New to board and need help with Leo Woman.

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Cymru on Sunday, June 25, 2006 and has 4 replies.
Hello, ok i'm new to these boards so heres my problem. I'm a scorpio and have met this girl who has really got me hooked. I'm like a little puppydog. I met her down the beach and we started talking we got on well and went back to her friends place to watch a film. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. It was really intimate, passionate and firey. We have seen each other nearly everyday since then and get on really well but the problem is that i'm feeling as if shes not telling me everything and hiding it something from me. I know she's friends with her Ex boyfriends mother and that makes me really jelous knowing that she still has some sort of contact with him. When I phone her and she does'nt answer I instantly assume that shes off with someone else or that shes playing mindgames with me, or that she doenst like me(even though she's told me that im amazing and that it feels like shes known me for ages)! I would love nothing more than to confront her about this and ask her and delve deep into her business but I know that is wrong and I shouldnt be so obsessive, but I cant help it.
I would appreciate any advice people can give!
Thanks
Matt.
I dated a Leo fem for a while...hard to fig out at times...you try to get her to open & express her feelings...but in my case she was hurt very badly by her husb...and although she never sd it I felt in my heart she did love me...then again im a pisces...dreamer...lol
I know a leo woman and a scorpio man that have been together for 7 years now - this is one of those interesting mixes of elemental signs (fire and water - similar to a Taurus and Pieces or a Cap and Scorpio) and I have to say firsthand that this relationship definately has potential - I just got out of a relationship with a Leo and I have to say that even though we've spent the past one and a half years everyday together - (both signs are very much alike - they can be clingy and there's alot of emotional fulfillment in the relationship) and just as you feel that she may be hiding something it was the same thing with me - (I didn't find out about all of the past relationships she had until AFTER we broke up for example and even after we broke up there she was able to move on but she was still jealous of my infactuations as well) though I have to say that Leo's are very devoted people and I'm sure there's nothing to worry about - believe it or not though - your jealousy will actually make her feel more secure about the relationship between the both of you - Leos love the attention - the thrill of the chase - she may be doing this just to see if you really care about her or not - but I assure you that with these two personalities things should run rather smoothly - you both may have your differences but @ the same time you're both very devoted people as well - (I'm a Cap by the way - I was dating this Leo for about one and a half years before she couldn't take my workaholicism - despite that I was trying to make ends meet - it was overall a difficult relationship because of our diverse combination of personalities) chances are though that even though you may delve into her business - she's just as likely to delve into yours as well - like I said these signs are very much alike and therefore the similarities may ultimately bring you both closer together - best of luck! smile
I am a leo female who keeps in touch with my ex's family on special occassions as we had two kids together. Were it not for the children, we would not be as close I am sure. My attitude is simple, I divorced the man not his family. They are kin to my children and will always be welcome in my home.
I would be flattered if somone was upset if I was in touch with my ex but VERY annoyed if they were upset about his mother. We don't talk about him - just the kids and things going on in my life. I had a date get upset once when he met her during a visit. She had come into town and stopped by to see the kids.
It made me think less of him in the end and he was VERY SOON HISTORY.
I also have a leo male friend who took care of his former mother in law when she was ill. His ex wife could not afford to despite being remarried and so he did it. I thought highly of him and still do.
I am very good friends with my first boyfriend's sister. We've stayed close 22 years after he and I broke up. I have not seen him in YEARS and don't EVER talk about him with her. He is a faded teenaged memory as far as I am concerned. She on the other hand is good people - not worth tossing aside because of him.
I believe in loyalty and will take care of those in my inner circle. That is a typical leo trait!
THAT SAID.
Try to find out in a round about way, what they talk about.
Do they get together often or is it primarily a phone relationship. Does she keep their conversations secret?
Jealousy can be flattering to the leo ego but not the overly obsessive kind. If you try to control her with it, she will bolt. If you show you care within reason she will feel special.
If you really want to hold on to her, be a little aloof at time, pretend not to be bothered. That will keep her guessing. Leo needs a little challenge sometimes.
Hope this helps you out.
Cocoa

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