Would you date a Transgendered person?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by AriesIntrovert16 on Thursday, April 18, 2013 and has 48 replies.
I read a thread on here today and saw someone mention transgendered people and was wondering if any of you would date someone who was trans and fully transitioned.
why or why not? what sign in Venus are you?
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Oh. and no trans bashing.
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No
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hey.. it's scorchedearth....(nods)......
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Posted by sugaries
No, simply because they don't have the equipment I like. A mini-peen is not going to work for me...and you can't build balls with surgery.


Actually, I think they can construct something that simulates balls. The average penis is only 5in erect. They can build one that size for transguys I believe. And i said FULLY transitioned so they have all the equipment. Venus sign?
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Posted by Mr. Defense
Hell no. There can only be one dick when I have sex. And I already have one, so 2 dicks is a crowd.
Venus in Virgo.


Transwomen do not have dicks. I said FULLY transitioned.
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Posted by Sutekh
Lol Transgendered people arent" real" . Bones, organs, glands are all Male or Female in size and effectiveness.


What do you mean by that? Theyre not real what?
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I read a thread on here today and saw someone mention transgendered people and was wondering if any of you would date someone who was trans and fully transitioned.
why or why not? what sign in Venus are you?


No. I understand it would just be dating, but sometimes when you date an individual can end up really liking the person & want to be in a serious relationship. I prefer a man to be BORN a man, not become one. This person will still be a woman to me with the same mindset as a woman, with strengh & capabilities as a WOMAN. A transgendered man cannot organically reproduce, ejaculate, or fulfill my needs such as a man, unless there are studies that I don't know of, I stand corrected. Even if it's possible, I'd just prefer a man. Winking
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Venus in Libra.
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Posted by Sutekh


hell fckin no is my answer


Lmao
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No .... because they are obviously emotionally damaged.

There's no way a person could live 18 years (until age of consent) in that depth of an emotional tragedy and not be damaged .... no fucking way would I consider being with a person who has that much baggage.
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Posted by RealTalk
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I read a thread on here today and saw someone mention transgendered people and was wondering if any of you would date someone who was trans and fully transitioned.
why or why not? what sign in Venus are you?


No. I understand it would just be dating, but sometimes when you date an individual can end up really liking the person & want to be in a serious relationship. I prefer a man to be BORN a man, not become one. This person will still be a woman to me with the same mindset as a woman, with strengh & capabilities as a WOMAN. A transgendered man cannot organically reproduce, ejaculate, or fulfill my needs such as a man, unless there are studies that I don't know of, I stand corrected. Even if it's possible, I'd just prefer a man. Winking
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I get what you're saying but the reason why a transman transitions is because their mind is telling them they should have been born a man. They think and feel the same way a man does because they are a man. Are you talking strength as in lifting heavy things? Testosterone helps with that. But I understand that not being able to have biological children would be a problem for some.
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Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
Yes. One of the best relationships I've ever had was with a MtF. Of course he was still a male when we met, but I'm a pansexual anyways so it wouldn't have mattered either way.
Libra Venus


Pansexual????
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What a great question! I honestly can't answer that. It would depend how I felt about the person when I found out, how honest and secure they are, and how well we click. I would like to think yes, but I would have to experience that one.
I have seen photos of people in my area that are completely transitioned. Just by photos, I wouldn't have even had a clue. Some of the f to m I have met, I thought, still had some very feminine ways...ex. speech or body language.
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Suppose I could have looked that up myself lol. Thanks ninja fish
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Just take a look in here .... people are ready to rip their hearts out just over the guy not calling them every 6 hours.
It's obvious to me that 99% of the people who come in here whimpering because they cannot help themselves from chasing after a douchebag, know that they fuck themselves up, but, are helpless to do anything to help their emotions ... now add a lifetime of the worse emotion trauma that exists = no self worth, because no acceptable self value

No thank you .... I'd rather die than deal with a person with that much baggage
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yes
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Also love this girl:
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Posted by virgodreamz
Also love this girl:
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this is....quite possibly...the SICKEST SHIT i've ever seen,str8 up..i don't even..i can't..WTF!!!
women is more likely to accept & allow some twisted shit like this..but the DAD too???!!
somebody needs to do & say this to that kids father
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Posted by DAMEN VI
Posted by virgodreamz
Also love this girl:
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this is....quite possibly...the SICKEST SHIT i've ever seen,str8 up..i don't even..i can't..WTF!!!
women is more likely to accept & allow some twisted shit like this..but the DAD too???!!
somebody needs to do & say this to that kids father

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Calm down. There's nothing wrong with her being who she feels/knows she was born to be. Nothing sick about it. Grow up.
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No.
You can put a Corvette body on a VW Bug frame, but it is still a VW Bug.
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Posted by VirgoMerlot
No.
You can put a Corvette body on a VW Bug frame, but it is still a VW Bug.


