Scorpio guy.. I dont understand him
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by wateraries on Monday, February 28, 2011 and has 4 replies.
If you truly felt the scorp wouldn't care, you would not uave let go of the other guys hand. No?
1. You barely know this guy. Not trying to rain on your parade, but you shouldn't be allowing him & the crush you have on him, the power to make decisions in your relations with other men.
2. Before you allow your head to drift off into the sky, try re-focusing your energy on actually getting to know this guy past an infatuation or "classroom" level. For all you know, he may not be as golden or all that you've cracked him up to be once you finally get to know him.
3. His reasons for not coming to school for those couple of months probably had nothing to do with you. And if they did, that's a problem. This guy barely knows you either & if he's willing to sacrifice his education & stop being focused all b/c of a girl he barely knows & has barely talked to, that's not necessarily a GOOD thing honey.
4. He probably does like you...to an extent...he's probably feeling the same intensity that you're feeling. But make no mistake about it, those feelings won't become "real" unless there's some kind of foundation/friendship (anything other than just looking/staring at eachother) becomes a reality & happens.
5. If he really does like you, it's understandable that he'd feel a twinge of guilt, jealousy or rejection after seeing you with another guy, BUT then again we're not in high school anymore. If he wanted you, he should've stepped his game up & went after you! Giving you the silent treatment or acting weird towards you now is immature, especially considering he may not have felt so jealous/down had he stepped his own game up & did what he had to do to win your affection.
6. If you want him, you've got to be up front with him about how you feel about him. If you ever expect to have anything with him in the future, communication & the ability to effectively express your emotions AND be vulnerable is a MUST. It's basic 101. W/o that, all you 2 will ever be is merely 2 people "crushing" on eachother & I'm sure that's not what you want. If you're already going into this close-minded to telling him how you feel, then how do you ever expect for a relationship or anything stronger than just a "crush" to lift off the ground?
2. Before you allow your head to drift off into the sky, try re-focusing your energy on actually getting to know this guy past an infatuation or "classroom" level. For all you know, he may not be as golden or all that you've cracked him up to be once you finally get to know him.
3. His reasons for not coming to school for those couple of months probably had nothing to do with you. And if they did, that's a problem. This guy barely knows you either & if he's willing to sacrifice his education & stop being focused all b/c of a girl he barely knows & has barely talked to, that's not necessarily a GOOD thing honey.
4. He probably does like you...to an extent...he's probably feeling the same intensity that you're feeling. But make no mistake about it, those feelings won't become "real" unless there's some kind of foundation/friendship (anything other than just looking/staring at eachother) becomes a reality & happens.
5. If he really does like you, it's understandable that he'd feel a twinge of guilt, jealousy or rejection after seeing you with another guy, BUT then again we're not in high school anymore. If he wanted you, he should've stepped his game up & went after you! Giving you the silent treatment or acting weird towards you now is immature, especially considering he may not have felt so jealous/down had he stepped his own game up & did what he had to do to win your affection.
6. If you want him, you've got to be up front with him about how you feel about him. If you ever expect to have anything with him in the future, communication & the ability to effectively express your emotions AND be vulnerable is a MUST. It's basic 101. W/o that, all you 2 will ever be is merely 2 people "crushing" on eachother & I'm sure that's not what you want. If you're already going into this close-minded to telling him how you feel, then how do you ever expect for a relationship or anything stronger than just a "crush" to lift off the ground?
She is trying to be careful for other person's sake. Isn't that a tender and caring thing to be applauded? Good on you for trying to figure this out wateraries. I try to gauge the situation too when trying to make a connection with someone.
I hate to be let down by lame excuses or situations where people assume about us Aries. Yes we are confident and capable people, but we are very loving and great people to be in relationships and so what if we like to make things work out for everyone in the dating world.
Good luck wateraries, I definitely think my advice would be to play it cool and caring, and slow, so that the Scorpio finds you as a great match. A way to find common ground. Which you could assume is how everything works, but we are talking two different energies here, Aries and Scorp, but I think it is great chemistry.
I hate to be let down by lame excuses or situations where people assume about us Aries. Yes we are confident and capable people, but we are very loving and great people to be in relationships and so what if we like to make things work out for everyone in the dating world.
Good luck wateraries, I definitely think my advice would be to play it cool and caring, and slow, so that the Scorpio finds you as a great match. A way to find common ground. Which you could assume is how everything works, but we are talking two different energies here, Aries and Scorp, but I think it is great chemistry.
Thanks everyone for your answers, I really appreciate it!
I know I should get to know him as friends first, I wont tell him at once "Hi, I'm in love with you!" because that would just be really weird and he would probably be scared of me. I just dont know HOW to just, after three years (this is our last months, we end school for good soon), start talking with him about random stuff. He is always with his "gang" (his friends) and I'm with my friends. We dont really hang out or talk.
I assume he wont take the first step?
I know I should get to know him as friends first, I wont tell him at once "Hi, I'm in love with you!" because that would just be really weird and he would probably be scared of me. I just dont know HOW to just, after three years (this is our last months, we end school for good soon), start talking with him about random stuff. He is always with his "gang" (his friends) and I'm with my friends. We dont really hang out or talk.
I assume he wont take the first step?
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