Posted by PotHeadVirgo27????? lawd let the comments begin ?
Sex on the first date means a nut has been busted. That is all.
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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI always played it safe by not ever going there for at least a couple of months-until I am comfortable with them and it feels right. Until I met my Aries-I think it was on the 2nd date OOPS! I felt pretty guilty about it but I was needing it, and I believe he too so whatever! That was 9 months ago, we're living together now. That scenario told me never say never lol!
Why? Why Not?
SUN, MOON, VENUS?
Posted by LibraLovesHimI guess when it's right or needed ... just go for it regardless of the outcome.. great story ?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI always played it safe by not ever going there for at least a couple of months-until I am comfortable with them and it feels right. Until I met my Aries-I think it was on the 2nd date OOPS! I felt pretty guilty about it but I was needing it, and I believe he too so whatever! That was 9 months ago, we're living together now. That scenario told me never say never lol!
Why? Why Not?
SUN, MOON, VENUS?click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaNice! What's his sun moon Venus?
It has for me
Oh I'm Scorpio with Cancer moon, Virgo Venus
Posted by m200991????????
I mean.... do I really need to use a date as an excuse to make it justifiable, haha? I've had 'Hello, Nice to Meet You, You're Hot' sex before. I'd hardly call that a date.
Pisces, Cancer, Aries
Posted by dewiklaessen25Amen to that honey ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYes can happen you don't buy a car without a test drive do you ?
Why? Why Not?
SUN, MOON, VENUS?
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Sagittarius
Venus: Leoclick to expand
Posted by BiboroonBoo got that good Kitty ?❤️
All my relationships started after having sex on the first date. Was lucky enough that nobody dumped me right after, I guess. Libra Pisces Virgo
Posted by dewiklaessen25Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI had sex on the first date with my sagg and now 2,5 years together my previous relationship of 5 years i also had sex the first date must be my chiron,vesta jupiter,chiron in the 8th house this is what is says you should look up your chart too.Posted by dewiklaessen25Amen to that honey ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYes can happen you don't buy a car without a test drive do you ?
Why? Why Not?
SUN, MOON, VENUS?
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Sagittarius
Venus: Leo
I either attract men with alot of money or alot of good sex or both i heal my partners through sex
Chiron in the 8th house: This shows your deepest wound residing in resource, death, and sex. There are many different ways this placement can express itself. Materially, it can manifest through dependence on others or others depending on you too much. Physically, it can manifest through difficulties in feeling fulfilled sexually, yet being able to fulfill partners easily. Emotionally, it can manifest in great sorrow regarding death. Possibly having deaths in your early childhood or having those close to you die. You may be able to console those who are feeling sorrow, but are unable to console yourself. Whichever these are, the important thing to remember is to respect yourself, accept the cycles of life, and let go. You can heal each of these wounds by being honest and upfront. You must learn to share your emotions in order to transcend them. You know transformation lurks behind disaster better than anyone. Clear the soot. Embrace the change.click to expand
Posted by SweetLily_89Now that's skills ?
I've never been on a date, let alone dated anyone before sex. It was always a hook up/Fwb situation that led to a relationship.
Leo, Virgo, Virgo
Posted by dewiklaessen25Yes... I always get the ora when I walked into a room even when I sit in the corner and no matter what I have on! I always be like I'm no different from the girl in that sexy dress but they always seem to gravitate to me... also, I used to always look away from people because they used to stare at me a lot, and made me uneasy so I had no idea about the stare until recently... I've been staring now since and it actually makes me laugh when men look away like you're too much lol...Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSScorpio rising gives you a very penetrating stare and you ooze sexuality that will also attract alot of men.Posted by dewiklaessen25Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI had sex on the first date with my sagg and now 2,5 years together my previous relationship of 5 years i also had sex the first date must be my chiron,vesta jupiter,chiron in the 8th house this is what is says you should look up your chart too.Posted by dewiklaessen25Amen to that honey ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYes can happen you don't buy a car without a test drive do you ?
