Posted by 1917191I am laughing because my Libra daughter is freely bugging her Agua/Agua BF of 4 years for the same things…engagement, marriage, kids…he gave her a golden retriever and she is goofying off and he is doing what he is doing and it’s organically just floating around without causing any harm nor anything unpleasant. She knows they are marrying. Sooner or later. It’s not a good time career wise now. So I do not see it as a red flag and @Undine said - early in rship IS better than wasting time just to decide you should had discussed it earlier…
I don't think it is necessarily a red flag, but more of how they approach the relationship. I mainly dated air signs; they preferred diving right in and solve problems as they arise.
It's been only 3 weeks, you have the option to leave if values don't align...like having more kids.
Libras do love talking about relationshipy stuff. The libra I dated: met his parents in two weeks and he told me exactly what age he wanted us to marry and the number of kids we are going to have. I am in a relationship with a gem and have been in long term relationships with gem/ aquas, they typically ask me to move in within four months. I guess their thought process is if we are eventually moving in anyway then why not try it out and see if it works.
Posted by UndineI agree with this. It’s only a red flag cause you op aren’t ready and/or wanting those things.
Is she wants more children, isn't this a discussion that you two should be having "early on"?
Posted by LadyNeptuneThat is of course what I want with her as I also, see her as long term and maybe having another child but I would want to be married first of all.Posted by Undine
Is she wants more children, isn't this a discussion that you two should be having "early on"?
I agree with this. It’s only a red flag cause you op aren’t ready and/or wanting those things.
Time is precious and really she is doing you a huge favor by telling you her end game. But it feels disappointing because your fantasy of who she is, is ending. That’s just how it goesclick to expand
Posted by UndineWe have discussed this together and I have said after marriage I will definitely have another child.
Is she wants more children, isn't this a discussion that you two should be having "early on"?
Posted by ShootmyarrowsTalk with her about timeline then, not us.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Undine
Is she wants more children, isn't this a discussion that you two should be having "early on"?
I agree with this. It’s only a red flag cause you op aren’t ready and/or wanting those things.
Time is precious and really she is doing you a huge favor by telling you her end game. But it feels disappointing because your fantasy of who she is, is ending. That’s just how it goes
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That is of course what I want with her as I also, see her as long term and maybe having another child but I would want to be married first of all.
I also, agree time is very precious and must not be miss used.
I'm not disappointed in fact happy that we share the same end goal I guess I was just a little taken back by how soon she came out with it.click to expand
Posted by FuManchuMakes sense to me
A Libra gonna Libra, man. She done picked out a ring, baby names, and wrote your last name as hers at least 1000 times to see how it "feels". It's new and exciting. Chances are she loves the idea of love more than she actually loves you at this point. And I don't mean that as a negative. It's just a Libra thing. Not a red flag.
Posted by TxOgalI have the same wants and needs as her of course I guess I was taken back by how soon she expressed it as I have been use to more distant partners.
OP I don't see it as a red flag. What's the point of being in a relationship anyway? This talk would come sooner or later.. You seem to just be moving at different speeds and it's normal.. you are two different humans. Actually I think being honest about your needs/plans early on is a good chance to express your thoughts without the strong emotional attachment involved.
On another note, I thought it's another thread from a few months ago, hence my previous comment. Thanks to the new dxp now I can't delete it lol sorry abt tht
Posted by LadyNeptuneI have spoken to with her regarding this and I have expressed that I want to be married first she has told me that she doesn't want anymore children after 32 and she is 29 at the moment so we have time.Posted by ShootmyarrowsPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Undine
Is she wants more children, isn't this a discussion that you two should be having "early on"?
I agree with this. It’s only a red flag cause you op aren’t ready and/or wanting those things.
Time is precious and really she is doing you a huge favor by telling you her end game. But it feels disappointing because your fantasy of who she is, is ending. That’s just how it goes
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That is of course what I want with her as I also, see her as long term and maybe having another child but I would want to be married first of all.
I also, agree time is very precious and must not be miss used.
I'm not disappointed in fact happy that we share the same end goal I guess I was just a little taken back by how soon she came out with it.
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Talk with her about timeline then, not us.
She is a definite when it comes to another kid. You are a maybe. Let her know.click to expand
Posted by 1917191What makes you say this?Posted by ShootmyarrowsPosted by TxOgal
OP I don't see it as a red flag. What's the point of being in a relationship anyway? This talk would come sooner or later.. You seem to just be moving at different speeds and it's normal.. you are two different humans. Actually I think being honest about your needs/plans early on is a good chance to express your thoughts without the strong emotional attachment involved.
On another note, I thought it's another thread from a few months ago, hence my previous comment. Thanks to the new dxp now I can't delete it lol sorry abt tht
I have the same wants and needs as her of course I guess I was taken back by how soon she expressed it as I have been use to more distant partners.
She wants me around all the time and I have spend 3 weeks without her by my side we have only twice not had sex in them 3 weeks aswell lol.
Her chart is this
Sun Libra
Moon Pisces
Rising Scorpio
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Aquarius Rx
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It's that pisces moon doing the talk right now. But that virgo venus will very likely have her leaving you in time. :/click to expand
Posted by alexscaries
If someone gave me a roadmap for how they want a relationship to go, see you later. If you want to tie me down, hemp rope.
Posted by 1917191Posted by ShootmyarrowsPosted by 1917191Posted by ShootmyarrowsPosted by TxOgal
OP I don't see it as a red flag. What's the point of being in a relationship anyway? This talk would come sooner or later.. You seem to just be moving at different speeds and it's normal.. you are two different humans. Actually I think being honest about your needs/plans early on is a good chance to express your thoughts without the strong emotional attachment involved.
On another note, I thought it's another thread from a few months ago, hence my previous comment. Thanks to the new dxp now I can't delete it lol sorry abt tht
I have the same wants and needs as her of course I guess I was taken back by how soon she expressed it as I have been use to more distant partners.
She wants me around all the time and I have spend 3 weeks without her by my side we have only twice not had sex in them 3 weeks aswell lol.
Her chart is this
Sun Libra
Moon Pisces
Rising Scorpio
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Aquarius Rx
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It's that pisces moon doing the talk right now. But that virgo venus will very likely have her leaving you in time. :/
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What makes you say this?
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My Venus in Virgo placement always makes me see the flaws in the relationship and want to leave.
But maybe mixed with Libra sun she would be more committed and just nag about what bothers her about the relationship all the time. Pisces moon tend to be needy with the emotions. Again that's me talking from my experience.click to expand