Need Help PLEASE
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by SadOne9299 on Thursday, October 22, 2015 and has 1 replies.
I met an Aries male at work. We began chatting through email and I ended up giving him my number. We hung out a few times and kissed. He was calling me at work, emailing me, stopping by my desk, having lunch with me, leaving gifts on my desk. He was always wanting to hang out and see me but due to two weeks of conflicting schedules, it wasn't possible but we still saw each other at work and text all the time in the meantime. Then he began blowing me off, he's too sick, too hungover from a wedding etc. So I told him it felt like I had to book an appt to hang out. He flipped and said he felt I was looking to date him and he isn't ready (he got dumped in March without explanation other than she wanted to be single but he was confused because according to him, the relationship was "perfect" and he has unanswered questions but they don't contact each other). I said, I never asked to date. I was just taking it day by day. He said it was the impression he got. So I'm confused because it was all him acting like we were more than friends. So, I confided in a mutual coworker (more his friend than mine) and asked him to find out what's up with him. Next thing I know, this guy ignores me and my texts for 3 days. I didn't know what to think, so I stopped by his other job to drop off cupcakes and was told "he wasn't there" even though his car was outside. He left out a back door when he found out I was there. He text me and said "you brought stuff to light at work and now you showed up at my job, that was the worst you could do. At this point, I don't want to hear from you. Keep work on a professional level. Don't reply to this text or contact me". His friend must have embellished our conversation we had or this guy is assuming there was more to the conversation than there was, because I didn't "bring anything to light". People already assumed something was going on with us because he was always hanging out in my area at work and not his and trust me, it got noticed. I feel he brought "more to light" than I did at work. The only reason why I stopped at his 2nd job was because we have talked every single day, then it stopped when I spoke to his friend. His mom had surgery the day before I spoke to his friend so I honestly thought something happened. I meant no harm and was trying to be thoughtful with the cupcakes.
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