Limiting possibilities due to their sign

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by PuzzlePieces on Sunday, February 23, 2020 and has 26 replies.
Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.
I don't like the idea of letting astrology effect my real life but I ain't gonna lie, I would never consider a Cancer or Gemini as a life partner
Posted by peachy06

As a condemned venux rx, I will only care about myself.


😂

I’d be super eager to see who my Venus rx ex ends up marrying after having dated like 30+ women and claiming only they have been the issues
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by peachy06

As a condemned venux rx, I will only care about myself.


😂

I’d be super eager to see who my Venus rx ex ends up marrying after having dated like 30+ women and claiming only they have been the issues
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His Venus is in denial 😀
i never thought i'd be crazy over a capricorn man

a few threads insinuating their tendency for hair loss

yet here we are so....
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


Looks like you will have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a Cancer haha.
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Haha Cancer is Cardinal.
im only fucking gemini moons and venus from now on buncha hoes lol
I like this astrology stuff but I’m a bigger believer in nurture over nature.

But it is slightly rewarding when someone acts out the stereotypes of their signs/placements, I can admit that much.
Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?
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Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.

Posted by virgoOPPP

i never thought i'd be crazy over a capricorn man

a few threads insinuating their tendency for hair loss

yet here we are so....
Baldness Gene is on the X chromosomes. So look at his moms dad. Shit just to be safe look at both his grandpas.

Posted by virgoOPPP

i never thought i'd be crazy over a capricorn man

a few threads insinuating their tendency for hair loss

yet here we are so....
Haha hair loss. Neither Cap I dated had that problem but my dad did 😉
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by virgoOPPP

i never thought i'd be crazy over a capricorn man

a few threads insinuating their tendency for hair loss

yet here we are so....


Baldness Gene is on the X chromosomes. So look at his moms dad. Shit just to be safe look at both his grandpas.
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it doesn't matter to me really

curious to meet his grandparents though
Posted by 7thHouse
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.


I thought fixed signs are more prone to that? 😂 What is it regarding?
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Nope cardinal thinks they are the leader. Actually I don’t have an issue with Leo’s, it’s more like a partnership vibe. But of course, you must stand up to get the respect. Fire signs lol but Aries is a bit different
Posted by 7thHouse
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.


I thought fixed signs are more prone to that? 😂 What is it regarding?
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It can be about anything. All different things. They need to be in control.
Posted by 7thHouse
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.


I thought fixed signs are more prone to that? 😂 What is it regarding?


Nope cardinal thinks they are the leader. Actually I don’t have an issue with Leo’s, it’s more like a partnership vibe. But of course, you must stand up to get the respect. Fire signs lol but Aries is a bit different


I always find that if I need to get my point across and the other person is not listening, to give it time. Stop talking about it for now. Make the other person comfortable and then try again. But I only try 3x. That's my max. If its really not going anywhere, I just move on. Maybe it's not really a priority for the other person. But if it's a priority for me, I need to find someone whose priorities fit mine. I don't want to get exhausted everytime I need to get my point across.

My husband was stubborn to begin with. When I tried to talk to him about something that mattered to me when we were still dating, he just started closing off. I would insist and insist until we would fight. It never worked. Over the course of time, I learned that pushing doesn't work well. Finding a common ground does. Finding a compromise does. It's just a matter of figuring out what will work for both of you. That's of course, considering that both your end goals are the same.
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What sign is your husband? This works with some not others. It’s my view point now & why I cut some off quickly. Looking for something where this works better.
Posted by 7thHouse
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.


I thought fixed signs are more prone to that? 😂 What is it regarding?


Nope cardinal thinks they are the leader. Actually I don’t have an issue with Leo’s, it’s more like a partnership vibe. But of course, you must stand up to get the respect. Fire signs lol but Aries is a bit different


I always find that if I need to get my point across and the other person is not listening, to give it time. Stop talking about it for now. Make the other person comfortable and then try again. But I only try 3x. That's my max. If its really not going anywhere, I just move on. Maybe it's not really a priority for the other person. But if it's a priority for me, I need to find someone whose priorities fit mine. I don't want to get exhausted everytime I need to get my point across.

My husband was stubborn to begin with. When I tried to talk to him about something that mattered to me when we were still dating, he just started closing off. I would insist and insist until we would fight. It never worked. Over the course of time, I learned that pushing doesn't work well. Finding a common ground does. Finding a compromise does. It's just a matter of figuring out what will work for both of you. That's of course, considering that both your end goals are the same.


What sign is your husband? This works with some not others. It’s my view point now & why I cut some off quickly. Looking for something where this works better.


Well I guess just cut him off lol I have never experienced the same with Cardinal signs so I'm not sure. Maybe it's just not meant to be smile
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Well the Aries was different, and it took a long time before this appeared. Over a decade I’d say. Partially maybe cuz I just pretty much went with the flow. We were on the same page for a very long time. But when circumstances changed, the issue came up and looked like this. Or perhaps, as I did personal growth and was healthier. You know you learn lessons, do the work, and you choose healthy. I chose the healthy road, and he chose the unhealthy road instead of his family. That’s a hard pill to swallow after 17 years of marriage. So now when I see it so fast, I must close the door.
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.
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but how many cardinal signs have you met? Because if thats the case they are all like that and that isnt true. Everybody is more than just their sun sign or modality. But even so maybe you should find someone who is willing to respect your opinion and has a little more give or take.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Haha Cancer is Cardinal.


