territorial or not?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by CreepyPants on Friday, August 25, 2006 and has 19 replies.
say you are out with your significant other in a social setting. through a crowd of people you notice someone hitting on your lover. how do you react? are you the type to make your way over and step in? are you the type to observe how your s.o. handles it? or are you somewhere in between, or an extreme?
state what you think your reaction would be and your sign. smile
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It depends on how long I have been with my man and how much I trust him. As a Scorpio, I would probably sit back and observe awhile. I would like to see how far he would take it and if he would stop it or if he would like to make me jealous. Of course, I might just stare him down (I was recently told that my stares make people very nervous and that they actually scare some people, lol, but I was also told that they make people tell the truth...). And then of course if I do find it going too far, too much touching ect....I will go over and make friends with the girl and let her know who is in charge. Keeps friends close and enemies closer.
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"territorial or not?"
Oh YES!
Someone hitting on MY lover?! .... hmmmm sounds like fun lol You betcha I'd be over there faster than the speed of light! How I react there depends on the details of the situation. If she's too close to him and has the nerrrRRRRRRRrRRRve to touCh him in a way that I find inappropriate, affectionately or shows intererst I would remove her hand, give her a WARNNNNNNINGG (murderous! look) and SMILE sweetly Big Grin I'm kind hearted after all Big GrinDDDDDD
Geez I dunno, this really sounds like one of those situations that can turn me into a RAGING BEAST, a HUGE and cynical BIATCH... INSTANTLY! The latter sounds like more fun lol The extreme switch from my usual sweet and easygoing nature is always surprising to me as well so I can't control it. I was born with pent up rage I guess LOL Stay away from what's MINE! Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Ofcourse, reactions always vary... even to the same situation. Depends on how obvious it is. If it's not sooooo bad I'll probably just be a lady about it... she'd be the obvious slut heheehee
IF HE was going along with it then it might be any of the above OR drink it up and flirt shamelessly with other guys. I might also take off... but... he would regret it.
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A while back at a club my bf said he was going to the bathroom, after a while I went to check and he was standing outside the bathroom chatting with a chic and another two girls. I recognized her because she's friends with his friends. They weren't flirting but I wasn't exactly sober Big Grin I walked right into him, HARD, pushing him a few steps over with my chest... oopsie lol Then I turned to ummmm analyze them. He then introduced me. Ofcourse I was quite flirty that night lol I saw a few guys I knew sooooo
Neither of us said why we were mad but we did end up having an argument afterwards... about? I don't know! We were drunk!
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This happened on the weekend - Most girls at a party I will chat with & if I find them non threatning then its not a problem if my bf has a chat with them too however on the weekend there was one girl whom is insecure in her relationship as her bf was an ass & cheated on her - she is a very prety girl & quite smart. As soon as bf saw her I could tell right off there was attraction - she said "your bf is so cute & nice"- Mr bf was reeeeeaaallly drunk so I kept an eye on her & sure enough when mr bf wasn't in sight & she left I knew right away so I grabed the camera & went looking found them having a nice little chat so took a photo - she knew what she was doing & moved away from him as soon as she saw me - he could see I wasn't impressed so followed me & kept asking If I was ok - he knew - little fucking bitch anyway she did get within 5 metres of him for the rest of the night!!
Can't stand tramps like that
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ya... thats lame, pisces. id be pissed too. its one thing if they're being cool and dont act like there's something wrong when they see that you notice both of them, but then to walk away and never go near him... you know her intentions werent innocent. but i guess it also depends on the impression you were giving off too. something to always consider. but i still wouldn't be naive about the situation. im cool with making friends with guys and talking nice, even playfully flirting, but i watch myself around the ones who are spoken for. i'm nice, but i just dont go there because i wouldn't want a woman going there with my guy. it's all in the attitude.
i think my instinctual desire in the case that some woman was hitting on my guy would be to drag the girl into an alley and slap her around a bit to work out her demons, but in reality i'd let him handle it. if it looked bad to me... like he was partaking in the flirting, id give him something to think hard about when i could get him alone. if it looked bad like the girl wasnt getting his signals of evasiveness... i'd take joy in coming to his rescue Winking
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yeah not very nice creeyPants Sad Well I only reacted when I saw how they behaved & it was sus - The end of the night thou, Bf said to me "would you please tell me when you've fucked a guy" very accusational & angry tone ? I don?t know what was going on there ? I said what are u on about & he said nothing don?t worry about it - whatever
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Yup aguaaqi! I like ur style ummmm stew sounds good right now - going to make a winter warmer tonight!
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Territorial-Very much so.
I am a Scorpio-Possession! Total Possession and if a man is smart he will not try me. I won't make a scene. I will see just how he would handle it. And if he didn't handle it properly. I would leave and he would not like the next time we spoke again! Guaranteed.
I do not play that flirting stuff. A woman may not know he is taken but if he doesn't make it known. I'm out...
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Scorpiosweetie - (I was recently told that my stares make people very nervous and that they actually scare some people, lol
LMAO...Me too...I don't need to do anything..Depends on how heavily engrossed they are. If I think a little too much, I would walk over there in my sexiest walk, first give my man the evil grin and then devastate the girl with the most evil stare and a delightful conversation. Making her feel utterly welcome.
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They don't usually stick around for long after that.
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I'd sit back and watch...a relationship worthwhile should come with effortless loyalty....I believe in giving people enough rope to hang themselves with.
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walk to the table, mingle. Then fart and blame the guy who is hitting on your old lady.
Works everytime. They NEVER suspect the Virgo! Bwa ha ha ha ha!
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when i was younger, i definitely would walk over and make damn sure there were no misunderstandings. now that am older and (somewhat) wiser, i choose to trust the man am with, until he gives me a reason not to.
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If I find that someone is hitting on my guy, I would actually be more curious to know how he responds to the situation. In my mind thats like a test. If he also starts flirting or something, I would walk away.
But if he turns a blind eye to that person, I would just be content with that. I for one would'nt do anything that would look like I am guarding my territory. I would leave it to my guy to have better sense.
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Virguy...
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please tell me you've actually done that smile it would make my morning. Tongue
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Yep creepy! lol Was a long time ago, but damned if it didn't work! smile
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LOL @ Virguy!!! smile
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are you the type to observe how your s.o. handles it?
im an Aqua and I AM SUPER jealous and possesive for my guy..however i never show it and he thinks im pretty chill....personally i dont mind a gal hitting on my guy coz it happens all the time ( this x scorp of mine was darn hot and so is this virguy that im dating right now....)
anyways but im the type who'll just sit back and observe....wont say a thing but if he starts flirting and making me all jealoused... boy im a hottie and u'll pay fot that... my x scorp once tried to make me all jealoused and i started flirting with this hot guy... jeeeez was my sexc scorp furious???TongueTongueTongue...he completely ignored that gal and stuck wid me da whole night Tongue.....
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"I turn cold and any romantic feelings I have will dissipate. The relationship simply turns platonic as I realize this person is not right for me."
very very true for me too.
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i would observe secretly, then i'd go somewhere where both of them can see me - but i'd want dem to think i didn't see dem - i think it wud be somewhat of a game to me
maybe i wud get near them to over hear what she is sayin to him and listen to his reply -hehe maybe cus i don't trust him dat much yet
depends i guess cus i might jus observe then when he turns n sees me staring - jus give him a piercing stare - lol
i guess it all depends on how much i trust him - i'd have to be in the situation really
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