That feeling called love...

Posted by PillowFortBuilder
I'm a leo sun, cap moon, libra mars, and cancer venus.

I haven't met someone like you describe.
My latest relationship was a cancer sun, libra moon, cancer mars, and leo venus. She made me feel appreciated and cared for. I always felt "rested" after spending time with her. The relationship ended cause I felt it was too boring at the end of the day. No excitement or stimulation. I always purred like a kitten though around her.

My best friend and I tried to work take it to another level but that was a disaster. She's a aquarius sun, taurus moon, scorp mars, and cap venus. She gets me better than anyone else. We both know what the other is feeling however we both drive each other crazy. Our personalities clash and we become hypocritical even though we're doing the same thing. Too much alike and different at the same time.

My longest relationship (7 years) was with a cap sun, leo moon, scorp mars, aqua venus. While it started as exciting yet comfortable we both were too immature. I haven't felt comfortable with anyone as I have with her.

Posted by PillowFortBuilder
The cancer was a very caring and accommodationing. The problem was she was a bit too much. So if we had a disagreement about something so simple as a movie, I could easily sway her opinion. She had no backbone and I totally got away with anything. Our conversations became bland very quickly to me as she would laugh at my jokes but not come back with anything to contribute.
We would always do what I wanted to do and her idea of fun wasn't something I particularly enjoyed.

Posted by jane84
I'm a leo su It's funny you describe the relationship with the Cancer as boring even though she made you feel appreciated and cared for... I wondered if anyone would feel as if that type of relationship would be boring...as you did. It makes me think do people need that up and down excitement to stay? I had that with my ex (Taurus) and a Gemini. Too much up and down in the relationship though...not knowing how they felt etc. I left both of those relationships, it threw me off balance too often. My Sag is definitely not boring though...so there is that stimulation there as well.

I hope you find a combination of what you are looking for. It seems like you know what you want in a relationship.>

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Posted by jane84
I'm a leo su It's funny you describe the relationship with the Cancer as boring even though she made you feel appreciated and cared for... I wondered if anyone would feel as if that type of relationship would be boring...as you did. It makes me think do people need that up and down excitement to stay? I had that with my ex (Taurus) and a Gemini. Too much up and down in the relationship though...not knowing how they felt etc. I left both of those relationships, it threw me off balance too often. My Sag is definitely not boring though...so there is that stimulation there as well.

I hope you find a combination of what you are looking for. It seems like you know what you want in a relationship.>

I like boring, I would kill for boring.

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Posted by PillowFortBuilder
Yeah I'm honestly not sure what I want a relationship. I've learned that if i have expectations nobody could live up to them.

I need to date around and see what's out there but first I need to take some time to get the aqua off my mind. I can't date while still wishing the aqua and I would have worked.

Posted by jane84
If you've been through a lot, boring or "calm" is a great feeling. It's not something every sign/person seeks however. Is there a reason why you say that? The only cancer I have in my family is my Dad. And judging from our relationship, I don't think I would be able to make a Cancer feel loved and appreciated. We just don't get each other.

Posted by arose32
But me and the sag was never smooth... Always something... But we were inseparable ...

Posted by rabidtalker
me: cancer sun, pisces moon, aries mars, leo venus
her: taurus sun, cap moon, leo mars, taurus venus

Posted by jane84

Posted by PillowFortBuilder
Yeah I'm honestly not sure what I want a relationship. I've learned that if i have expectations nobody could live up to them.

I need to date around and see what's out there but first I need to take some time to get the aqua off my mind. I can't date while still wishing the aqua and I would have worked.

Maybe that's what it is... You are seeking this person who has all that you wish for. Unfortunately that is hard to come by. Having standards is good, expectations are a whole other ballgame. But I understand the waiting. I waited over a year after my relationship/marriage ended with my ex. It's not a good idea to date while you are still having trouble getting over someone. I wish you the best!

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Posted by jane84
I often see this combination (sun sign wise). What do you feel kept this relationship going?

Posted by rabidtalker

Posted by jane84
I'm a leo su It's funny you describe the relationship with the Cancer as boring even though she made you feel appreciated and cared for... I wondered if anyone would feel as if that type of relationship would be boring...as you did. It makes me think do people need that up and down excitement to stay? I had that with my ex (Taurus) and a Gemini. Too much up and down in the relationship though...not knowing how they felt etc. I left both of those relationships, it threw me off balance too often. My Sag is definitely not boring though...so there is that stimulation there as well.

I hope you find a combination of what you are looking for. It seems like you know what you want in a relationship.>

I like boring, I would kill for boring.

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Posted by jane84
If you've been through a lot, boring or "calm" is a great feeling. It's not something every sign/person seeks however. Is there a reason why you say that? The only cancer I have in my family is my Dad. And judging from our relationship, I don't think I would be able to make a Cancer feel loved and appreciated. We just don't get each other.

I'm generally a calm and peaceful person so i feel like i draw the crazy.... plus i'm on of those types where if you are sort of sad or crazy it starts to rub off on me and then i feel that way, it's too much and messes with my life.