The frame doesn't make the car. There are plenty of other parts that make up an automobile. Fix the frame and you have a new car..
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*Rebuild the frame.
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I have nothing against TG people. The question was would I date one. The answer is no. Does that make me ignorant? I wouldn't date a man either. Does that make me a homophobe?
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Posted by Sizzurp
Three retarded fucks on this page supporting two sick ass parents. Who let's a "tween" make a choice like this? It would be one thing if that child was an adult...but it's a child.
They can't even legally drink/smoke/vote yet but the parents let a sex-change occur?

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Speechless.


They cannot just get a sex change. They have to go through therapy and get a doctors okay before they can transition.
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Posted by scorchedearth
great and here comes damen with the trans bashing. ignorant fuck.


hey dumb ass, i wasn't bashing trannies, i was bashing the parents...but i will proceed to bash the lil he/she demon in this post..
the parents are allowing that thing to talk sexually to little boys..thats not right,at all..and that thing seems like a horny little gay devil too, because when it spoke about the boy it liked, it licked its lips like a fucking lil twisted sex demon..its only 12 and already thinking about dicks
a real father would take that thing out back, tie it to a tree and burn it alive on some evil dead shit..because its gonna corrupt normal boys and make them feel weird about themselves if they end up liking it..i'd be pissed if my son ended up getting attacked by that horny lil fucker..it looks like it cant wait to turn some lil innocent kid out too
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Posted by DAMEN VI
Posted by scorchedearth
great and here comes damen with the trans bashing. ignorant fuck.


hey dumb ass, i wasn't bashing trannies, i was bashing the parents...but i will proceed to bash the lil he/she demon in this post..
the parents are allowing that thing to talk sexually to little boys..thats not right,at all..and that thing seems like a horny little gay devil too, because when it spoke about the boy it liked, it licked its lips like a fucking lil twisted sex demon..its only 12 and already thinking about dicks
a real father would take that thing out back, tie it to a tree and burn it alive on some evil dead shit..because its gonna corrupt normal boys and make them feel weird about themselves if they end up liking it..i'd be pissed if my son ended up getting attacked by that horny lil fucker..it looks like it cant wait to turn some lil innocent kid out too


Sounds personal. Been fooled before damen?


no..but thinking about the fact that my son could end up getting fooled by some lil sex craved demon person angers me a tad
Posted by scorchedearth
damen don't you have some unsuspecting woman to go date rape? why are you wasting time in this thread?
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honestly,i think you want me to rape you..and you're a disgusting bag of dirt for thinking i'd take you on a date to do it..pfft

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Posted by greengemini
Posted by scorchedearth
Posted by greengemini
I didnt really read the thread but i see that scorched is in here so i have an idea what type of party this is. Im not here to fight or argue i just have something to share.



what the fuck is that supposed to mean?


It means you're confrontational. It seems like youre easily angered over words on your computer screen.
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its because she's gay..or she think she's gay..
what she doesn't seem to understand is that the reason WHY she's so angry all the time is because she's not allowing herself to get piped down like the whore she truly wants to be..
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Posted by scorchedearth
damen, if anyone needs to get piped down it's you. maybe you'd calm a little bit if some guy would finally give you what you've been dreaming about all your life. homophobia to the degree you exhibit is always a surefire way to tell someone is a closet homo. you wouldn't be so hate filled if you weren't angry with yourself over it. Winking


im not scared of homo's, so how could i be homophobic?? i just don't want the gays pushing up on straight people, like the lil demon child was doing to the unsuspecting kid..
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I honestly think that anyone who wants a sex change operation is off in the head. I also think that any doctor who would do this procedure/surgery is just as off in the head, maybe even more.
But, to each their own..They aren't hurting anyone.
I admit, I would like to know what sex is like for a woman...But, it is something I will never know, and I am ok with that. Its the norm for me....and if you come near my junk with a sharp object, just know that I am a practicing 2nd amendment supporter. lol
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Posted by Sizzurp
Posted by scorchedearth
you think someone magically decides they're the opposite gender magically once they turn 18? they go through their entire childhoods feeling like they're in the wrong body. many transgendered people are incredibly suicidal. they feel completely alone. that nothing will ever get better. because they're expected to play into societies definitions of what their birth gender should be. when you go through your whole life feeling that way and wanting desperately to change it you just WISH that your parents were cool enough that they would let you live your life the way you need to. most parents disown transgendered children. especially idiot redneck hillbilly fathers that want their "sons" to be carbon copies of them.
what you're not understanding in this is that it's not a choice. she was hardwired that way. the only thing that is happening right now is that her parents are respecting her right to be herself. she's lucky she has parents that love her regardless of what she does. that kind of unconditional love is rare. i have nothing but respect for the father, especially. i'm sure it's not easy to see your child hurting that way.


