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This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by virgoOPPP on Monday, October 16, 2023 and has 21 replies.
dislike most about your sun sign?


my virgo cousin and virgo aunt acting distant lately.


virgo cousin (just got married to an aries and fell off the face of the earth then suddenly popped back up after my post about being pregnant and now continuously views my stories but is very short with me in convos and takes forever to reply).


virgo aunt (divorced my aries uncle, her mother recently passed and now she pretends to be busy over a lawsuit with her restaurant business but still views my stories).


and what else do we share? we've all tried our hardest to get pregnant. but they're both so far away like even in my own wedding, they're both perfectly polite, responds appropriately to chats but it's like they not really all there. my gut tells me that there must be some personal issue but this weird distance (considering they both got a lot of fire in their chart) just hurts.


i suspect a libra moon family member must've poisoned my well coz i've severed ties with her. my aries sister in law told me that this libra moon conned my pisces uncle. tho uncle and i haven't talked much over the years, he was one of my dad's best friends. and after this incident, uncle's now fully on my side. at least one other person in my family knows the truth.


it's just sad that my fellow virgos just believe everything on a say so. buncha emos.
and what frustrates me the most is that i can identify with all these traits! god it's so hard to connect with someone who doesn't want to nor tries to initiate. maybe it's the first houser in me or coz my sun is in the 12th or my 8th house moon but open this damned door!


and when i look back, the only people that glued us together outside of blood were our mutual connections with tyrannical cardinals. it's like none of us would reach out if we weren't 'encouraged.' it's so annoying like someone needs to initiate here. and i'm not greeting anyone first 🗿🗿
Posted by cersei
It’s funny because I have a similar problem with my Pisces cousin. I’ve never been close to her even though we are both Pisces. She never tries to talk to me and I’m not one to initiate conversation much myself so maybe in that way we are too alike.
But she was close to my sister and mom. She had a falling out with my family. Long story short she has princess syndrome. She at the time had two kids but expects everyone to watch them for her. She lets them run a mess in ppls house and then gets mad when you ask her to clean up after herself.
She wants everyone to serve her and if they don’t she acts childish.
She got mad at my grandma when she slept over one day because my grandma wouldn’t let her son watch tv instead. So after that she never contacted us again.
But she still views my stories. Even though I have nothing to do with the incident, (I mean I talked more to my neighborhood markers cashier more than I did to her lol) she never messages me. I mean it seems like she wants to contact us again but she seems a bit too prideful in that way
Then don’t get me started with my childhood Pisces friend. She acted too fake and I should have went with my initial instinct that she didn’t like me even though she acted like she did. She’s super smiley and bubbly to my face but talks crap behind your back.
I’m actually not too fond of fellow Pisces suns. A lot of them don’t seem genuine to me. I’d rather ppl be obvious that they don’t like me, then to make me believe they do then you find out they didn’t. I don’t like those fake type of ppl
at least pisces are so much more open to connect from what I've seen than most virgos who just wants to emo in the corner 🗿🗿


how is my uncle who just recently popped back up so much more present in my life than these virgos i've known for years? they only ever show up in emergencies. there are fair-weather friends and then there are these people. just realized fire department friends aren't my thing. show up for the good times too! like i get it but they're way too similar to me and i hate it so much.


the whole princess syndrome surprises me with pisces. when we moved to his parents' place (which i was reluctant to do coz why can't we raise our own children by ourselves?) but eventually agreed to coz can't take the sleep-deprivation anymore, was surprised how much he acted like a prince at home. he literally orders his siblings around and even his own parents. he's never showed any bratty traits towards me before. but he is the second eldest and second son. the sag eldest brother ghosted on the family after marriage so he now acts like he's firstborn. but thankfully, his siblings love our little leo and showers him with gifts.
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
I’m only in contact with my one sag cousin and today she wanted me to go to the school with her to kidnap her 6 year old the dad enrolled in that school 😅
I’d normally tag along but I oddly have stuff to do today. I figured out I can be selective with what I reply to though. 🤣 like hey ands you free to do some crimes? … hey ands do you want some pizza? Oh hey hi there 😅
they're no longer together or she disapproved of the school?


sag casually committing crimes 😆😆
Nothing. Leo Suns love everything about being a Leo. We are literally represented by the actual sun ffs. Everything else truly revolves around us in one way or another. Why would we have anything negative to say?
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
Pisces moon reminds me of the myth of Cassandra-- to tell the truth but not be believed. It seems like they attract slander and exaggeration. my draconic sun and moon are Virgo/Pisces lol not that it matters but I experience this. if you did nothing wrong to someone and he or she treats you unfairly it reflects poorly on him or her fr
I read recently that Gretchen Wieners embodies Gemini energy, and it resonates so much lmao. I have no Gemini friends irl. I know of some seemingly mature and reasonable ones but they're unfriendly, and the worst local Gems I know can't spell, shamelessly shoop their selfies, and just freakin act like bleach blonde CNA birds fighting over men wearing too-small clothing popping their rectangular bodies all about. or some who don't quickly hit the wall bodywise get botched. acting like a caricature of an IG model with the personality of a Karen. no sense of humor.
I wonder if we should all just become rappers since that talent is so characteristically Geminian. I'd only ever read bad press about Azealia Banks but recently gave her music a shot and was floored by 212. like if we have to be shit might as well record fire rap if it comes so naturally

a gem family member always acting so mysterious like she's on the run from loan sharks or something but then she can't help herself and posts her lavish life style on instagram. she just changes her name on social media once in a while.