I'm sure you've heard this before that not all crabs are the same, a lot of it is their moon and house placement. Also, feeling like you dont get a crab is normal.... lol

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Posted by PillowFortBuilder
Yeah I'm honestly not sure what I want a relationship. I've learned that if i have expectations nobody could live up to them.

I need to date around and see what's out there but first I need to take some time to get the aqua off my mind. I can't date while still wishing the aqua and I would have worked.

Maybe that's what it is... You are seeking this person who has all that you wish for. Unfortunately that is hard to come by. Having standards is good, expectations are a whole other ballgame. But I understand the waiting. I waited over a year after my relationship/marriage ended with my ex. It's not a good idea to date while you are still having trouble getting over someone. I wish you the best!

Thanks and you're exactly right. In my head I have the perfect girl. Someone who is fun, slightly manipulative, and adds to my story. It's hard to explain but I guess it's the leo sun in me. It's a selfish view on relationships that I worked thru and now I take each person as a new experience to learn about someone else and learn about myself. This can be kinda hard when pulling a synastry chart cause I catch myself saying "eh air moon or water mars".

I wish I was as smart as you by taking a year off after a divorce. I tried to get back into the game once I was able to stop crying and hid my anger on dates. I had a string of rebounds and hurt some people by letting g them believe I was ready for more than I actually was or I was wrecked when things weren't moving at a pace I wanted.

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Posted by jane84
I often see this combination (sun sign wise). What do you feel kept this relationship going?

the sex... lol. and we never fought, pretty good combo, really.

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Posted by jane84
What sun sign/moon/venus/mars has been your best connection? (Include yours as well.) I'm not big on the soulmate thing or what relationship was "perfect" because I don't believe in that. All relationships have issues. And I'm not talking sexual relationships here (even though I know that's a big part of it.) I just want to know who has made you feel the most loved and cared about. That feeling when someone truly understood how you felt and did something about it. That relationship that is smooth because you both "get each other." And when you go to sleep at night, you know they love you. No mysteries.

Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars

I'm a Libra/libra/Scorpio/Sag and he is a Sag/Cancer/Cap/Scorpio.

I've been with a Taurus, Gem, and Aqua...none of those relationships felt like this.

Still waiting to experience this. Congratulations to you, and hope you enjoy every moment of it and cherish him

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Posted by PillowFortBuilder
The cancer was a very caring and accommodationing. The problem was she was a bit too much. So if we had a disagreement about something so simple as a movie, I could easily sway her opinion. She had no backbone and I totally got away with anything. Our conversations became bland very quickly to me as she would laugh at my jokes but not come back with anything to contribute.
We would always do what I wanted to do and her idea of fun wasn't something I particularly enjoyed.

Posted by moondust
I love Libra-Sag couples!!! a Libra friend of mine just settled down when she met a Sag. They've been together for almost 4 years now.

I'm Aqua Sun/Gemini Moon/Aqua Venus/Gemini Mars

I think my best connection was a Gemini...Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon/Gemini Venus/Taurus Mars (I have a friend who has almost the same placements...she's a Virgo rising and he's an Aqua rising)

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Posted by jane84
I'm a leo su It's funny you describe the relationship with the Cancer as boring even though she made you feel appreciated and cared for... I wondered if anyone would feel as if that type of relationship would be boring...as you did. It makes me think do people need that up and down excitement to stay? I had that with my ex (Taurus) and a Gemini. Too much up and down in the relationship though...not knowing how they felt etc. I left both of those relationships, it threw me off balance too often. My Sag is definitely not boring though...so there is that stimulation there as well.

I hope you find a combination of what you are looking for. It seems like you know what you want in a relationship.>

I like boring, I would kill for boring.

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Posted by moondust
I love Libra-Sag couples!!! a Libra friend of mine just settled down when she met a Sag. They've been together for almost 4 years now.

I'm Aqua Sun/Gemini Moon/Aqua Venus/Gemini Mars

I think my best connection was a Gemini...Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon/Gemini Venus/Taurus Mars (I have a friend who has almost the same placements...she's a Virgo rising and he's an Aqua rising)

My Libra friend did the same thing! We went on an Italy trip together and she told me to find a Sag, that it was a great connection. Lol At the time I still was not looking for anything. That was about 7 months before I met my BF. And I didn't know he was a Sag until months after getting to know him, but there was just something different about him and the way I felt when I was around him.

Btw there are many Aquas in my life. One of who is getting married to a Gemini this summer. They have a connection that I cannot describe. Everyone says they are made for each other.

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Posted by jane84
I'm a leo su It's funny you describe the relationship with the Cancer as boring even though she made you feel appreciated and cared for... I wondered if anyone would feel as if that type of relationship would be boring...as you did. It makes me think do people need that up and down excitement to stay? I had that with my ex (Taurus) and a Gemini. Too much up and down in the relationship though...not knowing how they felt etc. I left both of those relationships, it threw me off balance too often. My Sag is definitely not boring though...so there is that stimulation there as well.

I hope you find a combination of what you are looking for. It seems like you know what you want in a relationship.>

I like boring, I would kill for boring.

+1.