This may be the case, I don't know. But, I do know, with scientific backing, that a child's brain is undeveloped until around 18. Until that development is over, rational, logical thinking flies before emotion and whimsy.
This *IS* what we know, empirically, at this time. So, imo, the kid must wait until he/she is older. The parents should have stayed neutral while reassuring their love of the child.
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Well the theory is that a person with gender disorder may have had a hormonal imbalance while in the fetal stage of development caused by a chromosomal abnormality. That's why transgendered people will feel that they are the opposite gender in the wrong body during childhood and continue to be this way into adulthood.
So in essence wether their parents support the child's identification with the opposite sex or not has no bearing on the ultimate outcome of the individual developing according to his or her genetic makeup which is in place before the age of 18 as it occurs during pregnancy.
As a parent it will be unlikely to stay neutral as the child will be exhibiting symptoms that will have to be
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addressed regardless of wether to support or to suppress the biological urge.
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@Scorched I especially feel you on the suicide comment
I've read more than once about parents choosing to support a transgendered child did so due to the suicide aspect.
Also at the time of that video about Jazz she was not on hormone blockers - I'm not sure if that has changed at this point.
@Anyone interested on a little more backstory concerning the vid: This particular girl was insistent on dressing as a female by the age of 6 as well as displaying a preference for living as a female prior. She has 3 other siblings who identify mentally with their physical gender. Therefore (In addition to the above info on genetic hardwiring in transgendered people) I don't suspect an issue with the upbringing of the child by the parents to be the cause of Jazz's gender identity. I personally think she is fortunate to have parents who were willing to look further into her situation and take her to be medically examined as well as research the topic and consult with transgendered adults to learn about their own childhood experiences before forming an opinion on the matter.
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Oh n/m she is on blockers
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Posted by Sutekh
Posted by DAMEN VI
Posted by greengemini
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Posted by greengemini
I didnt really read the thread but i see that scorched is in here so i have an idea what type of party this is. Im not here to fight or argue i just have something to share.



what the fuck is that supposed to mean?


It means you're confrontational. It seems like youre easily angered over words on your computer screen.


its because she's gay..or she think she's gay..
what she doesn't seem to understand is that the reason WHY she's so angry all the time is because she's not allowing herself to get piped down like the whore she truly wants to be..


I agree with Damen. People who have sex regularly usually arent angry or frustrated.
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Lesbians can have sex. Not sure what her being gay has to do with being angry. And a lot of promiscuous people are not happy with themselves or happy in general.
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I watched the video, and I'm pretty sure she is only transgender by proxy ....

1. the mother said they knew when she was very young.
Really? How? All kids play doctor, all kids dress up opposite gendered clothes, due to playing either mother or father. A child acts out in all kinds of different roles and there's no telling if they are different in this aspect. Take a queer for example .. you don't know this simply because two kids of the same gender got naked and touched each other.
so, my question is how did you know this at a very young age?

2. the father says he's been through this before with a daughter.
Oh, really? So, that means you already have it in your mind that if you see something different, then you are automatically going to influence/program the mind?

3. mother said that it says female on the birth certificate.
Oh really?
4. mother says they've been raising HIM as a girl.


It's possible that he might not be a girl inside ... it doesn't look to me like he was ever given the chance to find out.
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It's a very common place for teens to go through phases believing they are gay, and actually having gay relationships .... only to realize they are straight, and never have a gay relationship again.
There is no way the parents could know at a young age if their child is in the wrong body.
I had a nephew who loved to pretend to be female when he was young .. he would prance around, carry his mother purse, put on lipstick. The whole family thought he would end up as a girl. He's not, he's an adult now and all male ..
.. straight male.

Now, if his mother had encouraged this, and gave him hormone drugs, and treated him as female while pumping estrogen inside of him, he could have very well "thought" he was suppose to be a girl ....
... because that's how brainwashing works.
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I think when they said the father went through this with his other daughter they meant that she was becoming interested in dating.
There's a documentary on youtube about Jazz that goes into further details about why the parents allowed her to live as a female. They said they did try to raise her as a male but
she gravitated more towards being a female and showed more interest in her sisters preferences than her brothers.
Of course I wasn't there and anything is possible as far as the mother's actions are concerned, but I personally didn't get the sense that female behaviour was being pushed on the child. It seemed that she just wanted to do things typical of girls and her parents initially objected and then eventually gave in. Also they did take her to get a professional opinion and she was diagnosed with gender identity disorder. However, I do understand that even a medical opinion is not concrete since causes of transgender behaviour are still being studied with no conclusive findings humans (but there have been with animals)
Also out of curiosity did your nephew stop showing interest in "girly" items?
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*at what point did your nephew stop showing interest in "girly items"
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I'm attracted to a gender first and foremost, and then if I'm lucky, a specific individual from that gender. So I don't see that happening. Gender benders don't appeal to me at all. I'm very "traditional" on this issues. Not by choice but, as "they" say, I was born this way.
Venus in Cancer

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Posted by CluelessCancer
Only in America.


These surgery's are performed throughout the world. Not just in America.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by CluelessCancer
Only in America.


These surgery's are performed throughout the world. Not just in America.


Well humanity is fucked.
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It's been fucked.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by CluelessCancer
Only in America.


These surgery's are performed throughout the world. Not just in America.


Well humanity is fucked.


It's been fucked.
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It's fucking itself.
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Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Posted by CluelessCancer
Only in America.


These surgery's are performed throughout the world. Not just in America.


Well humanity is fucked.


It's been fucked.


It's fucking itself.
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All day.
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Nope. Never.
Dating is complicated enough without gender-benders.
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I would. There's more to a person then their genitalia.
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Venus in taurus.
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