Posted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.
What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA
Posted by TheRedQueen
I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.
The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?
Posted by CharlieSlaughter
Hi!
You should post your natal charts.
I don't like the blame game. Sometimes when a relationship doesn't work It's because of the lack of compatible "energy".
*Most of people with Earth signs don't like Air ones, because they are too playful for them. They use to blame other people because they see themselves as the mature ones. It's ok, don't get mad at them, It's their nature.
*On the other hand, most of people ruled by Air signs don't like the earthy ones, because Earth signs have their "rules". They can't live without them.
Some people with Air signs can't even understand how a person "MUST" follow this kind of life: job=>marriage=>children=>retiring=>death
Edit: Since you are 32, the next info may not be necessary. But with Gemini you NEVER KNOW!
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That's why It's so important to know yourself, wisely. It will be easier to know where you belong, and what kind of partner is meant for you.
So, your birth chart is really important. Get one, then you will know if it's worthy to keep that Virgo dude.
Some Gemini girls need a dynamic partner. Less feelings and more idealism, less earth and more movement. Could be your case.
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Ok lady. I really doubt that you don't know where you belong, but... come on! a Virgo?? Really?? uhmmm could be a very special case.
Good Luck, and never blame yourself.
Posted by LetltBPosted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.
What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA
Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by TheRedQueen
I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.
The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?
yall 2 old for this. How long was the relationship?click to expand
Posted by TheRedQueenPosted by LetltBPosted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.
What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA
Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?
a week after our vacation trip I got problem with health. At this time, he does not reply to my messages so I was sending him asking if he is okay or if something is wrong. I stopped contacting him for 1 week as he became silent (did send any messages) just to give him space but then a week after he break up with me.
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Posted by LetltBPosted by TheRedQueenPosted by LetltBPosted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.
What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA
Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?
a week after our vacation trip I got problem with health. At this time, he does not reply to my messages so I was sending him asking if he is okay or if something is wrong. I stopped contacting him for 1 week as he became silent (did send any messages) just to give him space but then a week after he break up with me.
So you weren't gettting the attention you thought he should give you, got spiteful deleted him from Facebook and stopped contact after not receiving a response from him. OK...you made the first direct move of cutting him off. He obliged. Maybe something more urgent was needed on his end that he had to take care of and instead of being spiteful you should have given him the chance to see what it was. Don't you think?click to expand
Posted by TheRedQueen
I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.
The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?