The dark side of Taurus men

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by dayssunny on Monday, September 5, 2011 and has 42 replies.
What have you found? I am really in shock about the very dark side. We are all humans but this is taking the cake.
These guys that my girlfriends are running into are really making me cue the twilight zone music. If you are too young to know what that is, just ignore that part Lol.
What I know Taurus to be is:
1) Loyal
2) Bold
3) Go after what they want
What I am seeing them do to my friends or exhibit behaviors such as:
1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached

What have you found and how did you deal with it? Do some of them just love the perpetual chase? I am rambling but I am like O M GEE where are they finding these people?
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Posted by Reason
Why do you see it as dark?


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I guess because I dont believe it's forthright to mislead people. It's personal because she's a great friend of mine.
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Taurus men can be petty, weak, dependent, they can be cold hearted, selfish, inconsiderate and extremely thick skulled. Their cold heartedness can border on truly not having a conscience.
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Again with them god damn venus in gemini.... Especially the male Taurus w/Gem venus... Damn them...


Damn them all to hell.....
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oh my TaurGuy--why damn us all?--i am aware this post is old but
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oh and as far as the dark side goes--I am clearly aware that People are going to arouse my fury so to avoid not being incapable to pick out my foe,I walk around with the brightest smile,all friendly.It's only to pick out the ones who are malicious,with the intent of hurt and harm.Because the ones who provoke someone when they are happy,are the ones who are your foes--for they do not care about your joy for they haven't any. I rarely showing acts of wrath --but i am not evil by any means it's just the action that follows after the result seems totally unethical.Whatever is said is said in the head before expressed (on this scale of reality) if angered.But that is after i test the person attempting to anger me,over and over,over again.I even avoid going around trouble just to avoid chaotic events.and as far as women--i am a gentle man--i readily give out complements--sincerely.(many call it playful teasing-but females do this as well)the key is to focus on the desire i have in me getting reached---and each female i talk to ,i will always notice something,and give complements-(they might be having a bad day) i read bodily language very well,so i can tell when they are sad,or whatever.but when you mention dark side:that i am afraid is a topic deeper than the two first four sentences i my story i wrote.(I'm in a confrontation with someone who insincere with how she feel s about her first born--and i think she 'is afraid --but that wasn't my motive)--hope that helps..but we are not all subject to the pitfalls of this unethical nature of ours.
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Posted by dayssunny
What have you found? I am really in shock about the very dark side. We are all humans but this is taking the cake.
These guys that my girlfriends are running into are really making me cue the twilight zone music. If you are too young to know what that is, just ignore that part Lol.
What I know Taurus to be is:
1) Loyal
2) Bold
3) Go after what they want
What I am seeing them do to my friends or exhibit behaviors such as:
1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached

What have you found and how did you deal with it? Do some of them just love the perpetual chase? I am rambling but I am like O M GEE where are they finding these people?


I keep bumping into one and he's a damn flirt - and unbelievably charmingTongue but he's like that with a lot of girls. I thought I was special? Shameless!! lol
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You'll see the dark side of any guy when he doesn't like a woman enough to want a relationship with her.
No guy or girl owes anyone anything or any gaw damed explanation for their actions. If you don't like it, move on. No need to stress, just goooooo...
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I know I may be a littl late but......
Yes Taurus guys can be great, however when they turn on you its a sad, sad situation LOL.
I KNOW a few Taurus guys who have liked me since high school and are in relationships now.....and would flirt and try to get with me but I just stay friends with them.
And I know Most Taurus men become very self absorbed, selfish and mean in order to mask the fear of getting hurt by a woman or being alone (they even convince themselves that they want to be single forever) so they will keep everyone at a distance by being % $ # holes.
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The first 4 signs of the zodiac are all about the discovery of the self: baby steps, oh I exist, I have, I think etc. Taurus relates to the earthly pleasures of food, touching, experiencing the body in a sensation-way style . It is a sign that's just individuating and yes, a lot of these guys will look to continuously replay that touching/skin experience.
When a sign arouses intensely negative feelings in yourself that you find unacceptable it usually is because you haven't integrated the traits of that sign in yourself, so don't be afraid to think of yourself as a Taurean for a sec, after all each and every one of us is a Taurus somewhere in their charts
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Hmmm.
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Yep. Hmm. Because it is quite interesting. And the Taurus forum is quite defensive or selective when responding to queries. So this is the perfect forum for those who aren't Taureans but who see the dark side.
To Mistery: I know that there is no need to stress because I am with one that is committed. However there are manipulative elements even to the one that I am with. Because I am a libra, I get very involved with my friends and family members and when they present their problems I am weighing it on the scales for eternity.
@Knit I've seen quite a few passive aggressive Taurus people.
Reconstructing you've made a lot of sense because a lot of them seem to be unevolved or cavemen when it comes to relationships and expression. It's always territorial and mine mine mine with them.
@Everyone that see the darker side I appreciate you bumping the thread. I signed in to see if I got any advice on my family's dilemma. So this was a delightful surprise.
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We do not answer questions that need no answer. Ones that should be addressed to the person whom is direct question. Nonsense queries, etc. If one answers satisfactorily the rest of us need not apply. It is not rudeness, but lack of love for drama and idiocy in general.
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I was w/ Taurus for many yrs. He was very down to earth, trustworthy and basically sweet but boring and lacking in ambition or personal growth. The only 'downside' quoted that I saw was that when he was doing well w/ his career his ego became ridiculously inflated.
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Posted by ellessque
these....
1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached
sound more like a venus in gem with either prominent fire or water placements, not a mix.
or someone not that mature.



