Pisces married to Leo but cannt stop thinking of Virgo ex
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Falafudge on Wednesday, March 15, 2017 and has 29 replies.
Are you for real? Instead of bonding with your new son, you think about a past lover? Why?
And what is this: " I never expected this from a virgo, i thought that once they dump you they don't change there minds. " When did he change his mind? HE DID NOT CHANGE HIS MIND. Someone wanting something doesn't stop at a "message" he might have sent or not, and you might have received or not.
If he really did change his mind, he might have married you by now, and you would be fantasising about the Leo or someone else!
And what is this: " I never expected this from a virgo, i thought that once they dump you they don't change there minds. " When did he change his mind? HE DID NOT CHANGE HIS MIND. Someone wanting something doesn't stop at a "message" he might have sent or not, and you might have received or not.
If he really did change his mind, he might have married you by now, and you would be fantasising about the Leo or someone else!
Posted by Undine^This.
Are you for real? Instead of bonding with your new son, you think about a past lover? Why?
And what is this: " I never expected this from a virgo, i thought that once they dump you they don't change there minds. " When did he change his mind? HE DID NOT CHANGE HIS MIND. Someone wanting something doesn't stop at a "message" he might have sent or not, and you might have received or not.
If he really did change his mind, he might have married you by now, and you would be fantasising about the Leo or someone else!
Also are you saying that the Leo you're currently with is not the "love of your life"? It's one thing to wonder about "what if" scenarios, it's another to be with someone and think that someone else could have been the actual "one" for you. You see the issue here right?
I'm going to suggest that for your own sanity and the future of your current relationship you really look into the Virgo's actions. You have no idea if what he's saying is even true. He thought you were ignoring him, but then realized the message never went through...sooo why didn't he try to message you at that point? HE'S the one that broke it off remember? It's HIS job to reconnect with you. He sent one failed text? Did he try to call? Virgos are pretty diligent and thorough, I'm not buying it.
Also you're married with a kid now. He doesn't seem to really care about that too much does he by telling you all of this? What exactly could you possibly do with that information? Sounds like he's being selfish.
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Posted by cvurkoFucking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before ?
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!
I'm going to try my best to be polite because I think you have baby brain!! Your hormones are probably all over the place. Cut contact with this guy. If he really wanted you he would have kept pursuing, never mind the message that didn't send, what a load of crap. That wouldn't have stopped him.
You have a husband and a new born to focus your energy on, the past is the past and don't allow your Pisces fantasy brain to run away with the fairy's.
You have a husband and a new born to focus your energy on, the past is the past and don't allow your Pisces fantasy brain to run away with the fairy's.
another Pisces nutcase
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Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Lol, you have to show us that side of you now!Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by cvurkoFucking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before ?
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!
I am a man with many faces. *dramatic music playing*
Haha I'm the same but I tend to be quite serious on here. On Twitter I'm known for being a sarcastic bitch ??
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I feel it may be wasted on here, or people will think I'm just being a bitch and dont get my humour, there seems to be a lot of tension lately from threads I've read. I can't be arsed getting involved in that kind of drama.
Posted by cvurkoHahaha I've been warned Americans don't get sarcasm. Maybe I'll allow my playful side out ?Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Lol, you have to show us that side of you now!Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by cvurkoFucking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before ?
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!
I am a man with many faces. *dramatic music playing*
Haha I'm the same but I tend to be quite serious on here. On Twitter I'm known for being a sarcastic bitch ??
I feel it may be wasted on here, or people will think I'm just being a bitch and dont get my humour, there seems to be a lot of tension lately from threads I've read. I can't be arsed getting involved in that kind of drama.Someday you'll let your sarcastic side out. I'll be watching!
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Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Good I'm not American. Fck everybody else.Posted by cvurkoHahaha I've been warned Americans don't get sarcasm. Maybe I'll allow my playful side out ?Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Lol, you have to show us that side of you now!Posted by cvurkoPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by cvurkoFucking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before ?
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!
I am a man with many faces. *dramatic music playing*
Haha I'm the same but I tend to be quite serious on here. On Twitter I'm known for being a sarcastic bitch ??
I feel it may be wasted on here, or people will think I'm just being a bitch and dont get my humour, there seems to be a lot of tension lately from threads I've read. I can't be arsed getting involved in that kind of drama.
