7th house marriage?

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So I've heard that whatever sign is in your 7th house shows who/what sign you'll be attracted to and should marry.

Mine is in Gemini. Can I just take this oppurtunity to say... HELL NO!

Never have I been attracted to a Gemini or anyone with any really strong Gemini influences. Maybe it's cause I have so much Gem in my sign already (Venus/Moon and Sun cusp) but the men I'm attracted to almost always have some prominant Saggitarius and/or Scorpio.

Apparently I like relationships on an intellectual level more than an emotional one which is nothing like me. I like people I can have a conversation with sure, but that goes for friendship. When I want something to be more than just friendship there was to be emotion, passion, some undeniable attraction to the person.
That's what I want in a romantic relationship. That's what makes it different from just any old friendship.
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Oh dear,

I'm new to this forum, I joined because I recently asked my gemini bf to move out after three years of verbal abuse and the constant flip flop mentality and flirting with any and all skirts were making me crazy and insecure.

On my second post I was called a frigid cookiemonster 🙂 lol no hard feelings at all. I've been called that before, so it must be at least partially true.

But now I think, o.k. Maybe a gemini is not right for me, on all research, (now I find out) it was a "doomed for disaster" pairing.

So I read your post and decide to look for my seventh house sign, and there is none.....that is right, what is up with that....chills. Then I think o.k. lets look at 9th. Gemini!

I give up, should I go directly to the nunnery? Never mind, I don't want to know. 🙂 At least maybe I can have a little fun trying, even if they are all doomed for disaster.
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london_libra
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Hey!
So I've heard that a 7th house/descendent conjunction with another's moon is a good indicator of marriage or attraction. For example, I have Scorpio Rising (and thus have Taurus in house 7), conjuncting my crush's moon in Taurus. My Dad also has Cancer in 7th house, conjuncting my Mum's moon in Cancer and they've been together for about 35 years.

I think Gemini in 7th means Sag rising? And this does typically indicate two marriages or siginificant relationships. I think with this 7th house placement it's more about the number of attachements than the type of attachment it is. You might look to your moon or Venus to see who you're more attracted to.
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Posted by BrightasOrion
I thought the 7th house always had a different meaning, not to who your suppose to marry. But if that is the case I guess I will never get married. Ughh!!! Yuck!!!
The 7th house tells about the kind of partner or type of marriage you are looking for (or issues related to it), but you should also take a look at Juno, who is about the right partner for you (which is different than your conception of the ideal partner when you are young).

http://learn-astrology-concepts.blogspot.fr/2013/02/7th-house-partnerships-marriage.html

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7th Scorpio
9th Sagittarius

Scorpio's...well, I'm attracted to them and scorp moons but their qualities are also very problematic to me. It's a love/hate sort of relationship. Not one I would choose for marriage unless the guy had barely any negative traits. Never been with a sagittarius, but they seem pretty alright. I would give it a try.

My fiance's 7th house is pisces. Lucky him, he's got one. Haha ; )
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oh christ i hope not. the majority of my 7th house is in Taurus, but it technically starts in Aries so maybe there is hope for me. Aries is my third highest energy. Taurus and I just don't see eye to eye....I do have one Taurus friend though officially. She has a good mix of fire and air in her though. Earth heavy people are typically a no go for me. It's really weird and I don't get why...but it just doesn't work. Maybe because air is my second dominant element and my top energies are Scorp, Aqua and Aries? who knows.

As a side note: my Juno is in Libra.
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7th house in late Scorpio intercepted by early Sag (Placidus system).

Loaded 7th house:

My Scorpio sun is in my 7th

My Sag Neptune, Mercury and Part of Fortune are too

My two longest romantic relationships so far have been with Sag sun men (both close to 10 years). I have attracted and dated other Sag sun men, and Sag moon men. Second most is Gemini suns.

9th house in Capricorn, empty.

I'm open to being romantically involved with Scorpio, Sag or Capricorn, but I feel like I have already covered my first "marriage" allotment with Sag, even though I wasn't legally married to either Sag. So maybe a Cap is next?
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7th house Scorpio: I get along quite well with Scorps. If I befriend someone that came to me first it's usually a Scorp. They're the type that make me very talkative for some reason. More so than any other sign.
Had many female friends but never dated one.

9the house Sagittarius: Venus in Sag makes this one quite understandable for me. Not sure if I'd marry one. The ones I've met thus far were food as friends, but either we bicker all the time or we don't have anything to tell each other once we are sober. :x