am Sag women dating a Leo man. We were dating for six months. The first four months were great but for the last two months we have an argument every week. The arguments happen when I ask him about communication. After six months of dating I believe we should talk on the phone at least once a day, well that's what he got me use too especially on the days we don't see each other. To be honest any question I ask I have to accept the answer whether it makes sense or not. He claims the questions I ask hurt his feeling and make him feel guilty. He either gives me the silent treatment or he goes on texting rampage telling me I don't appreciate him and every character fault he has I rub in his face. So finally last night he said he doesn't want to see me any more because he doesn't feel like arguing with me and his choice was hard because he loves me. I'm okay with ending the relationship but I'm hurt for a couple of reasons; I feel like it's so sudden, I love him and I wasn't arguing with him when I asked the questions. I chose my words carefully. What gives? Why is he so angry with me? As a Sag I just want to know because I really don't understand.
Sag women and Leo man

Posted by Bambi1180
am Sag women dating a Leo man. We were dating for six months. The first four months were great but for the last two months we have an argument every week. The arguments happen when I ask him about communication. After six months of dating I believe we should talk on the phone at least once a day, well that's what he got me use too especially on the days we don't see each other. To be honest any question I ask I have to accept the answer whether it makes sense or not. He claims the questions I ask hurt his feeling and make him feel guilty. He either gives me the silent treatment or he goes on texting rampage telling me I don't appreciate him and every character fault he has I rub in his face. So finally last night he said he doesn't want to see me any more because he doesn't feel like arguing with me and his choice was hard because he loves me. I'm okay with ending the relationship but I'm hurt for a couple of reasons; I feel like it's so sudden, I love him and I wasn't arguing with him when I asked the questions. I chose my words carefully. What gives? Why is he so angry with me? As a Sag I just want to know because I really don't understand.
Be careful when dealing with a Leo man. The can be very deceptive. One for the simple fact that you are expressing a need to him, and he iss ignoring your feelings, and twisting every thing to make you look like the bad guy, is making me believe that it is much deeper than he is letting on. My suggestion is to let him be...If he is the one for you, then he would be willing to open up more, if it would put a smile on your face, not break it off..Leo men have a way of doing dirt, and when confronted, either pretend that the problem never existed, or they shift blame...From one Sag woman to another, be careful with Leo men..They can hurt a Sag woman tremendously...

Also, I believe that Leo men find Sag women kind of clingy...which is a turn off to them...Just to be fair...And by you demanding more conversation from him, comes off as needy and clingy...Be ware of that also...Just my two cents...Be strong, and do not bend easy for him, because he will definitely use that to his advantage, and try to use you for sex, money, ect....

@Easha: pretty much true and that's exactly what's going on. Classic bait and switch.
Thank you for replying. At this point is okay for me to ask why is he so angry. This stupid question keeps running through my mind. I don't want be a stalker or anything. If it was me initiating the break up I would explain.
I was thinking If I keep telling myself I'm okay with the breakup I'll start to believe it but I'm pissed because I actually tried my best to be sensitive to his feelings. I'm a true Sag and my mouth does get crazy but I kept it tame when it came to him. I spoke to him earlier today. He claims the questions I ask are insulting. He says I know the answer to the question but I strategically try to hurt him when I don't get what I want, basically I'm a spoiled brat. Lol, f... It, two tears in a bucket. I almost gave him my soul, he's the first guy that had me caught up. I guess you live and you learn.

I was with you till you got to this:
I have this problem with *some* Sag women.
Example?
You bet.
I was staying with a Sag friend, and while she was at work I let her dog out-- once in the morning (so she didn't have to) and then again for the majority of the afternoon until she got home.
One day the dog chewed up something of hers or peed on the floor (I don't remember which), and I when I told her she said via text (so she had time to think)--
"Oh my gawwd... has she been outside today?"
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No. I kept her caged all day long and then lied to you about it, just like I always do.
That's just one example, and yes-- I was insulted.
Posted by Bambi1180
He claims the questions I ask are insulting.
He says I know the answer to the question but I strategically try to hurt him when I don't get what I want
I have this problem with *some* Sag women.
Example?
You bet.
I was staying with a Sag friend, and while she was at work I let her dog out-- once in the morning (so she didn't have to) and then again for the majority of the afternoon until she got home.
One day the dog chewed up something of hers or peed on the floor (I don't remember which), and I when I told her she said via text (so she had time to think)--
"Oh my gawwd... has she been outside today?"
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No. I kept her caged all day long and then lied to you about it, just like I always do.
That's just one example, and yes-- I was insulted.

Leo men are pretty okay.
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