Ouch, someone's been burned.
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Oh, yeah. Selfish. I didnt see him that way so much but he did tell me he thought he was too selfish to have children (not that I was pushing for children! I didnt want 'em either). It was an honest observation which I actually respected & appreciated.
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I saw this on yahoo answers the other day.
"Like Mystic said they are mind f-cking animals that prey on weak women who can be easily ear hustled. They will say whatever it takes to get the girl. Those who are loyal are rare, they are only loyal to male friends or the ones that they marry and quite frankly many of them aren't loyal to them. They love the attention and they want their cake and eat it too. He has a girlfriend because if he didn't, he would have pursued you. They dont care about hurting your feelings they dont have a conscience, they are just that selfish. It's hard to fathom because you are a Capricorn probably much more evolved but they are the second animal in the zodiac, the first one is caveman Aries. The second is them, all they do is charge around and try to get what they want. They are not the type that like to be pursued by the girl that they really want. And many times they are too immature to know what they want so they keep 100 women around. They like having girls there. I know that this girl that is so F-CKING stupid she competed with me and all he is doing is using her for the in between time. He will just say what she wants to hear but because she is an ego maniac and a conceited ***** she fails to realize that she didn't WIN him, I walked away. They dont care how unattractive their ego boosts are. They dont care how crazy they are. They dont care how fat they are. They just want them to know that they still are popular and pretty. If you are about surface dwelling you will never get to him. Chances are is that he is a chameleon and mostly what you know is not him but fragments of other women that he presents so that he can get a determined outcome - ATTENTION. There is no code to crack these hot and cold beasts. When you go cold they will do whatever it takes to get your attention but chances are, once you give in they are back to their old tricks. They are the very immature animals in the zodiac.
The other thing is this and I have to go on record saying it THEY LOVE MIND GAMES. And they don't care if they ***** you in the process with it. I want you to get that in your head. Because I couldnt understand this sh-t for the longest, why would some one do this? Don't understand it. It's like trying to find out why a serial killer likes to kill, they just do. Taurus men are MIND ******* animals. If you approach them, this will help their ego nothing more. You are applause for them. That's it"
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Posted by Reason
Too funny, are you a Cap, Inana?


Yep, I'm a Cap. I didn't write that though. A capricorn on yahoo answers had a question about a taurus and that was one of the responses lol. Here is the question. Not many others had good things to say either.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhWwfjNdBXl1Xy8kVt8AMfQjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20111012071930AATuaZe
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And I'm sure every one of those responses was written by someone in a failed relationship with one. Burnt sad people don't exactly write stellar reviews.
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Of the 3 earth signs, I have come to know that Taurus can be the most cold hearted. Beware ven in Taurus
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And I totally agree on the mind games. Taurus man is the greatest at mind games. Cold ruthless they can be.
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Posted by TaurGuy
Again with them god damn venus in gemini.... Especially the male Taurus w/Gem venus... Damn them...



Damn them all to hell.....


@Tg...lol...just read this..
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Posted by Mistery
You'll see the dark side of any guy when he doesn't like a woman enough to want a relationship with her.
No guy or girl owes anyone anything or any gaw damed explanation for their actions. If you don't like it, move on. No need to stress, just goooooo...