Why? Why Not?
SUN, MOON, VENUS?
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Sagittarius
Venus: Leo
I either attract men with alot of money or alot of good sex or both i heal my partners through sex
Chiron in the 8th house: This shows your deepest wound residing in resource, death, and sex. There are many different ways this placement can express itself. Materially, it can manifest through dependence on others or others depending on you too much. Physically, it can manifest through difficulties in feeling fulfilled sexually, yet being able to fulfill partners easily. Emotionally, it can manifest in great sorrow regarding death. Possibly having deaths in your early childhood or having those close to you die. You may be able to console those who are feeling sorrow, but are unable to console yourself. Whichever these are, the important thing to remember is to respect yourself, accept the cycles of life, and let go. You can heal each of these wounds by being honest and upfront. You must learn to share your emotions in order to transcend them. You know transformation lurks behind disaster better than anyone. Clear the soot. Embrace the change.
Very interesting analysis! I don't know how to look it up... recently I learned my rising is in Scorpio due to a possible birth time between 3-6pm (born in Jamaica so have to go back to see the actual time). that would be a great help...people message me things that appear to fit me based on my discussions and it helps me to find my houses and such if I can say yes that's me after reading it lol... a lot I don't know about myself.
Now as for you, wow that is amazing that you have that ability and congratulations to you and your partner as well ❤️ This may also explain why some do have relationships after and why some don't, because it's not supposed to happen based on their chart or placements. Some should wait and some should leap into it... I never knew the chart could be so deep that could help analyze the directions you've been going or headed. Thanks for that.
Whats your venus and in what house is it placed ?click to expand
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by BiboroonBoo got that good Kitty ?❤️
All my relationships started after having sex on the first date. Was lucky enough that nobody dumped me right after, I guess. Libra Pisces Virgoclick to expand
Posted by carrazedaIt was meant to be.... for awhile ?
With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..
We stayed together 6 1/2 years.
I'm cancer, gemini, leo.
She aries, aquarius, aries.
Posted by SweetLily_89
I've never been on a date, let alone dated anyone before sex. It was always a hook up/Fwb situation that led to a relationship.
Leo, Virgo, Virgo
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSShe tried to break-up for the last year and a half of the relationship. Feelings were there but we had been living in separate cities for three years. Three months after we finally had our last conversations, 9 months after our last holidays together, I told her I met someone that I really liked. She hated me. Badly. Now, three months after the hating phase, she restarted to text me. She misses me and thinks about all the time, she says. :/Posted by carrazedaIt was meant to be.... for awhile ?
With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..
We stayed together 6 1/2 years.
I'm cancer, gemini, leo.
She aries, aquarius, aries.click to expand
Posted by carrazedaGo get her... dilemma but it's clear something is still therePosted by SPUNKYTAURUSShe tried to break-up for the last year and a half of the relationship. Feelings were there but we had been living in separate cities for three years. Three months after we finally had our last conversations, 9 months after our last holidays together, I told her I met someone that I really liked. She hated me. Badly. Now, three months after the hating phase, she restarted to text me. She misses me and thinks about all the time, she says. :/Posted by carrazedaIt was meant to be.... for awhile ?
With my ex gf we had sex on the first date. But we had met 9 months before. And that wasn't even a proper date - I only thought about it when she ask me to go upstairs..
We stayed together 6 1/2 years.
I'm cancer, gemini, leo.
She aries, aquarius, aries.click to expand
Posted by CrabraPosted by SweetLily_89
I've never been on a date, let alone dated anyone before sex. It was always a hook up/Fwb situation that led to a relationship.
Leo, Virgo, Virgo
*cyber high five![]()
For a moment I thought I was going to be the only one who would come in here and say, "Fvck the date. Let's have sex, and if we still like each other after that, we can go get something to eat."
Pretty standard in my previous relationships that after a few sessions of hot sex, you notice this person for some weird reason isn't going away, and it starts to feel weird talking to other people. Then after another sweaty climax together, somebody says, "You know what? We should try going on an actual date."