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not american
Posted by cvurkoPosted by d0s3rPosted by cvurkoidk why they make these threads
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you too.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!click to expand
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidPosted by cvurkoYou know I think you're onto something here lolPosted by d0s3rPosted by cvurkoidk why they make these threads
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you too.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!click to expand
Posted by cvurkoWell it's sad if you're left with one conclusion when it's the wrong one.Posted by DamnataI am left with the conclusion that every now and then you just type "Pisces" in the search box and figure out ways to mock us poor beingsPosted by cvurkoPosted by d0s3rPosted by cvurkoidk why they make these threads
Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you too.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!click to expand
Speaking of Pisces behavior, be nice and watch this video..and then come back and deny with a straight face that this is how all of you are on the inside (i give props cuz some of you repress it better than others but you just cannot dispute the fact):
I'll have to tell you a story about this Bulgarian Pisces dude but I still am working on the overall presentation. It's like life makes my points for me.
Posted by the_sunflowerExactly!
Well Virgos don't exactly move on that easily, I don't know where other people get that from. They are hurt but keeps their emotions inside to work on the healing process
Poor virgo, but you're married now. Is it reasonable to go off with the Virgo now that you're married. He will find someone else
Don't be looking back to the past..its never what we idealise it to be. We look back and think it was all roses when really we were looking at it through rose coloured glasses.
The relationship didn't work for a reason back then and the Virgo did not love you enough to try to work it out over a communication/misunderstanding. Just be thankful that you've dodged a bullet as this may be a constant cycle had you worked things out with the Virgo..
Let your past go and block your ex from contact as I think it may help you move on. Focus your attention on the new baby and your Leo man. They're way more deserving than a what if from the past.
The relationship didn't work for a reason back then and the Virgo did not love you enough to try to work it out over a communication/misunderstanding. Just be thankful that you've dodged a bullet as this may be a constant cycle had you worked things out with the Virgo..
Let your past go and block your ex from contact as I think it may help you move on. Focus your attention on the new baby and your Leo man. They're way more deserving than a what if from the past.
Whew! I know Pisces had lots of interests. So many they cant make up there mind
Be aware! Its not a good thing to have two ?
Be aware! Its not a good thing to have two ?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeNot sure what OP's question has to do with the golden ratio. Also as far as we know OP's Leo is probably happy since they got married and just had a kid.
Another Pisces ready to destroy their marriage.
@Chuckcem and this what chasing the golden ratio gets you
Are Leos ever in happy relationships
Nope.
Not one
Rarely
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeHahah I said we're drawn to it, never said we chased it. I also said that we're drawn to charisma and intelligence. I never said that we marry women based on physical beauty alone, which you're assuming OP's Leo has done. You're also assuming that OP is going to ultimately break the sanctity of her marriage with her husband based...on her looks?Posted by ChuckcemPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeNot sure what OP's question has to do with the golden ratio. Also as far as we know OP's Leo is probably happy since they got married and just had a kid.
Another Pisces ready to destroy their marriage.
@Chuckcem and this what chasing the golden ratio gets you
Are Leos ever in happy relationships
Nope.
Not one
Rarely
You said Leo men chase beauty
This is what beauty gets you. A disloyal heffer
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@ OP
7 year itch happening to you madam nothing else.
If you are sensible you will not ruin what you have for something which is not even there .
I also agree with others here about this virgo. If he was a nice guy he would not put confusing thoughts in your mind. Plus the msg didnt go through and he realised it later is all crap and you are buying it .
7 year itch happening to you madam nothing else.
If you are sensible you will not ruin what you have for something which is not even there .
I also agree with others here about this virgo. If he was a nice guy he would not put confusing thoughts in your mind. Plus the msg didnt go through and he realised it later is all crap and you are buying it .
Take your mind off some man and focus on being a mum and give your son all of your attention. Before you know it, he will be grown up. Within a heartbeat, they become adults
Cherish it, not waste it on some guy.
Cherish it, not waste it on some guy.
Posted by marshmallowYea it could be the 7 year itch! I'm not going to leave my husband and my family. My husband is a great guy and I know I'm very lucky to have him. I may be a Pisces but I do have my head in the real world aswell :p I guess it was just so out of the blue it has me shocked. It wasn't what I expected from him. Thanks for your kind words and advice! So many people have used my post to talk badly out Pisces as if the other signs are all perfect! Thanks for being one of the nice ones!
@ OP
7 year itch happening to you madam nothing else.
If you are sensible you will not ruin what you have for something which is not even there .
I also agree with others here about this virgo. If he was a nice guy he would not put confusing thoughts in your mind. Plus the msg didnt go through and he realised it later is all crap and you are buying it .