but to be fair, she's basically a combo of gemini and leo which can only really enhance her gemini traits. all signs can be great when tempered by other sign energies, makes them more complex instead of just overtly what their sun is.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
Pisces moon reminds me of the myth of Cassandra-- to tell the truth but not be believed. It seems like they attract slander and exaggeration. my draconic sun and moon are Virgo/Pisces lol not that it matters but I experience this. if you did nothing wrong to someone and he or she treats you unfairly it reflects poorly on him or her fr
I read recently that Gretchen Wieners embodies Gemini energy, and it resonates so much lmao. I have no Gemini friends irl. I know of some seemingly mature and reasonable ones but they're unfriendly, and the worst local Gems I know can't spell, shamelessly shoop their selfies, and just freakin act like bleach blonde CNA birds fighting over men wearing too-small clothing popping their rectangular bodies all about. or some who don't quickly hit the wall bodywise get botched. acting like a caricature of an IG model with the personality of a Karen. no sense of humor.
I wonder if we should all just become rappers since that talent is so characteristically Geminian. I'd only ever read bad press about Azealia Banks but recently gave her music a shot and was floored by 212. like if we have to be shit might as well record fire rap if it comes so naturally

also 'rectangular bodies' 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Intenzzzze 😂

Daaaaaark 😈

Suspicious

Paranoid

Secretive




There’s plenty i like about the sign but that’s for another thread 😊
The need for harmony.


Sometimes I want to be in full f*ck you mode and act standoffish.
Not many takers 😂🤣
double minded... figuring ever single outcome and letting the outcome play itself out instead of playing my hand first.
The ego of an Aqua sun who is not self-aware is obtrusively high that they can’t acknowledge when they are wrong. Thanks to astrology, I’ve worked on mine. It’s damn hard lowering that God complex ego and much of it is to our detriment.
Posted by aquarius09
The ego of an Aqua sun who is not self-aware is obtrusively high that they can’t acknowledge when they are wrong. Thanks to astrology, I’ve worked on mine. It’s damn hard lowering that God complex ego and much of it is to our detriment.
i still don't understand the whole god complex thing with aqua at least in my personal life. they do tend to think most people are stupid so maybe that's the complex? which is actually fair and pretty common knowledge 😆😆


dealing with other warm then suddenly distant/standoffish virgos really made me take a hard look at myself like am i coming off cold, unstable or transactional? sometimes i can't help it tho but maybe it's also why i'm attracted to more sociable people.
I’ll explain the God complex as I do unfortunately do suffer from it. I don’t necessarily think people are innately stupid. I do however strongly believe that people’s actions are motivated by their idealistic tendencies, wilful ignorance because it’s blissful to be ignorant, lack of vigilance or proactivity in acquiring background information before making decision which leads them to act foolishly/be stupid. There is no excuse for that.
Rose-colored glasses & a bit too optimistic 🤪🤪


But seriously it lightens up all that Cap of mine!! 🙃
Posted by aquarius09
I’ll explain the God complex as I do unfortunately do suffer from it. I don’t necessarily think people are innately stupid. I do however strongly believe that people’s actions are motivated by their idealistic tendencies, wilful ignorance because it’s blissful to be ignorant, lack of vigilance or proactivity in acquiring background information before making decision which leads them to act foolishly/be stupid. There is no excuse for that.
Lol two of my brothers & one brother in law 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ the worst is the two aquas being married.
Posted by aquarius09
The ego of an Aqua sun who is not self-aware is obtrusively high that they can’t acknowledge when they are wrong. Thanks to astrology, I’ve worked on mine. It’s damn hard lowering that God complex ego and much of it is to our detriment.
I’ve known a few Aqua men who have a God complex ….. I was with one 🥴

It’s the two words I’d associate with Aqua

You’re very self aware 😊
The one trait I can most definitely tell you I hate about my own sign is talkative. Can't geminis shut the fuck up sometimes?
Posted by Soul
Nothing. Leo Suns love everything about being a Leo. We are literally represented by the actual sun ffs. Everything else truly revolves around us in one way or another. Why would we have anything negative to say?
Makes me think about my leo best friend. He thinks astrology is BS and even gets pissed every time he hears the word...but he's darn proud to be a leo. He even has a leo mug.Big Grin
Most of the time, I like to be a 'work first, play later' person, but sometimes it's just waaay to much and waaay too boring. I mean: ffs, live a little!
That it’s in detriment. Low self esteem is awful. I’m libra by the way

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