unlucky in love

Can someone read my chart placement and tell me why im so unlucky when it comes to finding love i kno im not a bad person

Stop worrying about what you want. And focus on what you have to offer.

Your not the only person who has been unlucky with love. But saying it like that is selfish. At least you were able to love which is a beautiful thing.

Ok .....i kno i just want it so bad to a point where im going mad lol

From an asrology point of view...

http://sphereheals.wordpress.com/2013/01/27/learning-from-chiron-the-wounded-healer-part-2-by-heather-eggleston/<BR> Chiron in Leo (or the fifth house) speaks to the wounded ego. This placement may indicate someone who seems very confident (or invisible) but is deeply insecure. Behind the bluster and narcissism is someone who is tragically fragile and fears others will see through the carefully crafted facade. This person must go deep into himself to find his ego elevated and celebrate his wounds as integral parts of him rather than causes for shame. Once he achieves this he shines like the sun warming others in his radiant, if sometimes brilliantly wounded, corona.

I am not saying that is the end all-be all to your plight... but certainly has some implication.

I think the heavy 12th house with venus would be important as well.

There are those in this world who relationships are a more natural occurrence, and thoae who will always struggle. Just because it is something you crave and struggle with, it does not define you. It isnt about being a bad person or not, which I am glad to hear you say you haven't gotten to a point of thinking that. There are other things to be gleaned from life than the stereotypical ways in which we are presented "love"...

Broaden your scope on what love is and how it can be present in your life.

R u implyin thats its like a non traditional sense?

Posted by deezie
I am not saying that is the end all-be all to your plight... but certainly has some implication.

I think the heavy 12th house with venus would be important as well.

There are those in this world who relationships are a more natural occurrence, and thoae who will always struggle. Just because it is something you crave and struggle with, it does not define you. It isnt about being a bad person or not, which I am glad to hear you say you haven't gotten to a point of thinking that. There are other things to be gleaned from life than the stereotypical ways in which we are presented "love"...

Broaden your scope on what love is and how it can be present in your life.

I agree with deezie, here.

You do have a lot going on in your 12th House--

ALSO

Merc conjunct Neptune is one of your tightest aspects (along with Moon sq Jupiter)-- it may be your

perception that is getting in your way.


To say nothing of that Pisces Moon. 🙂

You may want to read up on that, first.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by deezie
I am not saying that is the end all-be all to your plight... but certainly has some implication.

I think the heavy 12th house with venus would be important as well.

There are those in this world who relationships are a more natural occurrence, and thoae who will always struggle. Just because it is something you crave and struggle with, it does not define you. It isnt about being a bad person or not, which I am glad to hear you say you haven't gotten to a point of thinking that. There are other things to be gleaned from life than the stereotypical ways in which we are presented "love"...

Broaden your scope on what love is and how it can be present in your life.

I agree with deezie, here.

You do have a lot going on in your 12th House--

ALSO

Merc conjunct Neptune is one of your tightest aspects (along with Moon sq Jupiter)-- it may be your

perception that is getting in your way.


To say nothing of that Pisces Moon. 🙂

You may want to read up on that, first.

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Perception? ?.......can u be more specific?

Hey, here is a interesting look at yourself as well. It is interesting, mainly if you are bored of people saying the same things over again. You might need to read it a few times to make sense of it as the writing style is a bit indecisive to me.

http://www.primalastrology.com/spider.html

Do u still live in Miami? If so, there's the problem. It's probably the least relationship oriented city in the US.

Ughhh unfortunately yes i do and i agree

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by deezie
I am not saying that is the end all-be all to your plight... but certainly has some implication.

I think the heavy 12th house with venus would be important as well.

There are those in this world who relationships are a more natural occurrence, and thoae who will always struggle. Just because it is something you crave and struggle with, it does not define you. It isnt about being a bad person or not, which I am glad to hear you say you haven't gotten to a point of thinking that. There are other things to be gleaned from life than the stereotypical ways in which we are presented "love"...

Broaden your scope on what love is and how it can be present in your life.

I agree with deezie, here.

You do have a lot going on in your 12th House--

ALSO

Merc conjunct Neptune is one of your tightest aspects (along with Moon sq Jupiter)-- it may be your

perception that is getting in your way.


To say nothing of that Pisces Moon. 🙂

You may want to read up on that, first.

Perception? ?.......can u be more specific?

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Neptune


Neptune rules the 12th House... you have a shit-ton of planets in the 12th


Neptune rules Pisces... you have a Pisces Moon


Your tightest aspect is Neptune conjunct Merc (communication, perception)...


Neptune is the planet of dreams, illusions, delusions, etc, though certainly not bad--

But like anything else, it has a shadow side or negative qualities.


With Neptune featuring so prominently in your chart, you may not be "unlucky" when it comes to love.

You may be doing something (or NOT doing something) that is keeping potential suitors away.

Or could be, they are right in front of your face, but you aren't "seeing" it.


Have a google on the things I listed in my first post.

Esp the Moon.

ive read everything i know now what i must do thank you all