Sag getting serious about the relationship?
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by C642 on Sunday, March 16, 2014 and has 5 replies.
I started dating a Sagittarius male a few months ago (I'm a cancer female) and before we started dating I told him that in previous relationships when my boyfriend had started talking seriously about the whole marriage, kids and spending the rest of our lives together, it really scared me since I wasn't ready for that kind of relationship. When we first met he was a complete commitment phobe, refused to even consider marriage and didn't ever want a relationship.
A couple of months later (I don't know how I did it) but he was pretty much eating out the palm of my hand and has been ever since, he's 100% committed and tells me he loves me every day. What surprised me the most was that he's been talking about kids and our future together quite a lot. He's already named our kids and keeps talking about how we'll have to look after our friends and families children together. He talks about our future together quite a bit, not so much the distant future but stuff later in the year and next year as well as talking about how much of a good husband he'd be. I was always told that sagittarius' didn't talk about that kind of stuff so I'm confused. Does this normally happen? How can you usually tell if a sagittarius thinks you're their soul mate or is serious about you?
A couple of months later (I don't know how I did it) but he was pretty much eating out the palm of my hand and has been ever since, he's 100% committed and tells me he loves me every day. What surprised me the most was that he's been talking about kids and our future together quite a lot. He's already named our kids and keeps talking about how we'll have to look after our friends and families children together. He talks about our future together quite a bit, not so much the distant future but stuff later in the year and next year as well as talking about how much of a good husband he'd be. I was always told that sagittarius' didn't talk about that kind of stuff so I'm confused. Does this normally happen? How can you usually tell if a sagittarius thinks you're their soul mate or is serious about you?
He probably remembers what you told him before you started dating and is now trying to sabotage the relationship, and escape.
How can you tell if we think you're our soulmate or are serious about you? Um...by talking about a future together and how we'll be good fathers and marriage etc.
Posted by StillWater
Eating from the palm of your hands? Smh.
So were you trying to manipulate him when you mentioned about your ex and commitment issues?
Then we wonder why good guys are hard to find. I hate manipulative behavior.
*puke*
Bingo and thats exactly what thought. He probably picked up on the "eating from the palm of her hand" mentality from the get go and his instincts told him to run. Then his mutability kicked in and said proceed and gave her the benefit of the doubt. Now, he sees her for who he is and I actually think he's serious about wanting marriage. Most likely he told her that after an argument. Is he trying to manipulate her? Yes, but not in a bad way. By being honest about what he wants he, he gives her the choice as to whether theyre together or not and gets to see where her head is really at. If she says shes not ready etc, he instantly gets the answer he needs to move away or stay...but the responsibility falls on her because she made the choice.
Posted by aquavitaPosted by beautifulsoul74
How can you tell if we think you're our soulmate or are serious about you? Um...by talking about a future together and how we'll be good fathers and marriage etc.
plus 10 =) the good sag speaking here. yes.click to expand
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