torn between 2 lovers leo or libra
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by seascape on Saturday, April 25, 2009 and has 20 replies.
This is hilarious..
Yeah it is, some of us cant even find one suitable and she has two!!
I think you are more inclined to want the Libran over the Leo...WHY???
Because you arent getting everything handed to you on a plate with the Libran and the Leo is going all out there...that's the heart.
But the head would go with the Leo, there is more security there, still not perfect but more workable and he's more of the bird in hand unlike the other flighy one!
I think you are more inclined to want the Libran over the Leo...WHY???
Because you arent getting everything handed to you on a plate with the Libran and the Leo is going all out there...that's the heart.
But the head would go with the Leo, there is more security there, still not perfect but more workable and he's more of the bird in hand unlike the other flighy one!
"But the heart is retarded thats why it always gets broken. Go with your head." Quoting lol
Cont..
I and libra are more like calm water ... too peaceful, too simple no butterflies in the stomach.. I feel like I love him more like a friend...but we will have a lasting peaceful union whilst with leo..I will feel all butterflies, loves & all but how long will it last? Argggg im so confused... :.(
I and libra are more like calm water ... too peaceful, too simple no butterflies in the stomach.. I feel like I love him more like a friend...but we will have a lasting peaceful union whilst with leo..I will feel all butterflies, loves & all but how long will it last? Argggg im so confused... :.(
^^ Yeah, I'm gonna have to agree with you on the leo thing. I'm sorry but I really don't like leo's. I'm not a big fan of libras either but I find leos are just over barring, self-centred but pretend to be about other people but they just get off from "the doing good" for people for their own selfish reason not cause they actually care, just for show. They are both pretty similar to eachother but I find libra's to be more respectable. That's just my 2 cents lol
"stroke his ego and his dick and he'll be yours forever. Yeah it is that easy!" aquarius goddess you are fucking hilarious lol
"stroke his ego and his dick and he'll be yours forever. Yeah it is that easy!" aquarius goddess you are fucking hilarious lol
Btw what your sign seascape?
Well you sound like you have met 2 descent guys/friends BUT are they the one??? Do you have to settle for either one for any reason? Doesn't sound to me like either will fulfill you til death do you part...
What's the rush?
What's the rush?
thanks No rush..im 27 and somehow I feel like I should start building something with the one? I don't know.. Libra wants to marry soon..he is very ready.. He's not making it obvious..all his bestfriends are married and told me he knows who he will get as sponsored for his wedding etc... but yea no rush.. I don't wanna lose both a good friend..so right now I wanna set things straight.. If I will flirt or just be friendly ( well flirting to me doesn't include sex) just just give an idea of the 'us' I don't want to make anyone hope or break hearts. I don't know if im making sense.
Im a gemini..
You see... no mention of the Leo, so reading between the lines I feel you want the Libran...I'm learning that you geminis are like us Librans in the sense that the decision making is painful!!!
At the end of the day though, you have to weigh up what you know you will be happy with. i'd look at both these gents and think about 20 years down the track with them...which do you see yourself happier with???
At the end of the day though, you have to weigh up what you know you will be happy with. i'd look at both these gents and think about 20 years down the track with them...which do you see yourself happier with???
maybe you are right... maybe I love the libra.. But he always hurt me & never satify me emotionally... im a gemini im normally cool but with him I get all needy coz he never give too much...leo on the other hand, never hurts me& makes me feel... but if I can have a choice I want everything about libra..and the leo way of loving me.. grrr...my life sux. Like right now..libra just ignored me..he texted me a while ago...2 x then we texted a bit.. Then he said will give me space...and he just left with his freinds...no words...eff ..not even invite me to go.. A while ago I was working and now im not anymore and he knows that...im always pssed off at him... he's such an as.ole. He always give me something to feel bad about while leo...only good feelings...
Sweety, what do YOU want? Which person best suits you & is compatible with your personality?
Sure, they both have alot of good and bads to them, but it comes down to the question of who currently has your heart the most? It might be 49/51% but the point is, somebody's got you a little more interested (even if it's just 1% ) more than the other. Do what your heart tells you to do.
Sure, they both have alot of good and bads to them, but it comes down to the question of who currently has your heart the most? It might be 49/51% but the point is, somebody's got you a little more interested (even if it's just 1% ) more than the other. Do what your heart tells you to do.
Look at it like this...
1) Who is the better choice for you right now? Stop talking about what your Libra or Leo COULD be. As of right now, who would fulfill your emotional needs the most?
2) Who is better at taking you there mentally? Who has supported you, gotten you to open up the most and showed you that you were very important to their happiness right now at this stage in life?
3) Who is better sexually? Who can "take you there" in the bedroom or with just the simple touch on your skin?
4) Who would your friends and family probably chose for you if they knew the goods and the bads of both?
5) Who seems to be the one who'd you last the longest with? Who seems to be the most serious & dedicated to settling down right now?
