scorpio female and capricorn males

Need Help,

I'm new of course so forgive me if I didn't post in right place. OK, I'll jump right in.
I'm a 34 year old scorpio female. Lately I have had at least 3 different capricorn men fiercly pursue me.. and when I say fierce I mean they want to pull me away from the croud, monopolize my time and profess very sincere sounding adorations my way. Very over the top things like "when I look in your eyes I get mesmorized" This has happened more than once with each of these men. The problem lies that when I give them an opportunity to date me they turn cold or even cancel or chicken out all together.
Last night I went out on a date with one cappy who I am very interested in and he went on and on about how I was making his heart beat so fast and his palms sweet. It was true because when I held his hand he was clammy as a schoolboy. After our very short date he sent me 3 txt messages of how wowed and enamored he was with me. As a scorpio, this worked on me and started to tear down my walls!!! When I woke up the next morning I had a sinking feeling in my gut and sure enough, I don't hear from him and when he reaches me it is if he has done a total 180. Everything I read looks like scorpio female and cap men and a great match so I'm very confused and these 3 men coming at me with such intensity and then retreating or even rejecting me. Help help help. I don't know whether I'm doing something wrong, putting off a bad vibe or do I just need to give up on cappy men...

I too am curious to see if you did respond to the messages, I suppose it doesn't matter what is said.

We caps totally love you scorpios ladies. Something you have to recognize though is that most of us (the good ones) are just as sensitive as you are. So while we profess our absolute awe of you, there has to be something for us to recognize that you are interested in us too.

Something an old girlfriend said about me is that she thought I needed to date someone with a little more patience, because she didn't have any! So there might be some truth to that with capguys, just a dose of patience.

virgogotome and caper,

thanks for helping. Of course there is always much more to every story.

I'll start from the beginning. I met him on a saturday night 3 weeks ago. Short meeting and introduced by a friend. Didn't really feel anything for him, was on my way to a concert so I was just thinking about getting there.
Saw him 1 week later at a downtown bar/club. He immediately started in on how I had the most beautiful lips, legs and that looking into my eyes was killing him. The ironic thing was that another capricorn at the same bar later was chasing me and saying the exact same words. word for word the same!!! I agreed to go out with him for sushi that upcoming monday... he asked me for my number and I gave it to him.
Sunday moring I sent him a txt and said "did we make plans to go to kofusion Monday night" I got no response and was hurt because he was the 2nd guy to do that to me. Again ironically the other capricorn asked me out for wednesday and he also cancelled.

OK, so I had all but forgot about cap #1 when last friday night, I walk right past him late at night leaving a club. I need to regress a minute and say that each time I have seen him I have been wearing very striking party dresses that pretty much stop traffic with most men. I'm so tall with an athletic body that I just have that effect. If I had the face to go with it I'd be dangerous. My face is just average however.... anyways. He of couse stops me an wants to talk. I said to him "kenny you are 41 yrs old divorced with 4 kids, you should know better than to ask out a single mom and let her get a sitter just to not respond was not cool." he agreed and started in again that I was soooo beautifull with my eyes, lips and legs. he was begging me for another chance and wanted to see me sunday night. I reluctantlly agreed. since it was only friday night and we werent going out until sunday he spent saturday sending me txt messages telling me I was hot and calling me a couple times. I took all the compliments well and let him know I was excited to see him again. He even asked me If I could go to a rams game about 4 hours away because he got tix at the last minute. He was very dissapointed that I couldnt go.
sunday came and he ended up having to have his kids so our date was only about 1.5 long. we had dinner and walked around.

Continued.

He spent the entire date showering me with compliments and telling me how he has only ever felt this way for 1 other lady in his whole life and that was his ex wife. He was sitting there talking about us playing golf together, go on motorcycle rides. Wanting to know when I had my kids so he could know if we have our kids on the same weekends (which we do turns out. After the date I sent him a txt "thanks for dinner, had a nice time...Kiddos r busy playing guitar hero.
He had sent me a txt already but I didn't have it yet. It said "all I can say is WOW"

He then sent another txt that said Had a nice time as well. My boys luv that game. I will call u tmrow. Sweet dreams babe...
He then sent another one that said. Goodnight beautiful. i will dream about u and those seet kisses.

The next day I woke up with a sinking feeling (call it scorp intuition) I really thot after all the messages he sent me over the weekend and after our date that he would have sent me one first thing in the morning. He didn't finally around 11 AM I sent him one that said " did I tell you that you looked really hot last night. He didn't respond and finally the suspense was killing me and even thought I knew it was a mistake I called around 2.30 pm. He answered hey beautifull I'm in a meeting and will call you back. He called back and he did a total 180. He was saying that we needed to take thing slow and not be trying to plan so much. he then was talking about his ex wife (he and I are both recently divorced) they were having dinner and getting school supplies for thier kids. I just felt he wasn't even the same guy.
I realize he can't spend every waking momment showering me with attention but this was hot one minute and cold the next. I'm wondering if he is just not ready because of his ex or if he wants me very badly and I just need to be patient. Either way I'm terrified of being hurt by this guy. Obviously I like him so much because I just spent the last 20 minutes typing out these messages in desperate hope for some sincere help!!!

update,

suspense still killing me with this guy....
I sent him a txt that said:
"hey big sexy, would it put a smile on your face if I said I will think of you at least 2 times today"

his response was:
"absolutely, hope u r having a nice day. thinking of u. Kenny

so at least I got a response and I let him know he is on my mind from time to time. Little does he know that he is on my mind big time all the time

scorpio73,

I'm a cap guy and I think that patience is key for me, but the scorps my age don't have any patience and I get overlooked because they think I am not interested. I'd continue being a little bit patient but be clear with him what you are looking for, I think the best thing with us is to be strait forward.

i've been pursued by a pack of Caps myself. It's strange. They are strange men. You have to call them out on their shiiit, or else they'll think that they are successful fooling you and/or that your dumb. They make great friends for me but i think I'd like to stay with their opposite, the crab. good luck!