And that's probably around the time the relationship becomes official.click to expand
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusSex is the way to a Taurus heart ? Add some food and you good. Congrats honey you bagged one of the hardest set of men ?
Lol it worked for me?
Well then again, we weren't on a date lol we just met at a party and hooked up, and 4 years later here we are ? Been together on and off for 3 years. Pshh, and they say never to have sex with a Taurus man on the first date cuz he won't want you?
Oh Taurus sun, cancer moon, Venus gemini
Posted by EffervescentCould be our Venus is Aries? We like a chase before being able to bag em?
Never. And you lose respect for eachother too. Or I would, anyway.
Gemini Sun, Sag Moon, Aries Venus.
Posted by MyStarsShineWell if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by MyStarsShineWell if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he Iclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineI can so agree with you ❤️?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by MyStarsShineWell if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I![]()
I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeperclick to expand
Posted by EffervescentMe too lol... make me work for it the same way you working for this lol.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by EffervescentCould be our Venus is Aries? We like a chase before being able to bag em?
Never. And you lose respect for eachother too. Or I would, anyway.
Gemini Sun, Sag Moon, Aries Venus.
Maybe. I don't want someone that is too easy. It's a turn off to me. Or someone who throws themselves at me. No thanks.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHim23 years later I must say...I shouldn't had...lolPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSI always played it safe by not ever going there for at least a couple of months-until I am comfortable with them and it feels right. Until I met my Aries-I think it was on the 2nd date OOPS! I felt pretty guilty about it but I was needing it, and I believe he too so whatever! That was 9 months ago, we're living together now. That scenario told me never say never lol!
Why? Why Not?
SUN, MOON, VENUS?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineDoes it get deeper than sex?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by MyStarsShineWell if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I![]()
I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeperclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiOoooooo GEMI... you done hit the nail ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Posted by MyStarsShineDoes it get deeper than sex?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by MyStarsShineWell if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I![]()
I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeperclick to expand
Posted by InsertusernameLove that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Libra/aries/Scorpio
Posted by ShadowcatNo!
No.
The relationship now has a core of SEX, instead of intimacy and feelings. I'm not saying that you should wait forever to have sex, to each their own. But often when that's what the beginning is marked as, it becomes the basis of it. Obviously not all the time, but you get my point.
Sun: capricorn
Moon: gemini
Venus: Sagittarius
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!Posted by InsertusernameLove that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Libra/aries/Scorpioclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiNever thought of it this way Tati! And this just opened my eyes! Who the hell wanna bet but hurt later and the sex may even be whack at that point ??? lesson learned get laid sooner than later ?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!Posted by InsertusernameLove that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Libra/aries/Scorpio
If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...
First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiHope soPosted by MyStarsShineDoes it get deeper than sex?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSPosted by MyStarsShineWell if one way don't work... ain't nothing wrong with changing it ?
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I![]()
I always had long rships but I don't want the next one to be so sexually focused......I want something deeperclick to expand
Posted by ShadowcatSo truePosted by GemitatiYeah, I would argue that that's not true. I don't think there's anything wrong with sex. But sex early in the relationship(before it's even a relationship), imo clouds judgement. Instead of bonding over characteristics and ideas, you're bonding over the dance of genitals. I think that's why so many people have issues in finding a partner or creating lasting relationships. Their relationship was based on sex.Posted by ShadowcatNo!
No.
The relationship now has a core of SEX, instead of intimacy and feelings. I'm not saying that you should wait forever to have sex, to each their own. But often when that's what the beginning is marked as, it becomes the basis of it. Obviously not all the time, but you get my point.
Sun: capricorn
Moon: gemini
Venus: Sagittarius
There is nothing wrong with having sex.
It does not affect relashionships in a bad way. Unless it wasn't meant to be...
Please note, I am not saying that it's impossible to have a relationship with someone after having sex on the first date. Friiends of mine had sex with their SOs very early and they've been together for years. BUT, they made additional bonds that weren't sex related.