This is why I prefer water or earth SUNS for relationships. We value harmony & day to day easiness, we don't need constant fights for passion. I stir mine up from bottom of my deep earth... my partner from the depths of his ocean.

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Posted by moondust
I love Libra-Sag couples!!! a Libra friend of mine just settled down when she met a Sag. They've been together for almost 4 years now.

I'm Aqua Sun/Gemini Moon/Aqua Venus/Gemini Mars

I think my best connection was a Gemini...Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon/Gemini Venus/Taurus Mars (I have a friend who has almost the same placements...she's a Virgo rising and he's an Aqua rising)

My Libra friend did the same thing! We went on an Italy trip together and she told me to find a Sag, that it was a great connection. Lol At the time I still was not looking for anything. That was about 7 months before I met my BF. And I didn't know he was a Sag until months after getting to know him, but there was just something different about him and the way I felt when I was around him.

Btw there are many Aquas in my life. One of who is getting married to a Gemini this summer. They have a connection that I cannot describe. Everyone says they are made for each other.

Sextiles are far more exciting than the astrology books claim. Everyone says date your own element, I think complimentary elements are more exciting, you learn far more and you grow in interesting ways... especially long term. I think there was a thread some time ago about sextile relationships being ideal.

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Posted by starlover
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus

With myself

Seriously

It was a long time coming

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Posted by jane84
I'm a leo su It's funny you describe the relationship with the Cancer as boring even though she made you feel appreciated and cared for... I wondered if anyone would feel as if that type of relationship would be boring...as you did. It makes me think do people need that up and down excitement to stay? I had that with my ex (Taurus) and a Gemini. Too much up and down in the relationship though...not knowing how they felt etc. I left both of those relationships, it threw me off balance too often. My Sag is definitely not boring though...so there is that stimulation there as well.

I hope you find a combination of what you are looking for. It seems like you know what you want in a relationship.>

I like boring, I would kill for boring.

+1.

This is why I prefer water or earth SUNS for relationships. We value harmony & day to day easiness, we don't need constant fights for passion. I stir mine up from bottom of my deep earth... my partner from the depths of his ocean.

I do believe water and earth go well together..and fire and air go well together.

I mean it could work otherwise, but there's a more simple ease to the relationship this way it seems.

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Posted by arose32
But me and the sag was never smooth... Always something... But we were inseparable ...

That's how I was with the Taurus. Inseparable, but never smooth. As I've grown older, I feel like smooth is much better. It's a different kind of relationship. To each their own, but that's just how I feel.

Do you feel as though the "never smooth, always something" part is the reason it's hard to let go of?

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Posted by arose32
But me and the sag was never smooth... Always something... But we were inseparable ...

That's how I was with the Taurus. Inseparable, but never smooth. As I've grown older, I feel like smooth is much better. It's a different kind of relationship. To each their own, but that's just how I feel.

Do you feel as though the "never smooth, always something" part is the reason it's hard to let go of?

Yes... Like OMG. She messed me up so much. Like I'm talking to new people but I miss the I intensity. Not all of it, but it's like ... I kinda embrace others flaws now... I guess when you really comfortable with someone you start to show your TRUE TRUE colors. And sometimes we would laugh at each other crazy ways and sometimes we would hate each other for it. Like now...

The last stunt she pulled. Was TOTALLY UNCALLED FOR. But I miss her so much ��'� But I know it's for the better.



Did you guys break each other's heart?

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Posted by pakmai
Pisces/Virgo/Aquarius/Pisces/Aquarius/Gemini R.
Leo/Sagittarius/Leo/Libra/Gemini/Virgo R.

I was sure our synastry would be hell but he is the best guy ever. Water and Earth signs don't stimulate me even close to where Air signs (especially) or Fire signs do. He's really dominant but so passionate and romantic. Hes very straightforward and honest, it's a breath of fresh air. We communicate about almost everything. I use to be so anxious in the past but with him.. I haven't felt any anxiety at all! And we go on so many adventures!!! I love that the most!! He's always down to try something new. He came at the right time and I'm really happy with him!
Our house compatibility is fantastic too! I think that's what makes up for our charts.

Posted by Geminiam
I wouldn't go as far as to say I know he loves me yet, but current relationship is the most I have felt understood and cared for, smooth and healthy, easy, comfortable..definitely feel in sync. He can keep up with me, we entertain each other endlessly, but we can also be very loving and understanding.

Me: Gemini / Taurus / Gemini / Scorpio / (Virgo rising)

Him: Aries / Gemini / Pisces / Pisces / (Scorpio rising)

Posted by arose32
@jane84

Omg same here.. She broke my heart into a million pieces.. And took the pieces and threw them lol. I still crave her sooo much, but I'll let it end. We at the point where it's nothing else to do but be together... Ya know. And so the bad traits come out because it's too much love there, and at this time and point we can't love each other like we once did. But I know she'll do great things... I'm proud of her regardless, but she begin to fall in love with power more than loving me... And I'm thinking maybe because she felt more vulnerable than me... But who knows, I'm picking up my own pieces and getting back out there...

But yeah, it sucks... Because that passion is the best. But I don't think she can see herself with a girl for the rest of her life...