Whats the hardest part about a relationship breaking up and letting go, for you?
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by TaurusVenusGirl on Wednesday, July 12, 2017 and has 24 replies.
And what is you Sun/Moon/Asc/Venus and Mars sign?
Just letting go of having the person in my life
I never found it easy to let go of anything, so i have begun to realize that part of myself needed working on. When i noticed a pattern with letting go of all the men i had in my life, i began to see there was something in me that needed healing.
Like you, i have those fixed difficult to let go placements
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Asc Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus
Is there any hope for me in rships....lol.......single for 4 years and still learning
I never found it easy to let go of anything, so i have begun to realize that part of myself needed working on. When i noticed a pattern with letting go of all the men i had in my life, i began to see there was something in me that needed healing.
Like you, i have those fixed difficult to let go placements
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Asc Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus
Is there any hope for me in rships....lol.......single for 4 years and still learning
Letting go.... it's just a Tauruses natural thing to not do lol... but when we do.... even if we are hurting inside you will never know. We are stubborn and strong.
Taurus sun
Taurus moon
Scorpio mars
Aries Venus
Taurus sun
Taurus moon
Scorpio mars
Aries Venus
I worry for the person. Not that I'll make their life better by being in it ..but I just always hope they'll be ok in every respect.
Scorpio/Taurus/Gemini/Sag/Cancer
Scorpio/Taurus/Gemini/Sag/Cancer
It takes a mountain to bring down the walls of vulnerability.
Then I am dancing like a naive child, free from restraints, trusting you, loving you, giving you my heart, and never expecting much in return.
Then the sword cuts through the heart, and I am no longer in the childlike moment with you.
Now I am forced to grow up.
With a collage of emotions....and not just one fixed emotion.
Then it's rationalized.
...and the other person?
They just become a distant memory.
...And the grass begins looking greener on the other side.
Taurus Sun
Aries Venus
Gemini Moon
Then I am dancing like a naive child, free from restraints, trusting you, loving you, giving you my heart, and never expecting much in return.
Then the sword cuts through the heart, and I am no longer in the childlike moment with you.
Now I am forced to grow up.
With a collage of emotions....and not just one fixed emotion.
Then it's rationalized.
...and the other person?
They just become a distant memory.
...And the grass begins looking greener on the other side.
Taurus Sun
Aries Venus
Gemini Moon
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Posted by TaurusVenusGirlThe guilt for how easy it is.
And what is you Sun/Moon/Asc/Venus and Mars sign?
The guilt of feeling relief.
The guilt of not being like everybody else.
Sun Aries
Moon Gemini
Asc. Capricorn
Venus Aquarius
Mars Gemini
Breaking up: first few weeks
Letting go: not hard at all
Aqua/Aqua/Aqua/Pisces/Pisces
Letting go: not hard at all
Aqua/Aqua/Aqua/Pisces/Pisces
I don't let go.
Gem/Leo/gem/ari
Gem/Leo/gem/ari
I think for me it's the finality of it. Whether I break up or someone else does it - it's just the feeling of something dying, the feeling of loss. The feeling of helplessness.
Rising: Scorpio
Sun: Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Gemini
Mars: Leo
Rising: Scorpio
Sun: Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Gemini
Mars: Leo
Posted by MyStarsShinedo you mean going from having someone in your life to not having someone and being alone ? or is it something else - and why do you let go - because they are not right for you ?
Just letting go of having the person in my life
I never found it easy to let go of anything, so i have begun to realize that part of myself needed working on. When i noticed a pattern with letting go of all the men i had in my life, i began to see there was something in me that needed healing.
Like you, i have those fixed difficult to let go placements
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Asc Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus
Is there any hope for me in rships....lol.......single for 4 years and still learning
Posted by m200991lol reminds me of my ex-Libra - he says the same thing and said he said that to his ex-wife - "and take your smell with you" lol
I don't find the actual act of breaking up and/or letting go to be all that difficult. Probably because things (typically) are done civilly, after having been discussed, and mutually decided upon. I'm super big on open, honest, clear communication, so the way I approach splitting up with someone isn't really an exception... and I wouldn't even be in a relationship with someone unwilling to communicate in a like way. It just makes the entire experience easy, lol.
On a sappy note though... I do have to throw away their pillows if they don't take them. I can do the whole be in bed alone thing post break-up, but there's something about the lingering smell on the pillow that presents itself as a challenge. /shrug
Pisces/Cancer/Sagittarius/Aries/Pisces
Posted by TaurusBull1977wow I love the way you express
It takes a mountain to bring down the walls of vulnerability.
Then I am dancing like a naive child, free from restraints, trusting you, loving you, giving you my heart, and never expecting much in return.
Then the sword cuts through the heart, and I am no longer in the childlike moment with you.
Now I am forced to grow up.
With a collage of emotions....and not just one fixed emotion.
Then it's rationalized.
...and the other person?
They just become a distant memory.
...And the grass begins looking greener on the other side.
Taurus Sun
Aries Venus
Gemini Moon
My chart is loaded with issues about letting go its really hard, it breaks my heart and it aches a bit more because i cant show it?
I'm usually the one ending the relationship so for me it's easy. I move on fairly quickly. Its the whole finding someone new for companionship, that's hard.
I keep it moving and can be pretty heartless when I'm done with you. I care so much when I'm with you and then it just switches off and I don't when I'm done.
I'm picky and could care less if you like me. I have to like you. I love instant chemistry and I find that I am drawn to intense people like myself. Then the chase begins.
Sag sun
Scorp venus
Libra rising
Cancer moon
Leo mars
I keep it moving and can be pretty heartless when I'm done with you. I care so much when I'm with you and then it just switches off and I don't when I'm done.
