Water Signs... Your mutual Flaw..
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by GemCurioThe1 on Saturday, November 14, 2020 and has 8 replies.
What’s up Water Signs… As a people watcher I observed a common flaw amongst you as a collective. My goal is to share information to help us all grow as a world community so that our knowledge can be beneficial to others. So, if this resonates with you, I’d greatly appreciate a shout out and honest comments below when this applied in your life. Thanks in advance…
Water Signs, those who are lucky enough to get to know you are so happy with life. You all keep your love ones close and protect them with all your strength. Yet, you all allow things that upset you to bubble underneath the surface for too long. Then with the fury of a monsoon, you all begin to destroy and demean everything about relationships and people who genuinely care about, and we people are not even sure why because the incident had long passed.
If we are part of your life, know that we care to be there. You need to say what’s on your mind as early as possible. No one can stand whenever you’re angry at us, and we can’t figure out how to fix what’s bothering you because you Water Signs have allowed it to be deeply engrained inside of you by not speaking up. Those of us in your lives NEED to know what you think and how you feel. Know that’s it’s more important to us than it is to you because we genuinely adore you. The emotions and vexations you keep inside, however are a puzzle that not even the most intelligent of us can figure out. So, please stop leaving those who love you out to dry…
Comments are welcome below…
Water Signs, those who are lucky enough to get to know you are so happy with life. You all keep your love ones close and protect them with all your strength. Yet, you all allow things that upset you to bubble underneath the surface for too long. Then with the fury of a monsoon, you all begin to destroy and demean everything about relationships and people who genuinely care about, and we people are not even sure why because the incident had long passed.
If we are part of your life, know that we care to be there. You need to say what’s on your mind as early as possible. No one can stand whenever you’re angry at us, and we can’t figure out how to fix what’s bothering you because you Water Signs have allowed it to be deeply engrained inside of you by not speaking up. Those of us in your lives NEED to know what you think and how you feel. Know that’s it’s more important to us than it is to you because we genuinely adore you. The emotions and vexations you keep inside, however are a puzzle that not even the most intelligent of us can figure out. So, please stop leaving those who love you out to dry…
Comments are welcome below…
No...I'm very out with my emotions and don't destroy relationships..
Trying to bottle anything up is pretty impossible as an Aries moon 🤷♀️
Posted by GemCurioThe1
What’s up Water Signs… As a people watcher I observed a common flaw amongst you as a collective. My goal is to share information to help us all grow as a world community so that our knowledge can be beneficial to others...
Let's be straight, you're not sharing "knowledge", merely your opinion based on observations that are biased as all observations are.
Posted by GemCurioThe1
Water Signs, those who are lucky enough to get to know you are so happy with life. You all keep your love ones close and protect them with all your strength. Yet, you all allow things that upset you to bubble underneath the surface for too long. Then with the fury of a monsoon, you all begin to destroy and demean everything about relationships and people who genuinely care about, and we people are not even sure why because the incident had long passed.click to expand
This is a poor generalization that lacks context. Depending on the specs, level of maturity and experience said water signs have shown to react quite the opposite from what you've just described.
Posted by GemCurioThe1
...Those of us in your lives NEED to know what you think and how you feel. Know that’s it’s more important to us than it is to you because we genuinely adore you. The emotions and vexations you keep inside, however are a puzzle that not even the most intelligent of us can figure out. So, please stop leaving those who love you out to dry…
Hmph. So if I understanding this correctly based on what you've written above, this isn't about "helping us grow as a community", as much as this is about everyone else that water signs supposedly leave "out to dry". Okay.
With that out of the way, I can't relate to much of what you've written except for the part about keeping my feelings to myself, namely anger. I do this because words spoken can not be unheard; they have the ability to destroy or heal, so I choose my words being mindful of this. I need time to determine if my anger is reasonable or riddled with baggage--that has absolutely nothing to do with the other person if it's the latter. That is for me to determine, not you. Personally, I don't think it's a sign of good health (self or relationship) to react to every emotion that someone else triggers in you for the sake of "being open" or "closeness" or whatever we want to call it. I also know myself quite well, been stuck with myself for a number of years. I learned at quite a young age that my anger does a lot of damage when unchecked and that wasn't because I sat on it and let it "bubble underneath the surface for too long". Actually, it was quite the opposite.