6) Who seems to be the one who has some of the same morals, values and beliefs as you?
7) Which one shares the same hobbies, interests, likes and dislikes, petpeeves and over all similarities in personality with you?
8)Which one seems to be the most emotionally available?
9) Which one has the most realistic long-term and short term goals for their lives?
10) Who is the most financially stable & who is the one who has the better credit score? (May sound shallow, but trust me that's important to know about any man you plan on settling down with)
Think about it. Go over this list with both your Libra & Leo and whomever you answered YES to with the most, that should be your choice, along with what your heart really wants.
1) Who is the better choice for you right now? Stop talking about what your Libra or Leo COULD be. As of right now, who would fulfill your emotional needs the most?
2) Who is better at taking you there mentally? Who has supported you, gotten you to open up the most and showed you that you were very important to their happiness right now at this stage in life?
3) Who is better sexually? Who can "take you there" in the bedroom or with just the simple touch on your skin?
4) Who would your friends and family probably chose for you if they knew the goods and the bads of both?
5) Who seems to be the one who'd you last the longest with? Who seems to be the most serious & dedicated to settling down right now?
6) Who seems to be the one who has some of the same morals, values and beliefs as you?
7) Which one shares the same hobbies, interests, likes and dislikes, petpeeves and over all similarities in personality with you?
8)Which one seems to be the most emotionally available?
9) Which one has the most realistic long-term and short term goals for their lives?
10) Who is the most financially stable & who is the one who has the better credit score? (May sound shallow, but trust me that's important to know about any man you plan on settling down with)
Think about it. Go over this list with both your Libra & Leo and whomever you answered YES to with the most, that should be your choice, along with what your heart really wants.
1. Do you want a man who is not afraid to open up to you emotionally & reveal his true colors to you emotionally? If yes, then pick the Leo since he's the only one whose doing that RIGHT now.
2. Do you want a man who is too stubborn with his money or a man that is overly-generous with his?
3) Do you want a man whom you've got to beg and plead to open up to you and show you who he really is, or would you rather take the man that's already an open book, with no shame in his game?
4) Do you want a man who acts like you owe him the world before he even commits to you OR a man who to which it didn't take long for him to see your value, thus immediately showering you with the gifts, affection & attention you deserve?
5) Do you want a man who's sexy but may not be who you want emotionally & intellectually? Or the man who is just decent, but yet has other talents that make up for his lack of good looks? Do you want a man that all the ladies will secretely try to steal behind your back, or the man that most women missed out on, considering they passed him b/c they thought that since he wasn't as attractive, he coulnd't possibly offer anything else?
You make the call
2. Do you want a man who is too stubborn with his money or a man that is overly-generous with his?
3) Do you want a man whom you've got to beg and plead to open up to you and show you who he really is, or would you rather take the man that's already an open book, with no shame in his game?
4) Do you want a man who acts like you owe him the world before he even commits to you OR a man who to which it didn't take long for him to see your value, thus immediately showering you with the gifts, affection & attention you deserve?
5) Do you want a man who's sexy but may not be who you want emotionally & intellectually? Or the man who is just decent, but yet has other talents that make up for his lack of good looks? Do you want a man that all the ladies will secretely try to steal behind your back, or the man that most women missed out on, considering they passed him b/c they thought that since he wasn't as attractive, he coulnd't possibly offer anything else?
You make the call
And hey if you still can't pick after answering all of those questions, then just slow down a little, go with the flow and date both until one of them messes up or gives you reason to pick the other one. B/c trust me, if you have patience and date with wisdom, you'll see something in one of them that either eliminates them as a choice all together OR puts their percentage so much higher than the other person that you won't have a choice but to clearly see who's the better choice.
Just observe and watch. See who'd be the best match for you right now. Who pisses you off the most? Or which one do you misunderstand the most or find yourself getting annoyed with the most? Who keeps your attention the most? When you get to that stage in your life when looks aren't everthing, and when life is all about who's the best potential father for your children, who's the better match. Children don't care about looks. All they care about is attention, love, eating & sleeping. Who would your children (in the future) probably pick as their father (if they could) if you were them?
Trust me, with patience you'll eventually weed out one over the other. The key is patience though
Just observe and watch. See who'd be the best match for you right now. Who pisses you off the most? Or which one do you misunderstand the most or find yourself getting annoyed with the most? Who keeps your attention the most? When you get to that stage in your life when looks aren't everthing, and when life is all about who's the best potential father for your children, who's the better match. Children don't care about looks. All they care about is attention, love, eating & sleeping. Who would your children (in the future) probably pick as their father (if they could) if you were them?
Trust me, with patience you'll eventually weed out one over the other. The key is patience though
Thanks guys that's really helpful. I will think about all this ..process process process...