I'm picky and could care less if you like me. I have to like you. I love instant chemistry and I find that I am drawn to intense people like myself. Then the chase begins.
Sag sun
Scorp venus
Libra rising
Cancer moon
Leo mars
Posted by saggurl88"I move on fairly quickly. Its the whole finding someone new for companionship, that's hard.
I'm usually the one ending the relationship so for me it's easy. I move on fairly quickly. Its the whole finding someone new for companionship, that's hard.
I keep it moving and can be pretty heartless when I'm done with you. I care so much when I'm with you and then it just switches off and I don't when I'm done.
I'm picky and could care less if you like me. I have to like you. I love instant chemistry and I find that I am drawn to intense people like myself. Then the chase begins.
Sag sun
Scorp venus
Libra rising
Cancer moon
Leo mars
I keep it moving and can be pretty heartless when I'm done with you. I care so much when I'm with you and then it just switches off and I don't when I'm done."
me too unless I have gotten too many feels and 'm the one being left behind - because I wanted more and he left because he wasn't ready for more - daym ... man - it was easier getting a divorce lol
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Right before breaking up ... having to come to reality and do it . Once you break up and after it's not so bad.. the decision was made
But before you get to that .. when everything is falling apart , when you're unsure
It's the worst
Sun Virgo
Acs scorp
Moon aqua
Mars cancer
Merc libra
Venus scorp
But before you get to that .. when everything is falling apart , when you're unsure
It's the worst
Sun Virgo
Acs scorp
Moon aqua
Mars cancer
Merc libra
Venus scorp
Posted by tctaI don't mind being alone at all but i do mind being with the wrong person but it took me a long time in the past to move on....Posted by MyStarsShinedo you mean going from having someone in your life to not having someone and being alone ? or is it something else - and why do you let go - because they are not right for you ?
Just letting go of having the person in my life
I never found it easy to let go of anything, so i have begun to realize that part of myself needed working on. When i noticed a pattern with letting go of all the men i had in my life, i began to see there was something in me that needed healing.
Like you, i have those fixed difficult to let go placements
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Asc Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus
Is there any hope for me in rships....lol.......single for 4 years and still learningclick to expand
New woman now
Why is it hard?
Knowing what we shared maybe shared with someone else
I wasn't good enough to be kept
Someone else will get to see their good and bad
The comfort of knowing the person is there after a long tiresome day
Having someone to share my deepest thoughts with
The person that knows the side of me everyone doesn't get to see is no longer around
The person that seen me at my most vulnerable is no longer around to protect me
Even after being hurt I give too many chances but in the end, I have to choose me or the hurt will destroy me from the inside out
Sag sun
Sag moon
Gem rising
Virgo mars
Cap Venus
Knowing what we shared maybe shared with someone else
I wasn't good enough to be kept
Someone else will get to see their good and bad
The comfort of knowing the person is there after a long tiresome day
Having someone to share my deepest thoughts with
The person that knows the side of me everyone doesn't get to see is no longer around
The person that seen me at my most vulnerable is no longer around to protect me
Even after being hurt I give too many chances but in the end, I have to choose me or the hurt will destroy me from the inside out
Sag sun
Sag moon
Gem rising
Virgo mars
Cap Venus
Posted by MyStarsShineI know what you mean - same herePosted by tctaI don't mind being alone at all but i do mind being with the wrong person but it took me a long time in the past to move on....Posted by MyStarsShinedo you mean going from having someone in your life to not having someone and being alone ? or is it something else - and why do you let go - because they are not right for you ?
Just letting go of having the person in my life
I never found it easy to let go of anything, so i have begun to realize that part of myself needed working on. When i noticed a pattern with letting go of all the men i had in my life, i began to see there was something in me that needed healing.
Like you, i have those fixed difficult to let go placements
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Asc Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus
Is there any hope for me in rships....lol.......single for 4 years and still learning
New woman nowclick to expand
Posted by RindarooI am surprised you feel this way with an Aqua moon. As they are known to so easily emotionally detach. What in your signs do you think you have trouble letting go?
I have trouble letting go. I always stay too long, and give fifty million chances. Until I am getting hurt and realize I need to choose myself since I've been FAR too understanding.
Sag Sun
Aqua moon
Cap Mercury
Cap Venus
Cap Mars
Yep! All that Taurus as Scorpio will do that to you!
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just letting go of having the person in my life
I never found it easy to let go of anything, so i have begun to realize that part of myself needed working on. When i noticed a pattern with letting go of all the men i had in my life, i began to see there was something in me that needed healing.
Like you, i have those fixed difficult to let go placements
Sun Scorpio
Moon Taurus
Asc Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Taurus
Is there any hope for me in rships....lol.......single for 4 years and still learning
Posted by AerialViewSO not surprised with all that Aqua!!
Breaking up: first few weeks
Letting go: not hard at all
Aqua/Aqua/Aqua/Pisces/Pisces
Posted by GemitatiEven when the relationship ends?
I don't let go.
Gem/Leo/gem/ari
What do you do? Hold onto a fantasy that will never come true?
Find it much harder to let go than breaking up. Letting go of the person, the memories, the comfort, the life built with them and the daily communication.
Takes me a long time to fully let go and I mean a long time. I always have a small window of hope (unless I was completely done and ended it myself). I think for me the hardest part is knowing that I can't just call them up and be like let's hang. I also miss the affection a lot and the not having someone there to share everything with.
Gemini, Libra, Libra, Cancer, Cancer
Takes me a long time to fully let go and I mean a long time. I always have a small window of hope (unless I was completely done and ended it myself). I think for me the hardest part is knowing that I can't just call them up and be like let's hang. I also miss the affection a lot and the not having someone there to share everything with.
Gemini, Libra, Libra, Cancer, Cancer
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