Scorpio Man/Gemini Woman

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by grae64 on Monday, November 1, 2010 and has 14 replies.
I'm a Gemini Girl with Scorpio Risings. I am a bit different than most Geminis I know, and I find that I am mostly attracted to Scorpio men. My boyfriend is Scorpio and the connection is like nothing I have experienced with any other man.
scorpios and gemini's can be really good friends and lovers!
Scoprio men are attractive to me once we get talking. I LOVE talking to them BUT i've never had enough luck with them for a relationship. Although one I was recently talking to was really sweet and he seemed like such a gentleman etc, we had agreed to meet up a few times but I cancelled and so did he once and then poof, he dissapeared.
- What kind of compatibility is there with this match?
None, because Geminis are superficial, fickle, unreliable... Exactly the opposite a Scorpio is looking for.
If you are a Scorpio you know that those traits will turn you off once you get to know this Gemini person. Don't waste your time.
This combo can work, but it will not be effortless. When you run into issues, they could be amplified because of the differences in the basic natures of Gemini and Scorpio. I am a Gemini woman married to a Scorpio man. Like a lot of Geminis, I am magnetically drawn to water signs. All of my previous Scorpio relationships were total train wrecks! I think I get along well with my husband because I have a Scorpio rising and he has a Gemini rising. It might give us both a little more empathy, because when our differences rear their heads we can still see a little of ourselves in the other.
Posted by grae64
What kind of compatibility is there with this match? What are general traits of a Scorpio man? I have never really dealt with a man in this sign before?


My best friend is a Gemini,she just got married and had a baby with a scorpio man,they are so cute together,he's so supportive and sweet,he let's her be herself,and he's a very attentive partner I think,he is very intense with his feelings,sometimes I think it's good for a Gemini because it helps them get in touch with there's..I have heard that it's not a good match ,but they proved that wrong seems to me.
Seems to be a popular match, honestly. It doesn't read like it would work, but it does.
Posted by wineaux
bitter, party of 1?


HA!
I love my scorp. Hes such a great guy and I know I drive him beyond insanity because his eyebrows go way low an he jus looks at me like he may be considering kickin me to the curb in the next few days but the man has a sense of humor thats larger than life. Laughter is what gets us by. Hes my first scorp an im hoping to be the very last man for me of any sign..he broods alot and it upsets me because he tends to be more harsh wit himself..or down on himself than of anyone else..any male scorp wanna give a little insight there? I can coax him out of it usually..just takes some time doing so and in that time it freakin sucks. He has the jealousy side but in the last two or three months Ive noticed its easing a bit. I can only say its because of our growth as a couple. Every article ive read of gems and scorps so its a no go but i do so believe its dead wrong.
Come to think of that Sporticus from Lazy town how he cuddle that pink haired girl. Sporticus is a Scorpio and the girl is Gemini with Scorpio Moon although they both have the same AC. A little bit pedophilia but it works.
Posted by geminigrrrl
I'm a Gemini Girl with Scorpio Risings. I am a bit different than most Geminis I know, and I find that I am mostly attracted to Scorpio men. My boyfriend is Scorpio and the connection is like nothing I have experienced with any other man.


me too, same thing, Gem with Scorpio rising, I was with a Scorpio and it was fantastic.
Posted by DazedScorp
And why is that?


cuz you sound like a slore.
i've always thought gemini and aries were the best matches for a scorp. on paper, maybe no, but the real life situations seem to do well.
Posted by grae64
What kind of compatibility is there with this match? What are general traits of a Scorpio man? I have never really dealt with a man in this sign before?


A scorpio man can be hard to read- yes this is coming from a female scorpio but its true- i went out with one for over a year and most of the time was spent with me attempting to read his emotions. Alot of males have fixed opinions- but can be very funny, yet want to "dominate" control their women. They make statements not suggestions. I was told by my scorpio bf at the time that he didn't want me going to clubs and shaking my thang even though i attempted to convey that i was just trying to have some fun and that he should trust i won't be disloyal- he told me that it wasn't me he couldn't trust but the other guys at the club- which is a fair statement. But it did irritate me cause i do not like guys restricting my freedom. You can see the disconnect.
I know a gemini woman/scorpio man couple who have been together for years and are now expecting their first bundle of joy together and i am so happy for them, they are also engaged. They have a wonderful house together and all the chores seem to be evenly disbursed, and both display the image of a solid happy couple.
I went with a gemini man for years and for the most part we had lots of fun. We had instant chemistry. We probably could have made it work but after years of indecisiveness on his part and built up resentment on mine, i finally just packed up and and scooted far away to a different state.
Good luck you have just as much chance of making this work as the next