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Apr 18, 2013Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Would you purposely make a girl that you like or love jealous? Would you intentionally act distant or silence or flirt with other female to gain some power in your part? If yes, what kind of responses were you expecting from it ? What will satisfy you? What have you done in love relationships that you think were manipulative. Examples please? and I read somewhere, you guys are vengeful.. ? also, do you communicate a lot in relationships?
A few of my friends have this placement. They like to flirt (look where mars is) but when they really like a girl, they won't make her jealous if they're serious about the possible relationship and if they think that she's being honest and not playing games. They don't like if you're trying to manipulate them or play mindgames, even though they themselves do that often cause they like to be in control. Yeah, they will be distant and careful if they don't trust you enough. It's ok for them to chitchat, but when some serious topics are on the table, they will analyse the person, see if she is trustworthy, and will not open up easily.
Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.
I'd say yes. Some maybe intentionally to make SO jealous/play games some maybe just because they like to flirt especially with someone desirable, even if they are already in a relationship.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Scorpio venus takes relationships seriously until we have a reason not to. We're either all in or all out.
Here's a little bit about scorpio in venus from alwaysastrology.com
Scorpio Venus is intense and deep. They have a strong willingness to commit to a relationship, and they will only accept all or nothing. They are totally dedicated and focused on you, and they come across as being fearless. They crave intimacy, and are capable of loving someone very deeply. Scorpio Venus possesses their partner, and makes the partner want to be possessed.
They have the ability to give their partner their complete attention. This can be flattering to some people, while totally unnerving to others. While they probably won't admit it, a Venus in Scorpio person has a need to control their partner and the relationship. Their obsession may take all the fun out of the relationship. They take everything to the extreme, which can be attractive, but it can be overwhelming. While a person with a Venus in Scorpio will want to know every detail about you, they won't be so forthcoming with information about themselves.
If Scorpio Venus is upset, watch out. They can either explode with anger, or make you wish you were dead by the look they give you. They will probably become jealous of anyone else you spend time with, no matter what the reason, though they won't admit it. They are not afraid to manipulate a situation, and they are talented at seeing through any cover to what is at the heart. They may tend to be bored in a regular day-to-day relationship, though they thrive on crisis.
They appreciate someone who is loyal and committed to them. Let them have some control in the relationship if they are deserving of it. Some can take advantage of their partners on a very deep and subtle level, though not all of them will. They like to maintain their own secrets. Their feelings may prevent them from seeing the point of view of others. Suspicion is a natural feeling for them when they are unsure.
Scorpio Venus is a colorful person because of their intensity. They are often attracted to the mysteries of the occult, and they are good at playing detective or doing research. They can successfully use their sex appeal to get what they want. It is not uncommon for a person with a Venus in Scorpio to be cautious when meeting new people. They may take the opportunity to observe someone they are interested in several times before meeting them.
As a friend, they are insightful and able to understand their friends as plain as day. They may appear to be off in their own little world, but with a single comment, they can let you know that they notice every detail and they most certainly can keep your secrets.
Scorpio Venus likes someone who isn't afraid of commitment, emotions or intensity. They like a bit of surrender in the relationship. Don't play games with them, because they find it difficult to forgive. As wonderful as the Venus in Scorpio person can be when they
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As wonderful as the Venus in Scorpio person can be when they love you, they can be equally bad when they have been hurt by you. Scorpio Venus likes changeÂ… even more; they thrive on the transformation that takes place during and after change. Whatever they put their passion into; it will mean everything to them.
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It's more me probing for questions from him. our relation is somewhat extremely xomplicated. but the most recent well 3 weeks ago I asked him if he slept with someone and he said wud I get upset if he says yes? I told him I wud but I will prefer honesty.. He says he did and didn't wanna hurt me n apparently it was like a one night thing n he didn't noe how it even happen (let's laugh ) lol so he said he's very very confused blanbla blanbla.. anyway, I gave into him as he wanted to c me the following day.. so we did.. Later later I asked him what we r to each other n he cudnt answer me that... it's been 2 weeks now so instead of me telling him how I truly feel and that I wanna b in a committed relationship with him..coz the baby is due in 5 weeks... instead I asked him bout his sex life... now he Wundt tell me.. He says, why do I wanna know really bad? in all honesty, I wanted to know so I can somehow stop loving this man .. as I promised myself we will b strictly just friends n no sex once our baby is born... he's curious as to why I want to know really really bad? Instead of me telling him the truth I am trying to play his game by saying it's intriguing as I am a bi sexual woman myself.. but I don't know how much of it he will believe... now.. I'm scared to tell him I wanna b with him n b exclusive n start a family with him coz I dun wanna seem pushy but at the same, me asking n talking bout other girls in a joking way might confuse the crap out of him... so yay I'm at a lost end...
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Making someone jealous on purpose is a game.
Waiting purposely to contact back is a game.
Hard to get is a game.
For example
Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...
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Can they read our mind without saying it? lol they r like psychic at times and maybe they are playing those games coz of insecurity and they don't trust your love for them?
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No serious or genuine person will make his lover jealous intentionally!
It's stupid.
Even if their lover plays games with them...no serious/genuine person will get down to playing games in return. Its very silly. I see this happening with friends and it's really foolish.
My ex was like this. I wasted years playing in to his manipulation and insecure ways at getting "power" over me. He always used other women to try to make me feel less. Now that I gave him the boot I don't deal with the crazy toxic mind or heart. He got a kick out of playing with my head and heart and it took so much away from having any type of good love in the relationship. He would have this "happy" charismatic mask that he puts on when hes baiting and oce he thinks he caught you the mask comes off and then he degrades you and spreads it around. Sad. I would never put myself in a position like that again.
He would try to starve me for love but show fake ass attempts at affection and love but then turn around and blame me for not loving him.....all the while playing the jealousy game. I had to step back and take a good and long look at him without my emotions and I was able to see him for what he really was. No love just games and war. When I took myself out of his manipulative hands I was able to see the things I fell in love with about him were either never there or long long gone. Only a shell was left with a monster hiding in it.
I see how evil he is and how easy it is for him to throw up that mask and roll on to the next victim just like nothing. Unless mature and secure Ill never date this type EVER again.