Sometimes an explanation wouldn't hurt. If I am kind, generous, supportive, great in bed (his words not mine) one day how do I suddenly become non-existent the next?
If I haven't changed anything, I haven't lied, cheated or used him or any other butthead behavavior then how do I learn from my mistake?
What do I take from this experience? That I am a horrible unloveable nasty uncaring bitch who doesn't deserve love?
Move on to.....become a hermit? the cat lady?
I don't like it. And if that makes me the stubborn pigheaded uncaring asshole Aries that we are all supposed to be then sobeit. I would not have done anything to hurt this person - it would have broken my heart. I think knowing what my crime was would be helpful. But I guess that is just something else I don't deserve, huh?
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Aw, my bro is a Taurus, I get the ins and outs of Taurus men. He is very secretive but lets slip a few times. Sometimes he even tells me this.
I like what Inana wrote. Not everyone is enlightened, nor aware. I have met good Taurus men, but I also know their dark side.
Dark side of Virgo is cunning, dark side of Capricorn is authoritarianism. But Taurus cold heart is chilling..
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Wow, I just finished watching a story a few minutes ago on 20/20 of Bernard Madoff(Taurus) who schemed people out of billions of dollars with no remorse or even regret. He stole from his family and had his sons completely unaware of what he was doing. His wife, also a Taurus stood by his side the whole time which destroyed one of his sons causing him to eventually commit suicide. He couldn't seem to escape the actions of his father, and when they sent Bernard off to prison for 150yrs he bragged in a letter about how he's become quite the celebrity there. wtf?
On another note, One of the most chilling documentaries I've watched EVER was the one on Jim Jones(Taurus) who also had zero conscious and had hundreds of people drinking poison.
I just want to know how to watch out for this kind. This Bernard guy will go down in history for having the biggest ponzi scheme ever, and he kept it all hidden, although I bet his wife knew. It's scary because I'm compatible with this sign and I actually like Taurus guys. I just want to know signs of the taurus guys that have this kind of potential.
Heck, I wanna know the signs on anybody that has this type of potential.
Also, if you google Eddie Long(taurus), he's a mega church leader out here in atlanta who's been in the news for months now for having relations with boys in his church. One of the guys seem borderline suicidal if you ask me because his life has been destroyed by this man. Eddie started luring them in at the ages of 14-16 with gifts, trips, money etc. Nothing sexual ever happened, but the boys were being mind-f*% CJED by him for years. just sad..
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ALL signs have that potential. Come now, you would let the few speak for the masses now? Anyone could pick a sign and find jacked up individuals within it.
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Posted by venusianbull
ALL signs have that potential. Come now, you would let the few speak for the masses now? Anyone could pick a sign and find jacked up individuals within it.


Have the potential to scam people out of billions and have no remorse for causing your sons suicide, and to get hundreds to follow you and drink poison? Who knew?!
I get what your saying though lol. Bad people are in every sign, but this thread is titled "The Dark Side of Taurus" and I'm in here to give examples of that dark side. As I said, I'd like to know the potential of the crazies of any sign, but we are talking about Taurus here.
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Yes and I happen to be one. One who sits in amazement as the rest of you do over these ass clowns and miscreants. Ones who bear zero resemblance to any Taurus friend of mine or to myself. These people by rearing and life situation could be of any sign. It doesn't read as "Taurus" or "Scorpio" or any of the rest. It simply reads "fucked up individual".
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When Usama BL died we/I totted up a bit of a list of well known dictators/baddies and we pretty much had the 12 sun signs covered.
I am not sure if there is some kink in their astro make up somewhere to make them monsters, but we need to look at more than just suns.


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Yeppers, I'll just toss Hitler out there for the hell of it. Taurus aye? Yes. But let's push it under the rug that insanity ran hard and deep in his family and all the other random unimportant factemazoids.
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Pretty sure he was an Aries.
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What I am seeing them do to my friends or exhibit behaviors such as:
1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached

Me too and not with other signs at all. Minus detachment with aqua and pisces lol
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Posted by dayssunny
What have you found? I am really in shock about the very dark side. We are all humans but this is taking the cake.
These guys that my girlfriends are running into are really making me cue the twilight zone music. If you are too young to know what that is, just ignore that part Lol.
What I know Taurus to be is:
1) Loyal
2) Bold
3) Go after what they want
What I am seeing them do to my friends or exhibit behaviors such as:
1) Womanizers
2) Say anything to women around them just to keep them in their stable of cows/herd.
3) Egoists
4) String people along
5) Detached

What have you found and how did you deal with it? Do some of them just love the perpetual chase? I am rambling but I am like O M GEE where are they finding these people?



