same birthday + same year

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by laurathealien on Wednesday, August 1, 2012 and has 12 replies.
Have you ever been with anyone with the same day as well as year of birth as you?
I hooked up with this guy last summer pretty much primarily based on the fact that we have the exact same chart besides our ascendants.
Funny enough, there is barely any chemistry and we really don't have much of a connection at all.
What do you think of the? Do you think because he is "the male version of me" that it changes things?
Have you met your identical and what was that like?
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Having the same birthday as somebody means absolutely nothing. I know a guy who has the same birthday as me (same year so same placements) and we have nothing in common. Our personalities are like night and day. Lets just say I wouldn't even touch his nasty ass with a 10 feet pole and no amount of hallucination drugs will suddenly make me see him in a pleasant light and make me attracted to him.
Him:
-Major slut
-Got some ho pregnant a 16 and still to this date trying to get out of paying child support.
-Was in and out of juvy as a teen for fighting/drugs. Still occasionally running into trouble with the law.
-Egomaniac
-Morals??? Huh?? What's that??? Never heard of it.
-hustler. people-user.
Me:
Complete opposite of everything above. COMPLETE OPPOSITE.

We may have had different upbrinings but we went to the same high school, grew up in the same neighborhood and saw similar violence on the streets.

It's pretty naive and uneducated to think that just because you have the same birthday as somebody that you're gonna have similar personalities, interests and moral codes (I'm not directing this at you or anyone in particular).
Different upbringings, different life experiences, differnent enviroments, different influences etc These things should be taken into account.
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You even hear about actual twins ending up with totally different personalities (same parents, same upbringings but none of that even mattered in those cases, right?
One of them is a successful doctor while the other one's in jail serving time for first degree murder. It could happen *shrugs*
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Yeah its true.
And that's what I find so I teresting about all this, how all the exact placements can hav different effects on you depening onoutside influences.
Still, when I talk to him I try to search for some of the same instincts that I may have.
It really just proves the depth to astrology even futher, that sometimes certain things in your chart may be stronger than others.
Like the "immature" or "mature" sign, and the ability to harness the positive aspects of each sign.
Some hold more of the "dark" characteristics of s ign, and some the more positive ones.
When's your birthday/whats your sign?
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YES! I almost met someone who has the same day and year. But he was born in the morning. We scheduled a date. It was an online thing, well a day before we are suppose to meet; my car died and I was stranded outside of the city and couldn't get home. I had to stay with my sister for nearly a week. I couldn't get in touch with the guy. By the time I get home, I see the messages he left me and he thinks I'm blowing him off. I sent a message to explain but he was not having it. Claiming he couldn't read my messages, they were blank and he couldn't figure out how I got him email. LMAO! I let it go. A few weeks go by he sends me a flirt online and I accept it. He responds with a rejection. I had a feeling he would do that, so I found all the other flirts he sent me and rejected him right back. ZING!!
I think the angels were tinkering with my car to make sure I didn't meet this guy. Sounds like there would have been two many head games and insecurities.
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So true!! I didn't really consider that all the house placements would change (with a different ascendant). I guess that makes a big difference. Still though...
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Posted by laurathealien
Yeah its true.
And that's what I find so I teresting about all this, how all the exact placements can hav different effects on you depening onoutside influences.
Still, when I talk to him I try to search for some of the same instincts that I may have.
It really just proves the depth to astrology even futher, that sometimes certain things in your chart may be stronger than others.
Like the "immature" or "mature" sign, and the ability to harness the positive aspects of each sign.
Some hold more of the "dark" characteristics of s ign, and some the more positive ones.
When's your birthday/whats your sign?



sadge. dec 20 1989
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Wouldn't that just lead to all conjunctions? So the relationship could easily go good or bad...
My best friend and I, have the same chart. And were best friends... But I imagine dating a carbon copy of me, would get far too boring and predictable.
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There is a website that lets you meet your exact birthday twin in cyberspace. I do not have it right now.
I know a birthday twin, but she is female. And our Ascendants are in conflict so we don't get along. BUT we have certain patterns that is beyond coincidence. And I met her again on a trip. Small world.
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Oh man, that is pretty neat.. The whole pattern thing and meeting them accidenty in real life. Nuts.
I think I'm starting something with this same bday guy. We've been hooking up and it seems like it will be continuing on that path.
Were both leo sun/pisces moons with a Venus in cancer and mars in Taurus (any thoughts?)
Two nights ago I tried kind of explaining him the whole astrology thing and why its so neat we have the same birthday, but he wasn't that into it. He asked "so do you think were the same?"
And I said "no.."
Which I don't. But its still really interesting to me.. Its like a mini little science experiment.
And I do also like him, but I'm not getting attached caus I know how it goes, and he has a reputation (like me) and if he's anything like me getting attached will only be a bummer in the end.
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Posted by laurathealien
Have you ever been with anyone with the same day as well as year of birth as you?
I hooked up with this guy last summer pretty much primarily based on the fact that we have the exact same chart besides our ascendants.
Funny enough, there is barely any chemistry and we really don't have much of a connection at all.
What do you think of the? Do you think because he is "the male version of me" that it changes things?
Have you met your identical and what was that like?



Funny I have. When we see each other (we are just friends now) we introduce each other as "twin" to other people. Similar to you, there was no chemistry. I just thought it was because we--actually let me speak for myself--wasn't that into him, and I was technically dating another Scorpio that I was into a bit more. No "technically" about it. We were dating. I am just trying to justify my cheating . My "twin" was dating someone else too. I can't say if it was or wasn't because we are so much alike, because truthfully we didn't date long enough, but WE were VERY similar in personality. A little scary actually.
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I should add, when I say very similar in personality I simply mean how we viewed things and responded to situations. I our decision to just be friends though was more about the fact that although we were attracted to each other, we just weren't interested enough in each other to let go off who we were more into. Simple as that. We've been friends for about 12 years.
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