Posted by the_sunflowerNo it's not reasonable! I guess I just needed to vent and have someone listen to me from the outside. I'm not thinking about leaving my husband for my ex but it just opened up a whole lot of "what ifs" for me which is stupid I know. I have just been in shock hearing that from him after all this time. I guess after a few days of thinking rationally I know that things would never have worked out between us if things had panned out differently and we had had a 2nd chance and I wouldn't have meet my Leo. Things do happen for a reason and I need to look at what i have in front of me right now. Thanks for your advice from the Virgo viewpoint.
Well Virgos don't exactly move on that easily, I don't know where other people get that from. They are hurt but keeps their emotions inside to work on the healing process
Poor virgo, but you're married now. Is it reasonable to go off with the Virgo now that you're married. He will find someone else
Posted by FalafudgeMay be you wont leave your husband but if you have some one else in your mind then you will affect you relationship with your husband. And just think of it , if your husband knows that you are having almost romantic heart to heart conversation with some one then how would he feel. Imagine your husband not being in your life anymore , you can understand his value then .Posted by marshmallowYea it could be the 7 year itch! I'm not going to leave my husband and my family. My husband is a great guy and I know I'm very lucky to have him. I may be a Pisces but I do have my head in the real world aswell :p I guess it was just so out of the blue it has me shocked. It wasn't what I expected from him. Thanks for your kind words and advice! So many people have used my post to talk badly out Pisces as if the other signs are all perfect! Thanks for being one of the nice ones!
@ OP
7 year itch happening to you madam nothing else.
If you are sensible you will not ruin what you have for something which is not even there .
I also agree with others here about this virgo. If he was a nice guy he would not put confusing thoughts in your mind. Plus the msg didnt go through and he realised it later is all crap and you are buying it .click to expand
Every one enjoys attention and the feel that you are very much loved and wanted by someone. This feeling is a lot of time missing in a stable relationship . Monotony of life takes away excitement from it. I am sure mostly after child birth . If your husband is bad and you both dont love each other then its different . If the leo is good guy then he doesn't deserve this. Its in your hands ..you can put a halt at this stage or later it becomes difficult to turn back .
Posted by FalafudgeAll the bestPosted by marshmallowYour right! He's now deleted and blocked!Posted by FalafudgeMay be you wont leave your husband but if you have some one else in your mind then you will affect you relationship with your husband. And just think of it , if your husband knows that you are having almost romantic heart to heart conversation with some one then how would he feel. Imagine your husband not being in your life anymore , you can understand his value then .Posted by marshmallowYea it could be the 7 year itch! I'm not going to leave my husband and my family. My husband is a great guy and I know I'm very lucky to have him. I may be a Pisces but I do have my head in the real world aswell :p I guess it was just so out of the blue it has me shocked. It wasn't what I expected from him. Thanks for your kind words and advice! So many people have used my post to talk badly out Pisces as if the other signs are all perfect! Thanks for being one of the nice ones!
@ OP
7 year itch happening to you madam nothing else.
If you are sensible you will not ruin what you have for something which is not even there .
I also agree with others here about this virgo. If he was a nice guy he would not put confusing thoughts in your mind. Plus the msg didnt go through and he realised it later is all crap and you are buying it .
Every one enjoys attention and the feel that you are very much loved and wanted by someone. This feeling is a lot of time missing in a stable relationship . Monotony of life takes away excitement from it. I am sure mostly after child birth . If your husband is bad and you both dont love each other then its different . If the leo is good guy then he doesn't deserve this. Its in your hands ..you can put a halt at this stage or later it becomes difficult to turn back .click to expand
Posted by FalafudgeGood plan!Posted by ChuckcemYour so right! I guess that information is not relevant now and it's not going to change anything. It's in the past now so i acknowledge it but ignore it as it's too late. It was just a shock for me. He had his chance but he dumped me. I have an amazing husband and I need to focus on him and our marriage. I'm going to block my ex. Thanks for listening to me vent.Posted by Undine^This.
Are you for real? Instead of bonding with your new son, you think about a past lover? Why?
And what is this: " I never expected this from a virgo, i thought that once they dump you they don't change there minds. " When did he change his mind? HE DID NOT CHANGE HIS MIND. Someone wanting something doesn't stop at a "message" he might have sent or not, and you might have received or not.
If he really did change his mind, he might have married you by now, and you would be fantasising about the Leo or someone else!
