TAURUS STILL IN LOVE WITH LIBRA??

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by StillHaveLove on Wednesday, December 3, 2008 and has 7 replies.
This is very complicated, i had no idea how much my man fits his sign LIBRA.I am a Taurus. i thought the dissapearing and no phone calls was just HIS MO.
SO yes it was love at first sight. He was in a very very unhappy relationship for 2 1/2 years when he met me and we never left each others side since. His ex was in and out of our life trying to get back with him but to be honest guys and this may sound naieve but im not worried about her, ( shes that phsycotic and EXTREMLY unattractive) then we moved in together a year later, he started to dissapear and ignore my calls,at first this showed him my raging bull side and things got ugly. We talked it over, Hes madly in love with me this is obvious. I tried and tried to hold my patience and avoid arguments with him but the indecisivness and laziness drove me up the wall!! His ex came into alot of money and now hes with her- calling me saying hOw all hes doing is building a comfortable life for me and him so we can marry..and im supposed to just TAKE THAT? i noticed libras think they can just say and do things and just forget how the other feels. i put 2 years into this relationship and the love and passion is undeniable but now i just want to chase him and fight for all of our love that i KNOW is there,but why should I? why wont he just MAKE A DECISION?? WHY WONT HE JUST SEE WHATS IN FRONT OF HIM BEFORE HE LOSES IT FOREVER? I tried to leave and hes making it impossible.Begging me to just understand the situation. We are seperated (of course) now and i wish i can just open his eyes. With libras it seems almost impossible.
So he was with her? Then he was with you and now he is with her again? But still wanting you in the future??? Hmmm sounds all very strange
I agree...why cant he make a decision now, he cant keep you hanging, you may go forever and is he really willing to face that?
If she is psycho why is he even involved again? Its easy to cut ties.
I would really just find out what the go is and talk to him and say that what you feel is too storng to not be together!!
yes he left a voicemail with a song dedicated to me(he does little things to keep me believing)..I mean he says he hasnt done anything with the girl but COME ON NOW.Since this has been goin on off and on in the past couple months i have tried to see other guys and have NOT been further interested.So sometimes i feel like I need to step up, trust me ive done my fair share of hurting him.Weve already talked and he wants me to ultimately marry him.His family is NOT happy with him SO? Now what U know u cant get a libra to come home if hes on one of his escapades.. gosh, lol
i wish i can just open his eyes. With libras it seems almost impossible.
no one can open another's eyes. It is possible but you won't be the one to do it - if you were, there will be no doubts in your mind.
I tried to leave and hes making it impossible.Begging me to just understand the situation.- he does little things to keep me believing
He's keeping you where he wants you - similar to other Air signs - while they live another life. It's like a chess game. If you stay in line believing his pleas, you'll be there forever!
When someone disappears from you without a valid excuse (in fact there isn't one if they haven't mentioned they need breathing room - but if they need breathing room, then there's a problem anyway), then except for the disrespect, all signs point to obvious incompatibility because this person cannot spend time with you without feeling suffocated in some way.
I do this too smile
Stop confronting him, starting drama, and quetsioning him about things. Libra men hate confrontation. It will push them away.
Why would you even waste your time on this guy ??...He is with another woman..And in being with her he is saying that he is trying to make a comfortable life for you two..What a manipulater, he is making life comfortable for himself with you on the side..I do not see one bit of love here..And if he is using her for the money, he's a shallow fuck !!
I was in the same type of thing with a Libra, so I can relate to the push and pull thing, but you have to draw the line somewhere..
This is My first time blogging here and I am Very VERY thankful for the sound advice I got here..Everyone had such wonderful advice from all points of view and goodness could you guys be more right.When you love someone no matter the situation its hard to see on the outside of the box. Of course hes using her and I lost alot of respect for him anyways because he was a hard working man. There is no such thing as the easy way out in Love and I am 23 and very beautiful and I know it. So someone asked me if I wanted to give him my best years..? AS HARD AS IT IS I WILL STAY AWAY FROM HIM GUYS I PROMISE! " Out of sight, Out of mind"
There IS a sexy aries i have my eye on.. lol

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