Men i want your viewpoint
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by DropOfJupiter on Friday, August 11, 2017 and has 25 replies.
Do you like it when a woman tells you she is interested in you? Or ask you out on a date?
only if I like her too 
I do. I usually take the initiative but I have great for women that do it. Even if I before that I wasn't interested you will score points. But straightforward, not mushy mushy.
like in the reverse case, it depends on the woman
Yeah it's fine. It's just that...
When most women reveal this to me...
It has always felt like a crossroads because most
do not keep in touch if I do not feel the same but
I want the friendship to keep going. So it's nice
and* I feel loved but I feel so nervous too...
When most women reveal this to me...
It has always felt like a crossroads because most
do not keep in touch if I do not feel the same but
I want the friendship to keep going. So it's nice
and* I feel loved but I feel so nervous too...
Sure why not
Posted by EvilHareHaha why?
Suspicious.
Posted by CapzRemind me which was it?
I prefer your old username
I am glad for all the answers! I was about to start using this method and now i am even more confident about it.
I have to be honest. I am just bored of waiting a man to come to me.Flirting works a bit so its ok too
I have to be honest. I am just bored of waiting a man to come to me.Flirting works a bit so its ok too
I don't think I've ever had a girl flat out tell me she's interested. And even when being asked out, they hint at it with something along the lines of, "hit me up sometime if you wanna hang out."
However, I have had girls come on very strong, and this is actually probably how I've hooked up the majority of the time. They don't tell me that they're interested or ask me out, they just kind of throw themselves on my lap and hit the accelerator.
However, I have had girls come on very strong, and this is actually probably how I've hooked up the majority of the time. They don't tell me that they're interested or ask me out, they just kind of throw themselves on my lap and hit the accelerator.
Yes. The myth that men don't like women to take the initiative is illogical (and rarely stated by men ourselves). Just be sure that the guy has romantic feelings toward you.
Also if be aware that if a guy isn't confident enough to ask you out, he's probably not confident in other ways as well.
Also if be aware that if a guy isn't confident enough to ask you out, he's probably not confident in other ways as well.
Posted by m200991Confidence is very attractivePosted by DropOfJupiterI think confidence is sexy, so... yes; however, I have an appreciation for flirtatiousness also (in that cat and mouse kind of exchange). I guess, to me, it would mostly depend on the environment I was in, but I wouldn't say it's never welcome.
Do you like it when a woman tells you she is interested in you? Or ask you out on a date?click to expand
Yes. The fact she is strong and brave enough to be upfront might even make me attracted to her if I wasn't prior. I admire women who just say it rather then hide it.
Posted by SoulThese are very good news!!! For some reason the whole relationship/dating process seems so confusing and even like you have to be very careful and strategic to get a boyfriend! Its funny. You can just begin by being upfront....
Yes. The fact she is strong and brave enough to be upfront might even make me attracted to her if I wasn't prior. I admire women who just say it rather then hide it.
Posted by DropOfJupiterSis I strongly advise against it.
I am glad for all the answers! I was about to start using this method and now i am even more confident about it.
I have to be honest. I am just bored of waiting a man to come to me.Flirting works a bit so its ok too
Posted by EvilHareIf I was you - I would be suspicious as well...
Suspicious.
Posted by SoulKeywords, might even.
Yes. The fact she is strong and brave enough to be upfront might even make me attracted to her if I wasn't prior. I admire women who just say it rather then hide it.
I feel like the men here aren't being honest about this subject. Or never actually experienced a woman ask them out.
Posted by DropOfJupiterThe most strategic seem the be the most successful.Posted by SoulThese are very good news!!! For some reason the whole relationship/dating process seems so confusing and even like you have to be very careful and strategic to get a boyfriend! Its funny. You can just begin by being upfront....
Yes. The fact she is strong and brave enough to be upfront might even make me attracted to her if I wasn't prior. I admire women who just say it rather then hide it.click to expand
Posted by DropOfJupiterYes. I like a woman who's confident and knows what she wants.
Do you like it when a woman tells you she is interested in you? Or ask you out on a date?
