11 years single!!! And counting...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Mag96 on Saturday, April 13, 2019 and has 18 replies.
I'm Virgo single for 11years official today.

But I had a online cancer boyfriend for 3 months then recently dump me for he says I'm complicated. I'm not so lucky!! Sad
Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Posted by sweetpea2977

Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Nah after 11 years you gotta ask yourself what you are doing wrong cause you are the common demoninator.
I'll be single for 6 yrs here soon, matter of fact I didn't even ask my last gf out she asked me I would of been single for like 15 yrs if it wasn't for her asking me. So dont feel to bad theres also people out there who literally been single their whole life.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Wow, you are beating me.
Waa going to tag you ..
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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Wow, you are beating me.
Waa going to tag you ..
Harsh 😋
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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by sweetpea2977

Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Nah after 11 years you gotta ask yourself what you are doing wrong cause you are the common demoninator.
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Wrong. It seems you didn't comprehend the OPs post. She's been SINGLE for 11 years, NOT having failed relationships for 11 years. So with that, I stand by what I said.
Posted by Dreamyboy

Posted by sweetpea2977

Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Standards are profiles that are set, but a lot of times, you miss the good qualities in someone that makes you happy because you’d get too busy trying to fit them in to yourself with the standards. Wth ever happened to going with the flow
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Listen, without standards we're all mediocre and mundane. That ish is for the birds. I personally want and deserve better. The OP possibly too. Everybody isn't for everyone. So, yeah, standards are necessary if you're not about that mediocre, mundane type life 🤷
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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Wow, you are beating me.
Waa going to tag you ..
Me too lmao @Anothertaurusguyreturns it's a VIRGO though... she could be your soul mate
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LOL, my thoughts exactly!
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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by sweetpea2977

Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Nah after 11 years you gotta ask yourself what you are doing wrong cause you are the common demoninator.
Wrong. It seems you didn't comprehend the OPs post. She's been SINGLE for 11 years, NOT having failed relationships for 11 years. So with that, I stand by what I said.
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.She is unhappy so she rejected prospects for 11 years and that is ridicolous. If you are alone for longer than a decade and be unhappy than your thinking is wrong. Maybe she wants perfection which doesn't exist,

I dont know.


Going on 12....
Posted by Parkourler

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Parkourler

Posted by sweetpea2977

Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Nah after 11 years you gotta ask yourself what you are doing wrong cause you are the common demoninator.
Wrong. It seems you didn't comprehend the OPs post. She's been SINGLE for 11 years, NOT having failed relationships for 11 years. So with that, I stand by what I said.

.She is unhappy so she rejected prospects for 11 years and that is ridicolous. If you are alone for longer than a decade and be unhappy than your thinking is wrong. Maybe she wants perfection which doesn't exist,

I dont know.


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Right. We don't know. What I do know is that single-hood doesn't equate to unhappiness, UNLESS being in a relationship VALIDATES the individual. There are many women who jump from relationship to relationship. So much that they never give their hearts time to heal, let alone their vaginal walls.

Many miserable people are in relationships just as others are and can be happily-single. Non-toxic relationships take work. Not everyone has the energy or patience for putting IN the work. Some have dedicated their lives to their careers, schooling, etc. So, yeah, we really don't know. But to equate unhappiness to being single is ridiculous. Especially when you're taking the time to build yourself up, dive into self-discovery, evaluate your standards and handle your own business.
Your comments to my anniversary are enough to make my day. Being single is not a bad status. Yes I have a standard but not so unreachable. I simply want to have someone stable or has good future, and someone who will stay after 5 time I keep pushing them away and someone who will last my temper that actually subside after a few minutes.

Do I sound complicated??? May be!!! But I'm someone who value the phrase "I promise!"

Size doesn't really matter to me. I simply want someone who will not let me sleep with worries and with tears.
Posted by Black-Mamba

I've been single for long periods in my life as well

I don't do online dating

Maybe you should try that?

Not just chit chat but actually meeting ppl off online apps
I'll try that may be after a few years... Hahaha or when my heart mend.
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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by sweetpea2977

Some men call women "complicated", "crazy", "up tight", etc etc simply because she has STANDARDS. I don't know if that's the case but either way, lose NO sleep over being called complicated. Next.
Nah after 11 years you gotta ask yourself what you are doing wrong cause you are the common demoninator.
Wrong. It seems you didn't comprehend the OPs post. She's been SINGLE for 11 years, NOT having failed relationships for 11 years. So with that, I stand by what I said.
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Technically, relationship involve to individual emotionally and physically. Having a boyfriend online is not counted although honestly it hurts somehow. Well at least I know what to do next time... When I'm officially in relationship, don't know yet?
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Posted by Skeleton

I'm single for 5 years.. though recently I was fall in love with someone until I got to know he's falling in love with different women.. so yaay forever alone.
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Posted by STILL

Posted by Skeleton

I'm single for 5 years.. though recently I was fall in love with someone until I got to know he's falling in love with different women.. so yaay forever alone.
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Your not alone... Welcome to the SINGLES CLUB. HAHAHA