Stalkers

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Cbo on Friday, May 31, 2013 and has 24 replies.
Have you ever been stalked/Facebook stalked, and if so, what sign? Also are you the dumper/dumpee?
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Yes its sickening...
Aries - Mulitiple times, he kept creating new accounts. I kept blockingall of them. I was the dumper.
Pisces - Had to block him, but it was a cute kinda stalking(weird I know). I just disappeared, no dumping.
Libra(s) - mulitiple libras. I now try and stay away from my own kind. I disappeared once again
Scorpio - I miss him Sad but it was for the best. I was the dumper
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hahaha. I have stalked the hell out of people. Truth be told. Sorrryyyy!
me.
Libra- Sun, Rising, Merc
Gemini-Moon
Virgo- Venus/Mars.
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Posted by Nemesis
i think between "stalking" and just checking peoples profiles - is a BIG FUCKING DIFFERENCE - would??nt you say?



+ agree
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I will do DEEP "investigation". So stalking may not be the right terminology Winking
I will find out EVERYTHING.
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No. I don't "friend" anyone I am seeing romantically on FB. If you ask, then we will no longer see each other romatically.
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Yes, but I was married to him. Pisces. I would come home and he would tell me he came to the Uni and couldn't find my car or that he saw me with "someone". It was bad! I mentioned elsewhere he showed up with a camera and flipped because I came out of my final early (despite the fact I was the last one done at that).
Another Pisces 2 years ago would drive by my place randomly... not sure if I would consider it stalking, but was not necessary that is for certain and did indeed make me feel uncomfortable!
ex-Scorp stalked me too... He ended up with a 5 year restraining order - nope, I didn't push for it, the State took control. Good times!
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Posted by Nemesis
facebook says "connecting with friends" - i usually know who the fuck i am adding in the first place....who adds people they don??t know? just because they are a friend of a friend of a friend? nope. i don??t do that.


Exactly.
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That other Pisces also showed up at a joint I was in and flipped on another person (and I wasn't dating him at the time). Not the first time he just randomly showed up... never wanted to go there with me, but sure wanted to keep tabs while I was out without him.
Men suck balls!
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So, if you have/had a stalker, does that mean you're lovable and irresistible?
Some would take it that way...
Sorry, I don't want to be admired THAT much!
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Posted by ninjutsu
Stop telling all of these embarrassing pisces stories, lildol!! Tongue


Not my fault you're all nuts Tongue
(maybe it's only the men Winking)
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@leoliza Honestly? Tricking people with word manipulation. I rarely ask questions I don't already know the answer to, if it doesn't add up it triggers me. I consider this very intrusive and a form of "stalking" because of my objective. Heavy internet research, social networks of friends etc. Getting info from friends by being extremely sly. I will pull a "pop in" in a heartbeat. Not at your home or anything like that, not THAT crazy. I have been known to SECRETLY search a computer or a phone. I will NEVER tell you I did any of these things, but get you to admit whatever I find via conversation. I remember EVERYTHING that someone says to me. These things are ONLY done when I intuitively feel something is "wrong". I've NEVER been wrong.
I know it's off, but it's just me being honest with you strangers.
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Lets see. Well first off I wouldn't really call it stalking per se like someone else did in this thread earlier. Id consider it more like lurking, or the people who are doing it "sharks" DUN DUN....DUN DUN....DUN DUN DUN DUN!!!
Seriously. Ill be honest right now. Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, Tumblr are probably the biggest relationship killers I have EVER seen in my entire life. It's a cesspool of filth and people use it for super shady reasons.
Alright let's see what I can give you guys. Gemini's we seem to have an ass load of sharks around us. Circling at all times. Im not sure why but it's constantly happening to me. So much that when Myspace originally came out I had to take my profile down, change name and email within 3 months because people were being shady and following me around.
Let's start the list shall we?
#1 - Biggest FB lurker has to be my BFF. Shes a Cancer. Drives me absolutely bat shit. I've told her she looks like a god damn psycho too. The second she meets a man she goes through this whole "routine". First she will look at all his friends to weigh the males vs. females on his friends list. Then she will go through each and every single female that posts anything on his page to see if he has been romantically linked to her. If he was she proceeds to click on every single one of her pictures in a different window to see if they have any pictures together. If shes even remotely good looking queue meltdown central. She gets majorly upset if the girl is pretty. If shes not queue all the shitty comments about how she's not pretty, she looks like a crack addict, why is she so skinny, how did she possibly have a kid, she looks like a whore, etc. It's just beyond anything Ive ever seen. Ive been friends with her for 18 years and she drives me insane sometimes LOL! After he's passed that she obsesses over whatever female she is spying on and waits for a perfect time to spring the trap. Dude gets blind sided, then proceeds to get pissed off how shes been stalking him and WOW things don't work out!!!
#2 - I will admit I do lurk but very rarely, mostly to see peoples main profile pictures to see if they changed. And only on guys that treated me like shit so I can see who they are fucking or dating now. Never goes any farther than that.
#3 - My ACTUAL stalkers were:
Gemini - Four year stalker. We dated 3 years and he stalked me for 4 after.
Pisces - Would drive by my house at night and creep around.
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Posted by heliumfiasco
@leoliza Honestly? Tricking people with word manipulation. I rarely ask questions I don't already know the answer to, if it doesn't add up it triggers me. I consider this very intrusive and a form of "stalking" because of my objective. Heavy internet research, social networks of friends etc. Getting info from friends by being extremely sly. I will pull a "pop in" in a heartbeat. Not at your home or anything like that, not THAT crazy. I have been known to SECRETLY search a computer or a phone. I will NEVER tell you I did any of these things, but get you to admit whatever I find via conversation. I remember EVERYTHING that someone says to me. These things are ONLY done when I intuitively feel something is "wrong". I've NEVER been wrong.
I know it's off, but it's just me being honest with you strangers.


