The Scorpian Verses The Virgin

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by cappysweetie on Sunday, July 22, 2007 and has 8 replies.
What am I going to do? For as long as I've been in my 20s, I've never been intensely attracted to two guys before.
They are both very different and I'm attracted to each guy for very different reasons!!!!!
Okay, the Scorpio Guy:
-Intelligent
-Kind
-Humorous -- he get be so goofy
-Ambitious (he is about as busy as I am)
-Warm (He seems so sensitive, yet very strong ... OHHHH MY ...)
-I feel that he will be the type of guy to fall for a bitch because he is so gentle and kind. He is strict and stern, but mean ... never. I can tell that his schedule gets to him at times and he needs someone to share his thought with. He seems so eager love and protect and that energy he gives off drives me crazy.

Now, the Virgo Guy:
-Reserved, in a cool way
-A dark and sarcastic sense of humor -- I like this kind of humor too
-He can be really affectionate and playful
-He will tell the truth regardless -- he doesn't care if you don't like it.
-There's this wierd physical attraction a feel towards him -- and I can't seem to shake it! I know it's terrible -- but don't worry, I can control myself. I will not give in. Plus, there's a HUGE barrier stopping anything potential happening.
-He acts really tough, but I can see deep down that he is very different -- like the image he projects to people is false.
Oh dear, but I'm alone and I have neither of these guys and I don't know if either would ever be attracted to me. However, I cannot deny that I like both very different reasons and I don't know what to do about. I'm afraid to concentrate one because I may get my heartbroken into a million pieces. But you know, if I could pick the one I really want it would be .... ***hold that thought ***
Well, I guess it wouldn't be fair because the virgin has the barrier -- and this "barrier" is a huge deal that I refuse to mess with.
I'm torn, what should I do? Maybe I should just crawl in a hole ...?
Ive been with scorpio and am currently with virgo...ur a capricorn, scorpio will be great at first but not long term...too different, u will find out.
Virgo is naturally compatible with you, sex is very important in a relationship regardless if people admit it or not...it is, especially for the virgoan male as he has been sexually supressed for lifetimes...hes constantly curious. As well as being an earth sign he will understand you much better than any other sign.
Since u mentioned the great attraction for him and not really for the scorp, I say go for the virgo if ur looking for more long term and scorpio for short.
You'll need more in-depth analysis on them. How about a look at the other planets, like Venus?
Cappy and Virgo are a very good match..but I just don't think two earth signs should get together..an earth sign needs a livewire and someone demonstrative in love..I don't think virgo are..I dealt with one for a year and half..in the end I just couldn't open up emotionally because he wouldn't...
Thank you for the advice everyone smile
Sagigoat, thats what I'm afraid of with a virgo. My mars and venus are both in Aquarius, and I need way more then just a romp-in-the-sack.
"I've been kinda harsh on CapGals, but that's because I haven't known that many personally, and the few I have crossed paths with have chapped my hide..."
LOL!!! Poor DY smile
Well, given your profession, the women have to be tough -- but it doesn't mean that they are the exact same way outside of work Big Grin
Thank you TD,
I will agree that a virgo will attract me sexually, but ... like what if the guy doesn't open up to me? A scorpio will open up, ONLY if he trusts you -- he becomes mean if he doesn't trust you ...
Haha, you need to leave the "love" arena alone ... I clearly don't know what I'm doing.

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