Why did he disappear and make no contact? :(

Posted by P-Angel
I've told you several times = the truth
you just blow me off, and once tried to block me .... because you are so absorbed in your ignorance that you cannot handle the truth.

And just as I predicted .. here you are still fucked up over shit

so be it .... suffer as you obviously wish to do, since you won't listen

Posted by P-Angel
GO AWAY
from candy10 sent on 5/22/2013 at 3:41:44 PM
WHAT IS IT WITH YOU STALKING ALL MY THREADS AND WRITING A PILE OF CRAP EVRY SINGLE TIME???
ARE YOU ON YOUR MENOPAUSE ?
EITHER THAT OR YOU'RE A MISERABLE OLD COW WITH NO LIFE, IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MANY YEARS GAP I LEAVE BETWEEN COMING ON TO HERE..THERE YOU'LL STILL BE WITH YOUR NEGATIVE STUPID OPINIONS
TRUTH IS YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THIS GUY OR ME AND YOU'VE JUST MADE SOME RETARDED ASSUMPTIONS
KNOW THE WHOLE STORY BEFORE YOU JUMP IN..
YOU JUST LOVE TO IMPOSE YOUR MISERY ON TO EVERYONE ELSE
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since you don't have the balls to address me in public, I'll drop this off here

Posted by candy10
This is about a good friend of mine..who i've known about five years (read the past threads). We get on well, he's maintained contact with me for all this time and through plenty of ups and downs and a couple of breaks and arguments in between but regardless we always manage to get back on track. He likes me.and has made this clear for some time now but this to me isn't the point really as first and foremost we are friends.
I mean the last I spoke to him he was speaking about relationships and marriage, and I think it was all directed at me, so his disappearance now has not made any sense to me.

About two and a half months ago now which was the last we spoke we were on good terms and everything was fine..so he has no reason i would think to be annoyed at me or something..Although at the time i was sort of busy and he did call me a fair few times in the week but i didn't manage to get back to him till a lot later and even then the last conversation it was only for five minutes, so to him i may have appeared to have no time for him which wasn't the case it was just a hectic time for me. I do kind of regret it now though. given the circumstances.
A couple of weeks after the five minute convo i texted him...but he did not receive any of the texts. They were all unsuccessful, I found that odd so i called him only to find out that his number was not connected, it didn't ring and there was no voicemail..so i assumed it had been disconnected. He literally has not changed this number in years so it was a surprise to me. But obviously I thought well i'm sure at some point he will call/message me to let me know what had happened but two months later and nothing..
Also in that time i facebooked him..as this was the only way of contact..and told him i tried to ring him but could not get through..he actually read the message three weeks back now and did not respond at all..
I just can't understand it..i'm not some random person he's known for a week..then i'd understand maybe..i'm someone who he supposedly has been in to for some time now and has been good friends with for years so whats with the silent treatment
If i changed my number or something more or less straight away i'd let all my close friends know and i would think i would be in that group of people to contact first :/

Posted by Xin
Moral of the story here is if he was serious you two would be together by now. Plain and simple. I had to accept that fact too with some of the guys I really liked. Playing games was their thing. Close the book and move on you owe it to yourself to free up some time for a man who actually wants to get to know you.
And P-Angel cut some people a break. I swear quit riding peoples asses so hard. Calm down.

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by Xin
Moral of the story here is if he was serious you two would be together by now. Plain and simple. I had to accept that fact too with some of the guys I really liked. Playing games was their thing. Close the book and move on you owe it to yourself to free up some time for a man who actually wants to get to know you.
And P-Angel cut some people a break. I swear quit riding peoples asses so hard. Calm down.

The problem here is he was serious and let her know for at least 2 years, she played the games not him, so now he is gone - the man who wanted to get to know her.

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Posted by Xin
Im not sure what your previous threads were but ill be honest. Being a victim of stupidity much like this where a guy tells you crap and then vanishes, hes just not interested. OR he's found something else for the time being. Believe me I know it sucks. I know you want to believe the things he told you are true. But if they were he would have made it happen, you two would be together. I think hes doing it to leave a line on you the whole bait and catch, give you just enough to keep you wondering and when things don't work out with someone he REALLY likes, he reels you in. Do yourself a favor and take him out of your phone, facebook, everything. There are like how many men in this world? The fact that youre wasting your time on someone who isnt serious about you sucks. Shit I know ive been there. Someone else will do what he doesnt. Save your effort for a man who deserves it. Moral of the story here is if he was serious you two would be together by now. Plain and simple. I had to accept that fact too with some of the guys I really liked. Playing games was their thing. Close the book and move on you owe it to yourself to free up some time for a man who actually wants to get to know you.
And P-Angel cut some people a break. I swear quit riding peoples asses so hard. Calm down.