Whos Lying? HELP
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by FeelnStupid on Monday, January 12, 2009 and has 5 replies.
Ive been dating a Libra man for 2 years Its been very serious from the start.. Im a Taurus.There is no doubt about How much Love there is beteween us.We do EVERYTHING together.He's special to me. But I think ive been walking around with the wool over my eyes.We seperated in Nov we Had hit some " rough patches" We still talked on the phone here and there but made up on new years. NOw its only been 11 DAYS in this year, a young woman called me and told me she was seeing him off and on for the past 18 months she has no idea he had a woman and shes 8 weeks pregnant with my librans baby,she then told me it was an acident she was a late night thing for him. She told me he came to one appt and he was NOT happy didnt want the baby but woud be wlling to man up (would be his first) Me and him have been trying for kids for a year and im just heartbroken. HE is denying her Up and down LIke you wouldnt believe. There is no proof and shes gettng an abortion because she has a Husband also! I dont know what to do AND WHAT TO BELIEVE Fellas: WOuld you tell the truth if you could get away with it? He Gets explosivly angry when I bring it up.HE Is trying everything he can to make us work.I asked the girl how she didnt know about me but yet randomly picked my number out of his phone? Shes very stand offish and inconsistant stories i dont call her and he doesnt let me avoid him. Im wondering if maybe should just stay apart or continue to work hard to piece this back together because we both have been doing alot to try and move on. im so confused!Please sound advice only. im hurting.
I don't think people, mainly women, even care if a person is right for them ... they care about getting what they want, even if this want has no value.
I truly believe that women have an "image" of love in their hearts-eye, an image that has been forming with every life-experience and ever changing ..... so, when they attempt to have a relationship, they are trying to fit this man into the image of what she wants him to be.
I truly believe that women have an "image" of love in their hearts-eye, an image that has been forming with every life-experience and ever changing ..... so, when they attempt to have a relationship, they are trying to fit this man into the image of what she wants him to be.
An example of what I'm suggesting .....
"There is no doubt about How much Love there is beteween us.We do EVERYTHING together.He's special to me. But I think ive been walking around with the wool over my eyes.We seperated in Nov we Had hit some " rough patches"
A woman would believe in her hearts-eye that there is no doubt about how much love there is between them, and they do EVERYTHING together ... and yet, this post is full of doubt, and he obviously doesn't do everything with her.
In her hearts-eye, though, this "image" is there, and so it wants to make this man the one of this image of what love is suppose to mean to this lady ... she fools herself into believing that he owns up to this image .. and this has caused her to say ... there is no doubt about how much love exists between us .... eventhough this situation she is faced with screams deception on his part.
If a person is innocent, then there is nothing to fear ... if he were innocent in this, then he'd step up to the plate and reassure his woman of this love that is shared.
She cannot see this. She just wants to know who is lying .. but, there's nothing in here to suggest that she would find pride and leave him ... only a desire to know the truth.
the truth?
FeelnStupid, the truth is .... your hearts-eye wants to pull the wool over you, to make you oblivious to the fact that this man, or any other man isn't everything, if he isn't.
"There is no doubt about How much Love there is beteween us.We do EVERYTHING together.He's special to me. But I think ive been walking around with the wool over my eyes.We seperated in Nov we Had hit some " rough patches"
A woman would believe in her hearts-eye that there is no doubt about how much love there is between them, and they do EVERYTHING together ... and yet, this post is full of doubt, and he obviously doesn't do everything with her.
In her hearts-eye, though, this "image" is there, and so it wants to make this man the one of this image of what love is suppose to mean to this lady ... she fools herself into believing that he owns up to this image .. and this has caused her to say ... there is no doubt about how much love exists between us .... eventhough this situation she is faced with screams deception on his part.
If a person is innocent, then there is nothing to fear ... if he were innocent in this, then he'd step up to the plate and reassure his woman of this love that is shared.
She cannot see this. She just wants to know who is lying .. but, there's nothing in here to suggest that she would find pride and leave him ... only a desire to know the truth.
the truth?
FeelnStupid, the truth is .... your hearts-eye wants to pull the wool over you, to make you oblivious to the fact that this man, or any other man isn't everything, if he isn't.
the math doesn't add up. lets see if i'm reading this right. you two have been together for the past two years and were basically INSEPARABLE. you break up in nov. get back together on new years. THEN a woman calls you to say she is pregnant with his kid and has been seeing him for the past 18 mons. on and off. the past year and a half they have been dating behind your back. so, that would mean that they hooked up roughly about 6 mons. after you two started dating.
how is that possible if you two were inseparable?
how is that possible if you two were inseparable?
I don't think people, mainly women, even care if a person is right for them ... they care about getting what they want, even if this want has no value.
I totally agree with this - and then even weirder when they say the guy's abusive, or a jerk, etc... I mean it like an attempt to lead an already mad schizo pretend horse to the stream expecting it to drink willingly or turn into a shiny unicorn
I've even seen some of this on the astro site where the woman is more in love with the sun sign or summat and trying to understand every little detail about the sun to make it work with a dick... it's just wonderful
I totally agree with this - and then even weirder when they say the guy's abusive, or a jerk, etc... I mean it like an attempt to lead an already mad schizo pretend horse to the stream expecting it to drink willingly or turn into a shiny unicorn
I've even seen some of this on the astro site where the woman is more in love with the sun sign or summat and trying to understand every little detail about the sun to make it work with a dick... it's just wonderful
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