Should I try to win back my Scorpio woman

Is that even possible? I heard once it's done, it's done. I mean our relationship lasted almost 3 yrs and I thought we clicked well; no secrets, no infidelity; we even talked about starting a family. She's a Scorp Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorp Rising, Sag Venus, Libra Mars. I'm a Cancer Sun, Cancer Moon, Libra Rising, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars.

Was it something in our charts (i.e. aspects) that might have been a deep issue?? I don't know; I'm still confused about everything cause it was unexpected on my end. I've just been thinking about her lately..and by lately, I mean often. lol!

Any advice?

Posted by tiziani
Two Cancer Moons and you're a Cancer Sun?

It'll never be "off the table" completely 😉

Lol! At first, that's what I thought, but it's like she disappeared altogether. I know she's still breathing and everything, but she just vanished outta my life and our mutual circle of acquaintances. :/

Posted by CluelessCancer
Hell no don't chase the Scorp, that thing ain't going nowhere. It's crawling in the wilderness attempting to find itself, which means finding you.

For some reason, I bust out laughing at this. But, I suppose you're right. It has been a long time and she hasn't reached out at all. I respected her wishes not to contact her, but that's only because I thought she would contact me first. Smh! I'm gonna need my Venus in Gemini to kick in to get over this hump.

Ahhh, I see. Thanks for the info, tiziani. I actually have Saturn in Scorpio in my natal chart, funny enough.

Posted by Impulsv
What was her Reason to you for breaking it up did she Say? Sometimes relationships just run their course.

I'm not gonna lie and say we didn't have our issues. I think she broke up with me so I can concentrate on my courses as well as my job. I was so engrossed into spending time with her and not caring about the present. I only thought about the future with her, but I guess I wasn't putting in the effort to secure my future with her in a financial sense.

I'm in a better place now financially and academically, I'm not sure if it was her breaking up with me that did it tho. It's a possibility. 😢

I heard that the sting of a Scorpio is very painful; especially a woman's @CluelessCancer. I suppose you're right; maybe I did dodge a bullet.

Posted by Impulsv
Financial security is important for scorp n if u appeared not driven it can burdensome. Sometimes that's exactly what was needed to let u go to find urself. Now key is to learn not to lose urself in the relationship.
Would she take someone back yeah I would as I know people change. As I've changed but normally because I still have feeling for them. But once the feeling is done can you raise ashes from the dead?

I understand that. Thanks for the input. 'Can you raise ashes from the dead?' That shit hit me hard just now, I'm not gonna lie. lol!

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Impulsv
Financial security is important for scorp n if u appeared not driven it can burdensome. Sometimes that's exactly what was needed to let u go to find urself. Now key is to learn not to lose urself in the relationship.
Would she take someone back yeah I would as I know people change. As I've changed but normally because I still have feeling for them. But once the feeling is done can you raise ashes from the dead?

I agree. I was in love with this scorp my best friend, who is a doctor, and because i didn't achieve, he would tell me to get a law degree, or nursing degree, he didn't find me attractive, funny chick he ended up with is not educated, but she is an amazing artist.

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A little late replying to this, but that sucks. I think everyone achieves in their own way; you don't necessarily need a piece of paper to show you're worth something. Do you know what sign the chick that your doctor friend ended up with?

Posted by Impulsv
Yes if u are the best u can be its not so much about money or education but more about using ur full potential. Someone we can admire, respect. (Power).
Well a scorp can raise ashes from the dead( as a Phoenix) lol u just better give it ur might.
N transform.

I can understand where you coming from. I think I started losing her admiration and possibly her respect when I didn't have control over my emotions when things didn't go according to how I planned it. As I get older, I get more angry than sad over things. I rather hit something than to cry about it (part of the reason I took up Martial Arts again). I think that scared her. That and she has to see her mom go through a tumultuous relationship. I should've been more understanding to those fears...and I think I just answered the reason why she ended it so abruptly. Hmmm...I'm talking to y'all but I'm also talking to myself right now. lol! You know what I mean?

Was the Phoenix part a little play-on to my username? 😉