This scorpio...

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by hanabie on Tuesday, June 28, 2011 and has 4 replies.
I met him from online. I was just curious, he come off strong Im a bit overwhelmed hes really such a nice guy to start with...and I thought we connect really well emotionally. I have only seen him in pics and same as me too coz hes too busy with work we dont have any time to chat in YM, never done cam to cam, but we do chat through fone. And he calls me too sometimes. He told me he was really interested in me, but I wondered why he never asks me about what I like and my hobbies or what I love to do. But he is very very sweet and caring...and he said if we only live close to each other I would be like his girlfriend. And he told me that I am the closest girl next to a girlfriend and I am too special for him...But Im used to knowing that if a guy is interested in me, he would be like asking me a lot of things about my life, but this guy is different...Its like he is interested,but not interested...Argggh Im confused. Now Im having doubts and I think of just distancing myself since I am being careful now I dont wanna get myself hurt and jeopardize my feelings. I need opinions. Thanks, any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you everyone!
Why can't people talk without it having to be more?
Why do you have to want to think it to be more?
Are you desperate to have someone love you?


What does he do?
What does he like?
What time does he take a shit every day?

Seriously ... your Virgo is showing, and it's not looking very pretty.

i posted in here because i was just confused and not to misunderstand it with being DESPERATE of being loved by somebody... its not like asking him to love and give me all his time.
Posted by hanabie
.... I wondered why he never asks me about what I like and my hobbies or what I love to do. But he is very very sweet and caring...and he said if we only live close to each other I would be like his girlfriend. And he told me that I am the closest girl next to a girlfriend and I am too special for him...But Im used to knowing that if a guy is interested in me, he would be like asking me a lot of things about my life ...




You have an expectation on how you believe he is supposed to be relating to you .. instead of doing what people are supposed to actually do .. which is accept the person for what they have to offer, and then the two of you form a relationship based on who you both really are.
And yes, a girl sounds desperate for love when she has to have expectations for boys to adhere to, in order to feel like they are special.

Posted by hanabie
Now Im having doubts and I think of just distancing myself since I am being careful now I dont wanna get myself hurt and jeopardize my feelings.

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Of course you're having doubts .. you're a Virgo ... doubt when it comes to your own feelings, and fear of putting your feelings on the line for anyone other than yourself is a typical Virgo trait.

Typical


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