Also are you saying that the Leo you're currently with is not the "love of your life"? It's one thing to wonder about "what if" scenarios, it's another to be with someone and think that someone else could have been the actual "one" for you. You see the issue here right?
I'm going to suggest that for your own sanity and the future of your current relationship you really look into the Virgo's actions. You have no idea if what he's saying is even true. He thought you were ignoring him, but then realized the message never went through...sooo why didn't he try to message you at that point? HE'S the one that broke it off remember? It's HIS job to reconnect with you. He sent one failed text? Did he try to call? Virgos are pretty diligent and thorough, I'm not buying it.
Also you're married with a kid now. He doesn't seem to really care about that too much does he by telling you all of this? What exactly could you possibly do with that information? Sounds like he's being selfish.click to expand
So.... imma try to keep this as simple as possible...
- Why do you have contact with your ex? If you found out your husband was keeping in contact with one of his exes, how would you feel?
- Honestly, did you get with Mr.Leo just to get revenge on Mr.Virgo? Because why is it that Mr.Virgo was able to see every memorable moment you and Mr.Leo shared.. Example: marriage, childbirth, birthdays etc...
- You are a mother now, and nothing is wrong with your marriage.. (unless there is, but you're too ashamed to admit) Why would you think about going backwards and messing up your future?
- Why did you and Mr.Virgo breakup? (This would bring a better understanding to the situation)
My advice to you is Focus on your happy home, I've noticed that with me when people from the past come around that mean that something good is coming my way... negativity always tries to stop positivity... FOCUS MISSY, FOCUS!!!
- Why do you have contact with your ex? If you found out your husband was keeping in contact with one of his exes, how would you feel?
- Honestly, did you get with Mr.Leo just to get revenge on Mr.Virgo? Because why is it that Mr.Virgo was able to see every memorable moment you and Mr.Leo shared.. Example: marriage, childbirth, birthdays etc...
- You are a mother now, and nothing is wrong with your marriage.. (unless there is, but you're too ashamed to admit) Why would you think about going backwards and messing up your future?
- Why did you and Mr.Virgo breakup? (This would bring a better understanding to the situation)
My advice to you is Focus on your happy home, I've noticed that with me when people from the past come around that mean that something good is coming my way... negativity always tries to stop positivity... FOCUS MISSY, FOCUS!!!
Posted by Falafudge
... what if I lost he love of my life.
Ouch. And your Leo was the man you settled for?
While these are just thoughts you've allowed them to question the commitment you've made to another.
Sure love can't be measure by time, however I would bet that there are many more moments over those 7 years where your Leo was right by your side despite the difficulties you faced, while the Virgo bailed over a "silly fight". He had the opportunity to patch things up and gave up after one message. Noticing a theme here?
But carry on.... continue to question what might have been when you have what is in front of your face.
Posted by cvurko
Shoot me. Shoot me now.
ya'll need to find jesus.. #notachristian
Posted by FalafudgeGood girl! You should have done this a long, long, long, long, LONG, time ago! I am NOT friendly with ANY of my exes! All of them are blocked from FB, cell, AND my heart! "A lesson learned!"Posted by marshmallowYour right! He's now deleted and blocked!Posted by FalafudgeMay be you wont leave your husband but if you have some one else in your mind then you will affect you relationship with your husband. And just think of it , if your husband knows that you are having almost romantic heart to heart conversation with some one then how would he feel. Imagine your husband not being in your life anymore , you can understand his value then .Posted by marshmallowYea it could be the 7 year itch! I'm not going to leave my husband and my family. My husband is a great guy and I know I'm very lucky to have him. I may be a Pisces but I do have my head in the real world aswell :p I guess it was just so out of the blue it has me shocked. It wasn't what I expected from him. Thanks for your kind words and advice! So many people have used my post to talk badly out Pisces as if the other signs are all perfect! Thanks for being one of the nice ones!
@ OP
7 year itch happening to you madam nothing else.
If you are sensible you will not ruin what you have for something which is not even there .
I also agree with others here about this virgo. If he was a nice guy he would not put confusing thoughts in your mind. Plus the msg didnt go through and he realised it later is all crap and you are buying it .
Every one enjoys attention and the feel that you are very much loved and wanted by someone. This feeling is a lot of time missing in a stable relationship . Monotony of life takes away excitement from it. I am sure mostly after child birth . If your husband is bad and you both dont love each other then its different . If the leo is good guy then he doesn't deserve this. Its in your hands ..you can put a halt at this stage or later it becomes difficult to turn back .click to expand
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
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