Hello, ok i'm new to these boards so heres my problem. I'm a scorpio and have met this girl who has really got me hooked. I'm like a little puppydog. I met her down the beach and we started talking we got on well and went back to her friends place to watch a film. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. It was really intimate, passionate and firey. We have seen each other nearly everyday since then and get on really well but the problem is that i'm feeling as if shes not telling me everything and hiding it something from me. I know she's friends with her Ex boyfriends mother and that makes me really jelous knowing that she still has some sort of contact with him. When I phone her and she does'nt answer I instantly assume that shes off with someone else or that shes playing mindgames with me, or that she doenst like me(even though she's told me that im amazing and that it feels like shes known me for ages)! I would love nothing more than to confront her about this and ask her and delve deep into her business but I know that is wrong and I shouldnt be so obsessive, but I cant help it.
I would appreciate any advice people can give!
Thanks
Matt.
I dated a Leo fem for a while...hard to fig out at times...you try to get her to open & express her feelings...but in my case she was hurt very badly by her husb...and although she never sd it I felt in my heart she did love me...then again im a pisces...dreamer...lol
I am a leo female who keeps in touch with my ex's family on special occassions as we had two kids together. Were it not for the children, we would not be as close I am sure. My attitude is simple, I divorced the man not his family. They are kin to my children and will always be welcome in my home.
I would be flattered if somone was upset if I was in touch with my ex but VERY annoyed if they were upset about his mother. We don't talk about him - just the kids and things going on in my life. I had a date get upset once when he met her during a visit. She had come into town and stopped by to see the kids.
It made me think less of him in the end and he was VERY SOON HISTORY.
I also have a leo male friend who took care of his former mother in law when she was ill. His ex wife could not afford to despite being remarried and so he did it. I thought highly of him and still do.
I am very good friends with my first boyfriend's sister. We've stayed close 22 years after he and I broke up. I have not seen him in YEARS and don't EVER talk about him with her. He is a faded teenaged memory as far as I am concerned. She on the other hand is good people - not worth tossing aside because of him.
I believe in loyalty and will take care of those in my inner circle. That is a typical leo trait!
THAT SAID.
Try to find out in a round about way, what they talk about.
Do they get together often or is it primarily a phone relationship. Does she keep their conversations secret?
Jealousy can be flattering to the leo ego but not the overly obsessive kind. If you try to control her with it, she will bolt. If you show you care within reason she will feel special.
If you really want to hold on to her, be a little aloof at time, pretend not to be bothered. That will keep her guessing. Leo needs a little challenge sometimes.
Hope this helps you out.
Cocoa