You need more than sex to create a lasting bond, imo.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaYeah... it's Virgo Venus.
It has for me
Oh I'm Scorpio with Cancer moon, Virgo Venus
Posted by lesenfantterriblesThat Scorpio power ? Yummy lol
i used to have a saying, "if you make me laugh, i'll fuck you" but i've grown out of that ?
now i like to hold back & seduce until the other person cant handle it anymore & has to be direct about wanting me. im not opposed to sex on the first night but i find the withholding a big turn on
sun in scorp (9th)
moon in libra (8th)
venus in cap (11th)
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS?Posted by GemitatiNever thought of it this way Tati! And this just opened my eyes! Who the hell wanna bet but hurt later and the sex may even be whack at that point ??? lesson learned get laid sooner than later ?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!Posted by InsertusernameLove that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Libra/aries/Scorpio
If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...
First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!click to expand
Posted by twinkletoes???????? THE END.
Sumpin' tells me, you mentally reatarded.
Posted by Gemitati?? this is why I love my Tati ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS?Posted by GemitatiNever thought of it this way Tati! And this just opened my eyes! Who the hell wanna bet but hurt later and the sex may even be whack at that point ??? lesson learned get laid sooner than later ?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI was trying to deliver this message unsuccessfully...if he meant to dump you -he will! Even if he courting you for weeks - after sex he will be gone!Posted by InsertusernameLove that way of thinking. And that is true if they're already the commitment type... sex won't matter whether it's an hour in or a month in ❤️
Yeah, as long as the people were relationship minded to start with. i don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Libra/aries/Scorpio
If he wants you - have sex anytime and he will stay...
First example is waste of time and feelings...the longer you know him - the harder you'll be hurt!
Sure deal! And never be on 'sex too soon'...
If he is gone - it's inevitable and would happen anyway...click to expand
Posted by ShadowcatShow me long lasting couple with bad sex vs couple with good sex?Posted by GemitatiYeah, I would argue that that's not true. I don't think there's anything wrong with sex. But sex early in the relationship(before it's even a relationship), imo clouds judgement. Instead of bonding over characteristics and ideas, you're bonding over the dance of genitals. I think that's why so many people have issues in finding a partner or creating lasting relationships. Their relationship was based on sex.Posted by ShadowcatNo!
No.
The relationship now has a core of SEX, instead of intimacy and feelings. I'm not saying that you should wait forever to have sex, to each their own. But often when that's what the beginning is marked as, it becomes the basis of it. Obviously not all the time, but you get my point.
Sun: capricorn
Moon: gemini
Venus: Sagittarius
There is nothing wrong with having sex.
It does not affect relashionships in a bad way. Unless it wasn't meant to be...
Please note, I am not saying that it's impossible to have a relationship with someone after having sex on the first date. Friiends of mine had sex with their SOs very early and they've been together for years. BUT, they made additional bonds that weren't sex related.
You need more than sex to create a lasting bond, imo.click to expand
Posted by bumboklatt???? makes perfect sense. So I guess not if his wee wee too small ?
Not if her vagina is too wide
Posted by bumboklattThere is no such a thing. Your dick is too small!
Not if her vagina is too wide
Posted by lesenfantterriblesPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSand that aloof venus in cap/11th house combo ?Posted by lesenfantterriblesThat Scorpio power ? Yummy lol
i used to have a saying, "if you make me laugh, i'll fuck you" but i've grown out of that ?
now i like to hold back & seduce until the other person cant handle it anymore & has to be direct about wanting me. im not opposed to sex on the first night but i find the withholding a big turn on
sun in scorp (9th)
moon in libra (8th)
venus in cap (11th)
romantic mind games aboundclick to expand
Posted by bumboklattFrom pencil dicks.Posted by GemitatiHmmm Sounds like you've heard it beforePosted by bumboklattThere is no such a thing. Your dick is too small!
Not if her vagina is too wideclick to expand
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