked me to marry him after like a month and would randomly say it through out), a bunch of Saturn and his moon conjuncts my rising exact. My shit falls mostly in his 5th. We have moon and Venus in the 8th H composite... probably why this dynamic feels different. It's so peaceful...I mean I'm legit dying inside but we just work with each other ... everything flows except for starting convos...I think we are both afraid of saying the wrong thing.

Anyway, what was tearing him up before got worse and I walked for his sanity and mine...it was just too hard (we live at a semi close distance)...we talked it out, mutually agreed and told each other bye...for now lol.

Good times lol
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