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Holy shit....Kinda freaked me out when I read this....This is EXACTLY what I do. Ive never been wrong on a hunch too. Im 99% right. The 1% is marginal error. I always set you up, verbally engineered of course. Never ever do I ask a question I don't know the answer to. Im definitely blaming this on my Sun & Mercury both being in the VIII house (Scorpio) and you KNOW how they get LOL! Sometimes I feel bad for others because they never had a chance. I do my homework and I do it VERY well. I feel anyone who tries to be dishonest then lie to my face deserves to have their shit looked through. Ill come down on you like a motherfuckin hammer. I dont care. To me this isnt stalking/lurking. It's protecting myself.

Gemini Sun/Libra Rising & Moon/Gemini Mercury/Taurus Venus & Mars/Leo Jupiter
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@xin Funny I have 8th house moon and reverse of your sun/moon combo, also same Rising. Watch out for Libra/Gemini sun/moon/ rising placements and any 8th house folks! hahaha
Imma find youuuu! smile
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Posted by heliumfiasco
@xin Funny I have 8th house moon and reverse of your sun/moon combo, also same Rising. Watch out for Libra/Gemini sun/moon/ rising placements and any 8th house folks! hahaha
Imma find youuuu! smile


Oh yeah I have my whole chart posted under um...my profile section. That's so funny though! I read that and I was like OMG....Is she reading my mind *shifty eyes* LOL!
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@heliumfiasco
OMG!!!! Hahaha totally reminded me of this....
DON'T EVER LEAVE ME...CAUSE I'LL FIND YOU!!!! (Love Wedding Crashers)
This is exactly how I feel sometimes like VIII aspects in my Sun and Mercury just make me so batty sometimes LOL!

GIFSoup
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@XIN hahahaha! smile
I own you, for life!!!!
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Whether I dump or get dumped, I always stalk the ex for awhile after. At least a couple weeks.
Blame my damn Scorpio moon. I do.
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Posted by geminicandle
Honestly, it would drive me crazy to be that obsessed with someone that I have to follow their every move.
That's a ton of time and energy wasted.
For what purpose, ultimately?
Not to mention, it is illegal activity. Violating protective order is a felony. It's irrational to play like that, to risk your freedom and life over what? A mere human?




It all condenses down to one simple word-
Obsession.
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I will say a lot of people with Scorpio placements will lurk and shark the shit out of you. Then it might become full on stalking especially if there is a lot of Scorpio placement namely Moon/Venus.
I do major detective work (as mentioned earlier) with Sun and Mercury both in the VIII house.
Im not sure if my Scorpio ex ever stalked me but he did mention but very rarely that he would check up on me sometimes. Im hoping it was way worse than he said it was! Cause he would just check on a "few" things and down play it like it was no biggy. He has Scorpio in Sun/Mercury/Venus. Sometimes I wish he would. *Sighs* But thats another story entirely. Still think Im hanging on to him a little. I really liked him.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by geminicandle
Posted by everevolvingepithet
What do you women do to these guys ffs! :/



Nothing. They were born that way. Lots of Pluto/ scorpio square, etc... I think?


That was somewhat tongue-in-cheek. I dunno if this is a placements thing though...
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Don't even lie. You wish someone stalked you and you probably do some stalking yourself. I know you've got Scorpio traits too.
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im looking for stalkers, im actually putting a request for it on the capricorn board
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Libra males are stalkers, at least the I met.
I would not waste my time in stalking you. I will probably just pack my shit and leave, and change phone number, and email addresses to avoid confrontation. thats it.
That's scary that this actually happens, so many posts. Another reason I don't date alot. And rather focus on my present and future goals. And
I heard that a women got attacked from a guy she met online, she didn't like him, but he waited in her garage with a knife, and attacked her. Not sure why you bring people over your place when your online dating. Meet in public lighted areas. And never give your full name and address. You can't trust anyone nowadays. You really got to screen the shit out of them. And trust your gut instincts when red flags start popping up.
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