Posted by malloryor
Hello Dxpnetters,
So I'm a Pisces Sun, Aries Moon, Leo Asc. but my mom's a Scorp/Sagg (Nov. 22) and my dad's the typical playboy, emotionally aloof (until he's angry...swear the man goes from 0 to 60 in a blink of an eye) Aquarius, born on Jan. 10. Originally I was going to ask for advice on how to deal with these types of people, because I don't understand them and they don't understand me. But now I think this is all a part of the bigger plan to help me grow and develop into my higher being. So I'm wondering if anyone else has stories about difficult parental relationships, familial relationships...difficulty with people you are SUPPOSE to feel extremely close with and how did it POSITIVELY affect you?
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
Hello Dxpnetters,
So I'm a Pisces Sun, Aries Moon, Leo Asc. but my mom's a Scorp/Sagg (Nov. 22) and my dad's the typical playboy, emotionally aloof (until he's angry...swear the man goes from 0 to 60 in a blink of an eye) Aquarius, born on Jan. 10. Originally I was going to ask for advice on how to deal with these types of people, because I don't understand them and they don't understand me. But now I think this is all a part of the bigger plan to help me grow and develop into my higher being. So I'm wondering if anyone else has stories about difficult parental relationships, familial relationships...difficulty with people you are SUPPOSE to feel extremely close with and how did it POSITIVELY affect you?
Jan.10 is Capricorn, Malloryor.
funnily enough, the two scorpio/sag ladies in real life celebrities (Miley Cyrus AND Scarlett Johannssen) both married to Capricorn sun men. how ironic. but both have scorpio moons.click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXPosted by malloryor
Hello Dxpnetters,
So I'm a Pisces Sun, Aries Moon, Leo Asc. but my mom's a Scorp/Sagg (Nov. 22) and my dad's the typical playboy, emotionally aloof (until he's angry...swear the man goes from 0 to 60 in a blink of an eye) Aquarius, born on Jan. 10. Originally I was going to ask for advice on how to deal with these types of people, because I don't understand them and they don't understand me. But now I think this is all a part of the bigger plan to help me grow and develop into my higher being. So I'm wondering if anyone else has stories about difficult parental relationships, familial relationships...difficulty with people you are SUPPOSE to feel extremely close with and how did it POSITIVELY affect you?
I don't think it positively affected me at all.
The only positive thing I can say about my experience growing up is that it made me a strong person who's not easily broken.click to expand
Posted by VirgoSquirrel
Honestly i don't think i would be the person i am if i did not go through this, just looking back and accepting myself and analyzing the whole thing would make one more mature and more sensitive. I don't think sensitivity is a bad thing neither.
Posted by malloryorPosted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
Hello Dxpnetters,
So I'm a Pisces Sun, Aries Moon, Leo Asc. but my mom's a Scorp/Sagg (Nov. 22) and my dad's the typical playboy, emotionally aloof (until he's angry...swear the man goes from 0 to 60 in a blink of an eye) Aquarius, born on Jan. 10. Originally I was going to ask for advice on how to deal with these types of people, because I don't understand them and they don't understand me. But now I think this is all a part of the bigger plan to help me grow and develop into my higher being. So I'm wondering if anyone else has stories about difficult parental relationships, familial relationships...difficulty with people you are SUPPOSE to feel extremely close with and how did it POSITIVELY affect you?
Jan.10 is Capricorn, Malloryor.
funnily enough, the two scorpio/sag ladies in real life celebrities (Miley Cyrus AND Scarlett Johannssen) both married to Capricorn sun men. how ironic. but both have scorpio moons.
Hahaha oops, oh well me and my dad aren't close. He acts like an aqua. But when did Miley get married??click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryorPosted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
Hello Dxpnetters,
So I'm a Pisces Sun, Aries Moon, Leo Asc. but my mom's a Scorp/Sagg (Nov. 22) and my dad's the typical playboy, emotionally aloof (until he's angry...swear the man goes from 0 to 60 in a blink of an eye) Aquarius, born on Jan. 10. Originally I was going to ask for advice on how to deal with these types of people, because I don't understand them and they don't understand me. But now I think this is all a part of the bigger plan to help me grow and develop into my higher being. So I'm wondering if anyone else has stories about difficult parental relationships, familial relationships...difficulty with people you are SUPPOSE to feel extremely close with and how did it POSITIVELY affect you?
Jan.10 is Capricorn, Malloryor.
funnily enough, the two scorpio/sag ladies in real life celebrities (Miley Cyrus AND Scarlett Johannssen) both married to Capricorn sun men. how ironic. but both have scorpio moons.
