Taurus male trying to make Scorpio jealous??
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by scorpioisfire on Thursday, November 11, 2010 and has 8 replies.
Hi everyone,
I am new to the forum but I have read all the threads on Scorpio/Taurus here.
I have been dating this guy for a few months now, and the attraction I am experiencing with him is so strong it is beyond words. Some say between these 2 it is magnetic, well let me say it literally is. Can you imagine the craziest wild attraction between 2 people? Okay, now multiply it by 100, cause that's us. Anyway, he has been wonderful to me and I can say most of the things you usually hear about this sign (Taurus male) is true. He has several times assured me that I am his only girl and I do believe him.
However, he is very attractive and many women are after him.
About a month ago I found out that when I was away visiting my parents in another state, one of his lady "friends" showed up at his place for comfort (she had a huge fight with his bf, apparently). He invited her in and had a talk with her, but to his big surprise eventually she confessed she likes him and literally asked him if he wants to start dating her.
Then, about 2 weeks ago, a recently divorced co-worker starts calling him at his house, and calls him every day for a week to chat, and flirts with him, making suggestions. Boyfriend thinks she is just being friendly, but then she confesses she wants to be with him as well...
And how do I know all this from??
He tells me!!
Can somebody please explain to me why is my Taurus like this?? I don't understand. I would have under no circumstances learned about these things. So now I wonder if he is trying to make me jealous, or is he playing games with me? Is he trying to make ME want him more? Why is he telling me about all these things? I feel extremely hurt because of these things, AND because of the way he handles the situation. I think he should have dealt with all these on his own like a gentleman, and when we are together just focus on us and spend some quality time together. So yes, if these things ment nothing to him (he did not say this, it's just my logic), why would he talk to me about them in the first place?
He is in his early 30s by the way. The other thing that worries me is how flirty can he get with all these women.
I honestly believe that he is not playing with me, I just don't understand why is he trying to make me jealous this way.
Comments appreciated!
I am new to the forum but I have read all the threads on Scorpio/Taurus here.
I have been dating this guy for a few months now, and the attraction I am experiencing with him is so strong it is beyond words. Some say between these 2 it is magnetic, well let me say it literally is. Can you imagine the craziest wild attraction between 2 people? Okay, now multiply it by 100, cause that's us. Anyway, he has been wonderful to me and I can say most of the things you usually hear about this sign (Taurus male) is true. He has several times assured me that I am his only girl and I do believe him.
However, he is very attractive and many women are after him.
About a month ago I found out that when I was away visiting my parents in another state, one of his lady "friends" showed up at his place for comfort (she had a huge fight with his bf, apparently). He invited her in and had a talk with her, but to his big surprise eventually she confessed she likes him and literally asked him if he wants to start dating her.
Then, about 2 weeks ago, a recently divorced co-worker starts calling him at his house, and calls him every day for a week to chat, and flirts with him, making suggestions. Boyfriend thinks she is just being friendly, but then she confesses she wants to be with him as well...
And how do I know all this from??
He tells me!!
Can somebody please explain to me why is my Taurus like this?? I don't understand. I would have under no circumstances learned about these things. So now I wonder if he is trying to make me jealous, or is he playing games with me? Is he trying to make ME want him more? Why is he telling me about all these things? I feel extremely hurt because of these things, AND because of the way he handles the situation. I think he should have dealt with all these on his own like a gentleman, and when we are together just focus on us and spend some quality time together. So yes, if these things ment nothing to him (he did not say this, it's just my logic), why would he talk to me about them in the first place?
He is in his early 30s by the way. The other thing that worries me is how flirty can he get with all these women.
I honestly believe that he is not playing with me, I just don't understand why is he trying to make me jealous this way.
Comments appreciated!
Because he's possibly a jerk :-/ or,
Have you done anything to cause this behaviour? Think about it.... entertained advances From other guys, talk about ex's etc
Post On Taurus board as well to get more feedback.
Have you done anything to cause this behaviour? Think about it.... entertained advances From other guys, talk about ex's etc
Post On Taurus board as well to get more feedback.
Wait...why are you upset that your man is being honest with you? Would you prefer that he keep things like this a secret....only when you find out later or from someone else you'll be wondering why he never told you from the beginning and start getting suspicious.....? I think you should be glad that he is at least keeping you in the loop. However, if you just don't like hearing about it at all, then tell him there's no need to talk to you about those things unless it's going to effect your relationship with him on a serious level (i.e. he's going to leave you). But if you do choose this route, you have to remember that it would be unfair to be mad or suspicious with him when you find out later another incident has happened with another girl and he didn't tell you.
Wouldn't you rather he keep things open and honest and tell you? that's how we do it.we are not generally sneaky and dis-honest.
if you had to find out other ways...then you would have reason to be jealous.
if you had to find out other ways...then you would have reason to be jealous.
When we tell you EVERYTHING...it's because we want to keep the light on,so you know you can trust us.
to address the flirting...we are ruled by Venus,and we flirt.it's harmless fun for us,but if he's doing it in front of you it's disrespectful and you should tell him you think so.
Thank you all for responses. I have posted in Taurus forum now, too.
As for my question, I know I should appreciate that he tells me everything. But I think it is a bit different. Well, that he IS trying to make me jealous on purpose, so it is not just that he tells me everything, because he is honest etc. I do think he is playing games. So I am just wondering if this is a specific Taurean trait, or am I overreacting. Because frankly, as a Scorpio, I do get jealous, and I do not like when somebody is playing games with me. So the fact that he is trying to make me jealous on purpose is some sort of a turn off.
Please come over to the Taurus forum, and thanks again for the replies.
As for my question, I know I should appreciate that he tells me everything. But I think it is a bit different. Well, that he IS trying to make me jealous on purpose, so it is not just that he tells me everything, because he is honest etc. I do think he is playing games. So I am just wondering if this is a specific Taurean trait, or am I overreacting. Because frankly, as a Scorpio, I do get jealous, and I do not like when somebody is playing games with me. So the fact that he is trying to make me jealous on purpose is some sort of a turn off.
Please come over to the Taurus forum, and thanks again for the replies.
He's telling you these things to be honest with you. If he wanted to be with any of them or play behind your back you wouldn't know about it. It seems that you are upset because you know someone else wants your man. I am dating a Scorpio now and she thinks one of her girlfriends like me and she gets mad at ME when he friend flirts saying i should tell her not to flirt, etc....
I think he he keeping you in the loop, if it upsets you that much ask him not to tell you but I have a feeling once the lights go out then you will get suspicious anyway.
I think he he keeping you in the loop, if it upsets you that much ask him not to tell you but I have a feeling once the lights go out then you will get suspicious anyway.
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