We're gonna pretend I'm Fixed.
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Lol what are your other placements?
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.

but how many cardinal signs have you met? Because if thats the case they are all like that and that isnt true. Everybody is more than just their sun sign or modality. But even so maybe you should find someone who is willing to respect your opinion and has a little more give or take.
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I’ve met quite a few. Married one (Aries), had serious relationship with another (Cap), and dated a few very short term ( cancer,Libra, cap included). I understand people are more than their sun sign, modality but it’s a little crazy the similarities too. I’m actually typically attracted to Cardinals probably cuz I’m cap dominant. just thinking about if that’s the smartest thing to allow them in my life.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Lol what are your other placements?


You won't find anyone more Cardinal than me and you already adore me hahaha.

Everything for me is Cardinal except Venus. I can love you fixedly haha.
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😂😂 I have a lot of Cardinal too 🙃 it’s just that damn sun that’s mutable! Lol
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Posted by PuzzlePiecesit’s just that damn sun that’s mutable! Lol


Oh lady, we can meet at night only than lol.
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😂😂 12th House so hmmm maybe not 😉
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Posted by 7thHouse
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Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.

but how many cardinal signs have you met? Because if thats the case they are all like that and that isnt true. Everybody is more than just their sun sign or modality. But even so maybe you should find someone who is willing to respect your opinion and has a little more give or take.


I’ve met quite a few. Married one (Aries), had serious relationship with another (Cap), and dated a few very short term ( cancer,Libra, cap included). I understand people are more than their sun sign, modality but it’s a little crazy the similarities too. I’m actually typically attracted to Cardinals probably cuz I’m cap dominant. just thinking about if that’s the smartest thing to allow them in my life.
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i see. That makes sense. What does it feel like. The attraction i mean, is it like a burning sensation. One you cant seem to escape? That sounds really tough
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Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by PuzzlePieces

Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.

but how many cardinal signs have you met? Because if thats the case they are all like that and that isnt true. Everybody is more than just their sun sign or modality. But even so maybe you should find someone who is willing to respect your opinion and has a little more give or take.


I’ve met quite a few. Married one (Aries), had serious relationship with another (Cap), and dated a few very short term ( cancer,Libra, cap included). I understand people are more than their sun sign, modality but it’s a little crazy the similarities too. I’m actually typically attracted to Cardinals probably cuz I’m cap dominant. just thinking about if that’s the smartest thing to allow them in my life.

i see. That makes sense. What does it feel like. The attraction i mean, is it like a burning sensation. One you cant seem to escape? That sounds really tough
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Chemistry, natural, like a sense of comfort.. especially the Caps. The Aries was also Cap moon so that makes sense. It’s a partnership thing, or so it feels until a problem comes up and they don’t budge, compromise, listen. I spent 20 years with the Aries.. and well it was good until it wasn’t.. until I realized I had no voice anymore. I’m not about to let that happen again.
Posted by Phantum

Unless you can see the full chart and have the kind of mind capable of crunching the data needed to actually see patterns by full charts (and let me just say that I don't think there is a human alive with that capability), you're just artificially limiting yourself.
Lol true. Life is funny. I just started talking to a Pisces who has possibility. Hmmmmm bad experience with one but that was 30 years ago. I can’t believe he let it slip his birthday while telling a story lol.. I was liking envisioning he was a fire sign 😂😂
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Do you do this?

I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.


What kind of issue?


Keep pushing what they want without considering my point of view. Have discussions, communication and it continues. It’s like my opinion, my point of view isn’t important. Haven’t had this issue with Leo’s and Virgos though. Pisces well that was more complicated.. and I was much younger.

but how many cardinal signs have you met? Because if thats the case they are all like that and that isnt true. Everybody is more than just their sun sign or modality. But even so maybe you should find someone who is willing to respect your opinion and has a little more give or take.


I’ve met quite a few. Married one (Aries), had serious relationship with another (Cap), and dated a few very short term ( cancer,Libra, cap included). I understand people are more than their sun sign, modality but it’s a little crazy the similarities too. I’m actually typically attracted to Cardinals probably cuz I’m cap dominant. just thinking about if that’s the smartest thing to allow them in my life.

i see. That makes sense. What does it feel like. The attraction i mean, is it like a burning sensation. One you cant seem to escape? That sounds really tough


Chemistry, natural, like a sense of comfort.. especially the Caps. The Aries was also Cap moon so that makes sense. It’s a partnership thing, or so it feels until a problem comes up and they don’t budge, compromise, listen. I spent 20 years with the Aries.. and well it was good until it wasn’t.. until I realized I had no voice anymore. I’m not about to let that happen again.
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wow 20 years..... With an aries.... I salute you.
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Posted by Phantum

Unless you can see the full chart and have the kind of mind capable of crunching the data needed to actually see patterns by full charts (and let me just say that I don't think there is a human alive with that capability), you're just artificially limiting yourself.


Lol true. Life is funny. I just started talking to a Pisces who has possibility. Hmmmmm bad experience with one but that was 30 years ago. I can’t believe he let it slip his birthday while telling a story lol.. I was liking envisioning he was a fire sign 😂😂


Hehe...might have a fiery rising, moon, etc.
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Aries Venus 😂