Don't mind at all. It does help if I already have strong feelings for her. I prefer chasing.
Posted by Arielle83WHAT? We got feelings too, Lady
I hit on this guy last night.
Told him I thought he was good looking.
Got his number.
Said I'd call him Thursday.
Then he kissed me.
Now I'll ghost him.
I'm not going to call him.
You call him!!!
And use protection!
Posted by Arielle83Call him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Posted by TheSagPosted by Arielle83WHAT? We got feelings too, Lady
I hit on this guy last night.
Told him I thought he was good looking.
Got his number.
Said I'd call him Thursday.
Then he kissed me.
Now I'll ghost him.
I'm not going to call him.
You call him!!!
And use protection!
Nope. Not interestedclick to expand
or send him a nude at least, as compensation...
well, I gave it my bestest best
Posted by Arielle83That's not our style , we crave for love only, true lovePosted by TheSagNaw he prob wants a root. He's a sag.Posted by Arielle83Call him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Posted by TheSagPosted by Arielle83WHAT? We got feelings too, Lady
I hit on this guy last night.
Told him I thought he was good looking.
Got his number.
Said I'd call him Thursday.
Then he kissed me.
Now I'll ghost him.
I'm not going to call him.
You call him!!!
And use protection!
Nope. Not interested
or send him a nude at least, as compensation...
well, I gave it my bestest best
I'm over my slut phase.click to expand
slut phase? If anything women get more horny with age from my view
Posted by Arielle83It just hurts being called a slut.....it hurts hurts hurts.....and hurtsPosted by TheSagEvery sag guy I know is slutty. So you're saying they don't mean to be?Posted by Arielle83That's not our style , we crave for love only, true lovePosted by TheSagNaw he prob wants a root. He's a sag.Posted by Arielle83Call him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Posted by TheSagPosted by Arielle83WHAT? We got feelings too, Lady
I hit on this guy last night.
Told him I thought he was good looking.
Got his number.
Said I'd call him Thursday.
Then he kissed me.
Now I'll ghost him.
I'm not going to call him.
You call him!!!
And use protection!
Nope. Not interested
or send him a nude at least, as compensation...
well, I gave it my bestest best
I'm over my slut phase.
slut phase? If anything women get more horny with age from my viewclick to expand
we just love the female body more than our lives, that's it
we are no sluts!
Posted by Arielle83Let me think about it for a moment to find an astrological answer for it...Posted by TheSagWhy do they keep coming to me!! They all younger. Is it my sag stellium? Or my Aries rising? Or my Leo mercury?Posted by Arielle83It just hurts being called a slut.....it hurts hurts hurts.....and hurtsPosted by TheSagEvery sag guy I know is slutty. So you're saying they don't mean to be?Posted by Arielle83That's not our style , we crave for love only, true lovePosted by TheSagNaw he prob wants a root. He's a sag.Posted by Arielle83Call him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Posted by TheSagPosted by Arielle83WHAT? We got feelings too, Lady
I hit on this guy last night.
Told him I thought he was good looking.
Got his number.
Said I'd call him Thursday.
Then he kissed me.
Now I'll ghost him.
I'm not going to call him.
You call him!!!
And use protection!
Nope. Not interested
or send him a nude at least, as compensation...
well, I gave it my bestest best
I'm over my slut phase.
slut phase? If anything women get more horny with age from my view
we just love the female body more than our lives, that's it
we are no sluts!click to expand
ok here we go:
1. they think you are hot and wild
2. you are older, so it makes them even more horny, especially when they think you are HOT
3. they don't want to seduce a 20 year old babe, cause she might not be that hot in their eyes and too much work
4. going for someone older is a challenge, especially when they are hot
5. they think hot older women might not use condoms at all, which turns them on a lot
6. they can be more relaxed and outgoing with women older than them, be more themselves instead of faking things
7. they are not interested in someone their age
8. they know it's easier talking to you, cause you won't check your facebook and Instagram permanently
9. they don't have to pretend to listen to you and fake interest in what you have to say because you don't pretend to be someone else either
10. yeah and probably that stellium thing
But we are no sluts!!
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