Well if they want to string people along then maybe they are going after what they want. And getting it.
Tell your friends not to go out with Tauruses if it is such a problem.
I had a bad run with Geminis. Now I have nothing to do with them and hey presto! No problem. I am sure there are great ones out there (probably all snapped up by now so not an issue for me.)
It's pretty simple really.
Dickheads are born year round. Truly. Check all the boards.
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I've got a close taurus friend who I love like a brother, but his inability to say no to a woman bugs me. He had a thing with a girl, and after that she wanted something real, which he told her just could not happen. But overtime she would not stop, so he gave in. They've been messing around for a while, and then he finally breaks the news that he doesnt feel the same way, after she suggested he meet her mom. Poor girl was heartbroken, I mean really. He cannot say no. Which really gets him in trouble with women, cz the only time he decides to speak up is when things have gone far.

argh taurus.
But my other close taurus friend is awesome. He's very honest, but the sad part is he can't be with the one he loves, cz she doesnt feel the same way at all. So even though he's dating someone else, and now she's pregnant, he cant imagine being with her for the rest of his life... :-/ so....
I think they just have a way of getting themselves into trouble.
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If she is pregnant it sounds like a little more than "dating" going on here.
So is it perfectly ok in society, if you can't be with the one you love, to just date/root anyone? Is that what we are all doing?
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Pretty sure he was an Aries.


I believe he was both, like me.
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Posted by venusianbull
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Pretty sure he was an Aries.


I believe he was both, like me.
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He may be a cusper VB, but he is nothing like you. You are a force to be reckoned with.
He was just a big bully.
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
If she is pregnant it sounds like a little more than "dating" going on here.
So is it perfectly ok in society, if you can't be with the one you love, to just date/root anyone? Is that what we are all doing?


I could go on and on about him trying to make it work, but he is set on it being unfair that he has to be with someone he doesn't truly love...just because she is pregnant. :-/
Ofcourse it's not okay, but just because it's not okay doesn't mean it's not happening. Someone gets their heart broken, whom do they run to?? The ex, or guy next door who has been eyeing them for a while.
He gets rejected, he runs into someone else's arms...
think we're all guilty of it at some point.
he just got a baby as a bonus.lol...okay,that was mean. lol
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OK, I read almost all of your posts and damn, I'm glad I'm not alone. Yes, I've been burned by a Bull, but in a very odd way. We started as friends, then lovers, then enemies, then frenemies, then lovers and back to plationic friends...ALL HIS REQUEST!! SO yes, I love him deeply, and that's why the pain lingers and such...
He and I get along SO WELL in person, ( Cancers/Bull, perfect match) but he is a Jekyll & Hyde and I can only stand to be ignored for so long. Ive taken a week off this week...its been an on-going tug of war for 3.5 yrs. I let go of the rope several times, and this prick manages a way to climb back into the thick of it at the most oddest times!! UGH...but as long as we let them back in, they will make themselve comfortable, ask for a meal and end up sleeping with you before you take your 2nd blink!!
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I feel kind of mac cause I'm often the object of unrequited love. It's not that I'm trying to make people fall for me, some have said I'm lovable, too lovable. I guess i make it easy to love me cause I'm respectful, intelligent, sociable, and laid back. But it's like i can't when fore losing, i state i may like someone buy in not interested in a relationship. I help if I'm attractive and charming, not to toot my own horn. Those are other people's description of me. But then they wasn't space and I'm cool with it but then when I'm distant or act aloof I'm child hearted or shady... but they did ASK for space an that's what they got. They say stuff like that hoping I'm going to fight for them but, I'm not fighter I'm a lover :-), unless provoked, then I'm a orce to be reckoned with, mentally, verbally, or physically. But yes i am a Taurus man with Virgo rising and moon in capricorn(gay man of that counts, and still ladies seem to love me ) even after finding out mypreference)
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I feel kind of mac cause I'm often the object of unrequited love. It's not that I'm trying to make people fall for me, some have said I'm lovable, too lovable. I guess i make it easy to love me cause I'm respectful, intelligent, sociable, and laid back. But it's like i can't when fore losing, i state i may like someone buy in not interested in a relationship. I help if I'm attractive and charming, not to toot my own horn. Those are other people's description of me. But then they wasn't space and I'm cool with it but then when I'm distant or act aloof I'm child hearted or shady... but they did ASK for space an that's what they got. They say stuff like that hoping I'm going to fight for them but, I'm not fighter I'm a lover :-), unless provoked, then I'm a orce to be reckoned with, mentally, verbally, or physically. But yes i am a Taurus man with Virgo rising and moon in capricorn(gay man of that counts, and still ladies seem to love me ) even after finding out my preference)
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