If we have an issue and I speak on it, trust it is to address it in an effort to move forward, not to "destroy" or "demean everything about relationships and people that care about me". If I don't speak on it, that is because it's an issue for me to work on and grow from. That, or I'm past giving a f*ck because the situation and/or you aren't that important.
On the rare occasion that I do say something that "destroys" you or the relationship, know good and well it's because I have absolutely no intention to fix or resolve anything with that person past that point. So let that mothaf*ckin' bridge burn.
I'm curious to know what inspired this PSA on how the elements should live their lives...
Posted by dillweedOohhhPosted by PhoenixRising
I'm curious to know what inspired this PSA on how the elements should live their lives...
he’s a virgo.click to expand
So he's never in the wrong then 😀
Posted by dillweedPosted by PhoenixRising
I'm curious to know what inspired this PSA on how the elements should live their lives...
he’s a virgo.click to expand
Hmph. I picked up the OP may be an Earth sign given the Earth sign thread used the words "we" and "us", but I wasn't sure which one.
I noticed all of the other three elements were written from a very "this is what is wrong with y'all" while the Earth thread was very "this is why we shouldn't waste our time on others". Make Earth Great Again!
Related Topics
Anyone here who desexualize themselves because of sexual abuse in the past? did you get over it?,if you did get over it what steps did you do?
@Aquarius3189
Joined: Sep 26, 2016 · Topics: 54 · Posts: 1266
My husband and I are having a debate
His sister told me before she married her husband she found pictures of her cousin and best friend saved on his laptop and when she asked him why he had them saved he admitted he used them to jerk off to.
Why he wou
@brianafay
Joined: Oct 11, 2006 · Topics: 372 · Posts: 30581
@aquarius_man_ and @Jumpin_Jupiter are the same user.
Change my mind.
@_Dazed
Joined: Feb 18, 2019 · Topics: 250 · Posts: 12626
hhahahahaha let me start with well it felt that way at that time now I feel much better .
Am a gemini woman and he ofc Aqua , we met , he had a gf , I knew he did .
We started as friends , good friends , I remember telling him and like pushing him away wh
@Le
Joined: Aug 13, 2018 · Topics: 3 · Posts: 0
I don't like how Leo suns live life in order to showcase it to the world. So annoying. I have some Leo in my chart and let me tell ya there's only room for one of us in the spotlight and it me. I also bet you Leo males have been busy having orgies in fron
@SassyKiwi
Joined: Nov 05, 2015 · Topics: 124 · Posts: 6965
Not many of them ever around on dxp. They're pretty hard to pin down huh. Always off catching interest on something new so easily. They got that real zest for life. How do you all feel about the Sag men that have been/are in your life?
@SassyKiwi
Joined: Nov 05, 2015 · Topics: 124 · Posts: 6965
Hey people, new here, any insight about this compatibility?
Full chart down bellow, appreciate the input from all of you people.
Stay safe.
Her chart: https://ibb.co/LCQ2sXp
Hi's chart: https://ibb.co/Xzy8tkP
Both sinastry chart: https://ibb.co/brx7Xd7
@LithiK
Joined: Nov 13, 2020 · Topics: 1 · Posts: 174
Hello! I (24 yo) could use another person's perspective... I'm having a hard time seeing clearly when it comes to this Gemini guy (25 yo).
We were FWB (more like f buddies) for 6 months. I was a bit hesitant to agree to at first but he was charming. He
@laurellove
Joined: Oct 26, 2020 · Topics: 1 · Posts: 5
What’s the best meal of the day and why?!
Breakfast 🍳
Lunch 🍱
Dinner 🍽
Midnight 🕛 snack 🍆 👅
@Romzz
Joined: Oct 11, 2020 · Topics: 9 · Posts: 297
And we developed the technology to travel out of our Solar system.... how would that effect vampires? Would another sun have the same effect on them as our sun does? Would they be able to feed on alien species? Would they still be immortal?
@SeaLion
Joined: Aug 14, 2018 · Topics: 87 · Posts: 2602