I spent the weekend witht the libra we went to maine for a trip just us as friends... we are very cool & friendly... he's very not showing emotions whatsoever. But we we're playing on his computer and I saw he made a folder with my pictures in it and some other info about me? What is that? Stalker? And all this time he is really cold and have a folder for me? I can't begin to imagine...and his songs even the ones he hates like rock, he doesn't like rock music but the ones that I likle and have on my myspace account playlist,,he has on his I phone... all my songs actually??? Does that mean he likes me or am I reading too much?
I spent the weekend witht the libra we went to maine for a trip just us as friends... we are very cool & friendly... he's very not showing emotions whatsoever. But we we're playing on his computer and I saw he made a folder with my pictures in it and some other info about me? What is that? Stalker? And all this time he is really cold and have a folder for me? I can't begin to imagine...and his songs even the ones he hates like rock, he doesn't like rock music but the ones that I likle and have on my myspace account playlist,,he has on his I phone... all my songs actually??? Does that mean he likes me or am I reading too much?
Ughhhhhhhh don't be stupid. The Libra! LOL
No input on this dearests?
Im in love with the libra..he has so many flaws but so does everybody else.. He even stinks sometimes and I love it... hahahah but now he won't talk to me..he's being cold , I must have done something wrong..his silent treatement when he is mad is something I have to deal with... leo on the other hand...is showering me with too much love and affection to a point of exaggeration... I've to tell the lion to ...not bite me? Lol
What do u guys think of the libra keeping a folder of my info on his comp? I friggin need some views on this im really dumb. Thanks
What do u guys think of the libra keeping a folder of my info on his comp? I friggin need some views on this im really dumb. Thanks
There's no doubt that this Libra likes you more than he's willing to admit to you. Look at his actions & not necessarily his words. And then again, understand that this may be how this Libra is in general (versus it just being a phase), & that he may really be this cold & distant (it's nothing personal against you). And if this is truly how he is with everyone or atleast with women he's contemplating on going that next step with, then you have to take this part of his personality into consideration: can you handle this or will this part of him always get on your nerves & potentially drive you away from him in the long run?
If he has pictures of you on his computer, what's the big dea. Unless he got those pictures without your permission or unless you don't know how he got those pictures, then I don't see you having a reason to worry. If anything, him having you on his computer means that he sees a point in seeing your pictures when he's not around you (in person). If he were more verbal in how he felt about you, you wouldn't see this as possibly stalking. The reason you do is b/c of how much shock you're in that he actually is showing signs of liking you. So if anything, if you're going to analyze anything, analyze how he's showing you he likes you, versus telling you.
And hun, still it comes down to what you can handle. If he's not willing to step it up & let you "in" during the times when he is hurt or mad about something then you'll never have any motivation after a while to keep chasing after something that seems so impossible to really have & say is yours for good. What you see is what you get. If you can't communicate these feelings to him the same way you can to dxp (a random website) then that should tell you something. This whole situation is bothering you b/c your heart & your mind are telling you 2 DIFFERENT things. You just need to decide which one you're going to listen to
If he has pictures of you on his computer, what's the big dea. Unless he got those pictures without your permission or unless you don't know how he got those pictures, then I don't see you having a reason to worry. If anything, him having you on his computer means that he sees a point in seeing your pictures when he's not around you (in person). If he were more verbal in how he felt about you, you wouldn't see this as possibly stalking. The reason you do is b/c of how much shock you're in that he actually is showing signs of liking you. So if anything, if you're going to analyze anything, analyze how he's showing you he likes you, versus telling you.
And hun, still it comes down to what you can handle. If he's not willing to step it up & let you "in" during the times when he is hurt or mad about something then you'll never have any motivation after a while to keep chasing after something that seems so impossible to really have & say is yours for good. What you see is what you get. If you can't communicate these feelings to him the same way you can to dxp (a random website) then that should tell you something. This whole situation is bothering you b/c your heart & your mind are telling you 2 DIFFERENT things. You just need to decide which one you're going to listen to
Well good for you!!!! See, I told you it was only a matter of time before one OR both weeded themselves out. It's just a matter of patience. With you're Leo, I'm glad you told yourself the truth about not really "feelin" your Leo. And with the Libra, hey if he told you not to like him then run like hell b/c that means that it won't mean anything to him for you to chase him. He couldn't just had you around for company or as a rebound b/c it sounds like to me that he is CLEARY emotionally unavailable. And hey that happens. The key is RUNNING like hell the minute you see the signs that he isn't all there with or for you.
The best thing to do now is not to settle with 1 or the other just b/c those are the only 2 options right now. If neither one are good for you or meet your standards then move on & have the confidence & faith in yourself that someone better for you will come along. When 1 door closes, it's b/c another door is about to open.
The best thing to do now is not to settle with 1 or the other just b/c those are the only 2 options right now. If neither one are good for you or meet your standards then move on & have the confidence & faith in yourself that someone better for you will come along. When 1 door closes, it's b/c another door is about to open.
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