Hahaha oops, oh well me and my dad aren't close. He acts like an aqua. But when did Miley get married??
um you have aquarius venus and aquarius mars.
my mother in law has aquarius venus and she is very detached, although very kind, nurturing, but she seems to want a lot of space.
but she also has Jupiter aquarius.
and my husband's pisces sun uncle has aquarius venus, and he's married to a double libra with libra venus. Obviously that aquarius venus is strong, and so much so with you having aquarius mars.
and your energy is very detached I noticed.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8
i mean you feel emotionally aloof yourself. So, it's very very strange you say what you say. lol and ask for how to deal with it. heehee.
and i'm afraid to find out your anger, because you have aries moon to boot.
aquarius mars for men in my personal experience is one scary mofo.
the women are good though, at least in my personal experience.
EDIT -- as for MIley and Liam....
they supposedly had a "secret" wedding.
http://hollywoodlife.com/2016/02/17/liam-hemsworth-miley-cyrus-married-secret-wedding-australia-marriage/
Posted by Scenic
I'm trying to think of ways in which its positively affected me, but any positive things I can think of also come along with negatives. For instance, I'm emotionally strong, however along with that, I became closed off and never learned how to relate well to others. The negatives far outweigh the positives and I can't say whether I would have been emotionally strong or weak had I not experienced what I did. Maybe I would have been emotionally strong either way. If that's the case, I would have chosen the less toxic path to becoming that
Posted by malloryor
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Rather be out socializing than being off on my own somewhere, but I understand most people dont always want that connection 24/7 so Ill come on here haha
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
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Rather be out socializing than being off on my own somewhere, but I understand most people dont always want that connection 24/7 so Ill come on here haha
well you said you are outgoing, like a true extrovert feeding off people's energy.
that's airy/fire dominant.click to expand
Posted by malloryorPosted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
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Rather be out socializing than being off on my own somewhere, but I understand most people dont always want that connection 24/7 so Ill come on here haha
well you said you are outgoing, like a true extrovert feeding off people's energy.
that's airy/fire dominant.
Perhaps, but thats not aloof to me. I interpret my mom's emotional distance and my dad's literal physicsl, out of sight out of mind mentality as aloofness. Perhaps my definition is wrong hahaclick to expand
Posted by VirgoSquirrel
I relate... well mother is a cancer and my father a taurus, and growing up watching their relationship impacted me in a positive way. My dad has always been very violent with us, especially my mom, with his words. He would criticize everything she says or does, for basically no reason. He also cheated on her and did many things that made her feel sad. But what was shocking to me was how she kept it for herself. She would not tell anyone about it, not her best friends neither her family... and of course they never understood me neither : my dad used to tear down my drawings, threw my records, read my diary, and my mom put all of her expectations on me as i am the oldest of my brothers and sisters, and so put a lot of pressure on me too, as she would see me as her only hope.
Now how did that affect me ? Of course it made me insecure, hating myself, feeling guilty, being antisocial for a while, but today i am a different person. Now i avoid any kind of abusive relationship and wont tolerate any Man abusing me, it also made me independant. It took a very long time... it also made me compassionate i think, as being exposed to this develops compassion. It took a lot of time and i am still working on it, but i guess these kind of relationships make us more mature and stronger in time. It also made my relationship with my brother and sister extraordinary. We love and support each other so much, i would do anything for them. Also seeing my mom never talking and going through a long depression helped me realising how much talking to other people about personal issues is important, it helps thinking outside our heads and seeing the big picture, beyond the comfort it brings too
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryorPosted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
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Rather be out socializing than being off on my own somewhere, but I understand most people dont always want that connection 24/7 so Ill come on here haha
well you said you are outgoing, like a true extrovert feeding off people's energy.
that's airy/fire dominant.
Perhaps, but thats not aloof to me. I interpret my mom's emotional distance and my dad's literal physicsl, out of sight out of mind mentality as aloofness. Perhaps my definition is wrong haha
aloof, emotionally unavailable, that's not being very affectionate to your family and Significant other.
you don't reach out and cuddle, or huggles, and they (your family) can sense that.
you don't reach out to hold, or want closeness.
personal touch is part of a very affectionate and loving personality.
some parents just aren't very touchy and affectionate. but they do make up for it in ways of financial support and being there. but they lack in the sitting with you, holding you, and the snuggles.click to expand
Posted by thesculptor
I haven't seen my Aquarian mother in 21 years. She left after cheating on my Sag father. I couldn't remember her ever being affectionate with me. She had mostly ignored me and left me to be taken care off, along with my two brothers to the servants. The only thing I could always remember about her was how well-dressed she was, full-on make-up and passed out on the couch-drunk after another party. And I remember how I cried more than I ever did for her when one of the servants decided it was time to leave and go back to her family. She had never been much of a mother to me.