Scorpio-male/Geminis-female ignoring the female!!!

I am very confused here and need a little help please!

I met online this Scorpio on July 2013, in the time I was living far away from him, but he knew I would move near to him soon and this happened, now I live in California and he lives in Arizona.

Long story short, we had a pretty good romance, he is 14 years older than me, but it wasn't a reason for not good sex life between us, i have to admit he was a little too close minded when comes to sex, anyway we had a very good mind chemistry, i really felt good around him, but sex was a little odd.

In January I decide to break up with him I was a little tired of his close minded relate with sex and affection, anyway, after the break up I just went on with my life, but he started to send msg a month later, so we got together again.

We were happy, good sex, nothing spectacular, but good enough, at the last time we got together we had misunderstood situation and I acted a little to child and bossy, we end up our night great though. Next day I went back home without giving him a kiss or talking to him like I did before, I was a really hurt because he did hurt me a little too, he went back home, at the same day he sent me a text saying he had my ring ( my beautiful silver ring from Peru), I really wanted to take the ring back right away, he refused, but he said I will not lose it.

Next day I sent an email to him apologizing if I had hurt him, for my surprise my email never got a reply, then I sent a one week later, never a reply, yesterday ( three weeks later) I sent an email asking my ring, it was a present from somebody special to me, and NEVER A REPLY back.

I don't know what to think anymore, he is 50 years i don't think a man would act like that, I know he is not dead, I can see him online, so What should I do? Why this man is not responding to me?

Could somebody please help me with this? Why he would stay with my ring, and why he doesn't answer? I am not going after him at all, I just want the ring I forgot with him. What should I do—

(Sorry my English, I am from Brazil)

Thank you guys, its really upsetting this situation

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What a jerk, I hope he doesn't keep your ring.

Probably he wants to hold onto something that reminds him of u either that or getting bkk at u for u guys last visit and u not kiss him or hug like u usually do he felt some type of way perhaps..

I had a guy keep my laptop and aircard before and threatened to keep it then eventually gave it bkk.. like some power control type ish...smh

I couldn't imaging doing that myself to another person. His actions show the person he really could be.

Thank you

That's true his colors are showing...everything happenes for a reason

He's using it as a pawn to hurt you & to keep himself relevant in your life. i.e. he's playing mind games.

He knows that the ring is important to you. He also knows that if he keeps it, it might cause you some pain & discomfort. Pain and discomfort that he feels you may have put him through. In other words, he's being very vindictive and vengeful.

He's holding out on talking to you b/c he wants to see you squirm. He wants to see you break a sweat. And the more & more you feed into it & ask him desperately for it, the more his plan of making you suffer will work & the more he's going to get a thrill out of having something to hold over your head.

Try this strategy from here on out: Ignore him. Stop bringing up the ring. Once he sees that you're no longer willing to let him see you sweat, he'll be surprised & alarmed at the fact that you're no longer predictable & that maybe, just maybe, you have moved on. This will bother him. Why? B/c if he was truly done with you, he wouldn't purposely be holding onto something that has your name written all over it. If he was done, he'd want everything that reminds him of you, out of his site.

The minute you use reverse psychology & give him the impression that he & that ring are no longer relevant or worth you chasing, he'll suddenly come back, wanna talk & may even agree to give you the ring...not b/c he truly wanted to give it back to you, but b/c he'll be looking for the next best way to hold something over your head that he feels will keep you locked in and keep him relevant in your life.

So yeah, stop reaching out to him. Technically, if he truly has no plans on giving it back, you weren't gonna get that ring back anyways regardless of how much you beg, cry & plead. And if his intention isn't to ever give it back to you, then you'd be wasting your time spending countless hours trying to make someone budge that never planned on bending to begin with.

If you just can't possibly let it go, then take the case to small claims court. If you have pictures of the ring or proof that it belongs to you, then a police officer or judge can subpoena him to give it back to you. Hopefully that would be the last resort, BUT I'm telling you this b/c there are things you can do & consequences that will be enforced when a person tries keeping/stealing your property. Hell, you'd be surprised...maybe even telling him that you filed a claim in court will scare him into giving it back to you.

Oh and if he does in fact give it back to you, don't ever go back to him again. A person who will purposely withhold something of value to you is NOT someone who truly values or loves you. A man who's 50 years old is already halfway through his lifespan. If he's petty, immature & vindictive now, he'll most likely always be that way. Can't change a man who's stuck in his ways. No one has been able to pull it off & change him so far, so don't think you'll be the 1st to do so. Goodluck

I would make a report on him lol.. why he keeps something which is not belong to him? that ring is your property.. he should give it back to you no matter what (be him your bf stranger doesn't matter - the ring is still yours to have and keep) .. yea, it may be just about a ring (not that I'm saying the silver ring doesn't mean much to you.. in fact, you wrote it is very important to you!), but still .. be it men or women, people should know and respect boundaries..

properties?!

get back your ring, (report him to police if you must) and don't reconnect with the man.. the guy keeps your property against your will & plea.. and even not responding to your emails?? wth?

write him another email saying - I request you to return my ring, and if you don't respond to this email or my request this time, I'm going to make a small claim on it at court.

and see what the guy does.. if he returns your ring, then have it back and leave the guy
if he doesn't, go with the claim plan & have your ring back, and leave the guy

He gave the ring to a mature woman who appreciates him?