Why is he doing this?!?!

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by ScorpGirl83 on Monday, March 5, 2007 and has 6 replies.
So the Taurus guy that I was "dating" decided that it would be best if we "broke up" bc he felt like he holds me back and his friends didn't approve of it (due to the age difference; he's 19, I'm 23). Well a month later, he got a new gf, but would still tell me that he thinks about me and would hint that he would rather be with me. Then there are the times that he makes it seem like he's happy with his gf.
The three of us all work together and now this weekend he completely avoided her and worked along side me as often as he could. He even waited an hour after work to give me a ride a home even though I clearly already had one. On the way home, he kept playing songs about wanting to leave his gf for the other girl and making comments about each one. Then today, he came into work with her and just kept flirting with her right in front of me. I just don't understand this behavior!
Because he is 19 and likes the thought of two girls fighting over him.
yeah, agreed. move on and forget him. I know it's hard. Maybe when he's older he can be a better guy but he is way too immature right now.
this is the reason why I think younger guys are not worth it. they tend 2 b immature and the time u spend wasting on him u could b finding someone else. let him go!! trust me i know it's hard but in life u have 2 learn 2 let people go. not everyone who comes into ur life is meant to stay. some r just passing through as a means of helping u 2 grow as an individual.
"not everyone who comes into ur life is meant to stay. some r just passing through as a means of helping u 2 grow as an individual."
totally agree. i think i saw someone else on here say something similar...people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. enjoy each experience, learn what you can from it ... and move on, richer and with more to offer in the next experience, be it for a season or a lifetime.
Don't fall for his behavior. He's playing a game. I had an ex-best friend since childhood that is a Taurus, I know how they are. We had a long history and because of that I recognize what your ex is doing and I'm warning you to not give him any satisfaction that you have feelings for him. And definitely don't have sex with him. Forget about him. Move on. Being friends with exes is a double edged sword, so if you can, don't bother being his friend. Just do your work and pretend like you don't care. Don't listen to him complain about his gf, its all a game or confusion on his part that will most likely end with him sticking with his gf.

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