THE UPPER ROOM:

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by piggytoo240 on Tuesday, June 18, 2013 and has 14 replies.
I wanted to create a place where anyone is welcomed to share their relationships. Your stories does not have to be explained by a particular zodiac sign.,or attatched to any particular zodiac forum and can be addressed just as human beings. whether it be...

1. Discussions or help regarding a new relationship
2. Discussions or help on relationships that are ego driven and are falling apart
3. Discussions or help on romantic ideas for relationships
4. Discussions or help on intimacy in relationships
5. Discussions or help on abusive relationships and why should they end ect...
Created for all of the people women/men who are surfing the boards to get answers to questions about the people they are with, but instead are being tossed out or ignored. we dont invite bullies here, but if you are seriously willing to offer help to those in need,than we welcome you to join.

So i hope everyone will take part and enjoy this discussion room

Who will be the first to share their story Tongue
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Hey Piggy! _??_
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I will start off a discussion!
To be honest, I cannot stand how my parents used to be towards eachother before they finally ended their marriage, moved apart, and fully separated.
My mother stayed in an abusive relationship for around 7 years, this abusiveness came from my father, he did hit her, and he also hit us kids. This isn't healthy at all, overall I think it has made me slightly violent myself - I can never contain my anger, I cry because I get so angry and don't know what to do because I hate hurting people. ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD END. They don't just affect the two that are relationships, but the others around them!
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My relationship ended around 4 months ago and since then I have had a few curve balls thrown at me...things I couldn't control but had to swallow..my emotions were all over the place during this time and it was hard to let everything out. I almost went down a road that I would never normally go, I felt to hell with it, I'm always doing the right thing and I just keep getting kicked! But over a couple of days, just the thought of where I was heading and how I was already feeling made me change directions...
I'm so glad I did, I'm happy I didn't become that person..things are already improving and I feel great again. I know things will work out with these obstacles it's just a matter of patience and I'm finding my feet again socially and enjoying my new found freedom.
When life kicks mud at us, it's best to swipe it off and carry on not try and kick it back! Another lesson learnt.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Hey Piggy! _??_



Hey BeautifulSoul! How are ya Tongue
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Posted by Kalean
miss ya piggy!!!, hope all is well for you smile x



Hello Kalean! How are you? How's school and everything? I have seen you around the boards...most times i get in too late to post on the forums.
miss ya too love and i will keep in touch more often. Winking
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Posted by sweethearts
My relationship ended around 4 months ago and since then I have had a few curve balls thrown at me...things I couldn't control but had to swallow..my emotions were all over the place during this time and it was hard to let everything out. I almost went down a road that I would never normally go, I felt to hell with it, I'm always doing the right thing and I just keep getting kicked! But over a couple of days, just the thought of where I was heading and how I was already feeling made me change directions...
I'm so glad I did, I'm happy I didn't become that person..things are already improving and I feel great again. I know things will work out with these obstacles it's just a matter of patience and I'm finding my feet again socially and enjoying my new found freedom.
When life kicks mud at us, it's best to swipe it off and carry on not try and kick it back! Another lesson learnt.



Hi sweethearts!
Im so sorry to hear about your family issues as i too had a difficult family along with chilhood trauma. im glad to know that you found a way to take back control and find your happiness again. it was a long journey for me too and still learning every day. keep up the good because the bad does no justice for anyone.
( Huggs )

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The past couple of years have been tumultuous for me. Was Saturn in Libra? Hell, from what happened I could've sworn it was in Sag!
Lost a very important friend/lover and discovered what truly matters. Loss will always happen. But it is an opportunity to gain because space is created for something more meaningful and long lasting. Through adversity I have been strengthened and see the horizon of my destiny. I am surrounded by those who truly care for and support me. A new chapter has begun and I am ready to experience it.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Hey Piggy! _??_



Hey BeautifulSoul! How are ya Tongue
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I'm great and am glad to see you in good spirits!
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Hey Piggy! _??_



Hey BeautifulSoul! How are ya Tongue


I'm great and am glad to see you in good spirits!
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Glad to hear you're doing well and yes i have been feeling really good lateley. I've been catching up on much needed rest, and its paying off.
It's good to be back!
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
The past couple of years have been tumultuous for me. Was Saturn in Libra? Hell, from what happened I could've sworn it was in Sag!
Lost a very important friend/lover and discovered what truly matters. Loss will always happen. But it is an opportunity to gain because space is created for something more meaningful and long lasting. Through adversity I have been strengthened and see the horizon of my destiny. I am surrounded by those who truly care for and support me. A new chapter has begun and I am ready to experience it.



@BS! I sooo agree with this^^^^ I've had some experiences also in which you know my stories. Gods hands are on your shoulders...to be humble is to have experienced humility. May your journey be peaceful and full of blessings. Tongue
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miss ya piggy!!!, hope all is well for you smile x



Hello Kalean! How are you? How's school and everything? I have seen you around the boards...most times i get in too late to post on the forums.
miss ya too love and i will keep in touch more often. Winking

I'm doing alright thanks smile x, wbu?? I've finished college now so atm just starting to touch up my cv for jobs. wbu??? How's work been?? x
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Helloooo Kalean!! I have been working very long hours lately....proms..graduations ect. The Beauty business is always caos lol. I've finally been catching up on some rest so im feeling really good right now.

Good to hear from ya tho ...so you're done with college now and still on the move i see Winking good for you, and best of luck in your job search.
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Posted by Dogma
Hey everyone, I am struggling to leave a relationship that I don't want to be a part of anymore. Its been longterm, and I have fought my way through this whole thing to keep us as a family together. Many times I have thought about throwing in the towel & giving up. I had many great reasons to in the past, but stayed like a loyal puppy & now can't do this anymore, its been downhill ever since. He won't let me go Sad doesn't matter if I ignore him. Don't see him. Even hide from him. I feel like a possion & its making me miserable. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Being on here feels like am leading a double life


Wow! how sad...everyone deserves to be happy. Are there kids involved and are you married?
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Posted by Dogma
Hey everyone, I am struggling to leave a relationship that I don't want to be a part of anymore. Its been longterm, and I have fought my way through this whole thing to keep us as a family together. Many times I have thought about throwing in the towel & giving up. I had many great reasons to in the past, but stayed like a loyal puppy & now can't do this anymore, its been downhill ever since. He won't let me go Sad doesn't matter if I ignore him. Don't see him. Even hide from him. I feel like a possion & its making me miserable. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Being on here feels like am leading a double life


*hugs*
A happy parents usually produces happy children, you will be fine, are there kids involve? If there are kids involve, might as well take another step back and think again.
This is my personal opinion, if I were in your place I would leave even of there are kids involve.
I will never be a good parent if I, myself is miserable deep inside and the kids will surely feel it.
I need to be fine first and take care of myself too so I will be a functioning and balance parent.
Not that I'm being selfish but I have to think of my kids welfare that is why I am taking full responsibility of myself (if ever thee are kids involve).
I think being at peace with ourselves is very crucial for every individual.
Do pray or meditate for higher guidance so you will come up with best decision smile
I wis you well...
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