advice on the EX’s actions

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Taurus_mn on Thursday, January 24, 2019 and has 36 replies.
I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point
And she just turned her snap location back on after like a week. Thats when she’s basically started to call just to talk about random things
Posted by Impulsv

Get yourself a good girl
Why do you say that?😂
Posted by elllle

She sounds psycho.

And why the hell is she face timing your dad?!

What sign is she?
She’s definitely her own type of controlling crazy, and that’s what I said! If I would of FaceTimed her parents she would of FLIPPED. My dad let it happen just to see what would happen😂

She’s a libra 9/24
You don’t seem too interested in her games. Why don’t you don’t?
Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t seem too interested in her games. Why don’t you don’t?
What do you mean why don’t I don’t??

I was definitely playing into them at first but I’ve retracted I feel like
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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t seem too interested in her games. Why don’t you don’t?
What do you mean why don’t I don’t??

I was definitely playing into them at first but I’ve retracted I feel like
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Sounds like you’ve pulled away at times. Not completely, but enough to give yourself space from this toxic situation. You know it’s not good for you.
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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t seem too interested in her games. Why don’t you don’t?
What do you mean why don’t I don’t??

I was definitely playing into them at first but I’ve retracted I feel like
Sounds like you’ve pulled away at times. Not completely, but enough to give yourself space from this toxic situation. You know it’s not good for you.
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Yeah I have forsure, mostly knowing she’s been seeing her ex and when she lashes out at me and blames me for the shit she was doing to me
Why would you even want to entertain this type of behavior and craziness?

No thanks.
Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t seem too interested in her games. Why don’t you don’t?
What do you mean why don’t I don’t??

I was definitely playing into them at first but I’ve retracted I feel like
Sounds like you’ve pulled away at times. Not completely, but enough to give yourself space from this toxic situation. You know it’s not good for you.
Yeah I have forsure, mostly knowing she’s been seeing her ex and when she lashes out at me and blames me for the shit she was doing to me
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Block her. Get rid of her. Go grab your boat because it’s yours and be done.
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Posted by Impulsv

Get yourself a good girl
Why do you say that?😂
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Because she is a psycho?
Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
Oh yeah, that’s me. I’ve been trying not let her games get to me but I’ve gotten to the point of like why would someone be doing this still
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Her red flags have got red flags. I assume she has a banging body otherwise you wouldn’t be entertaining this nonsense.
I’ve gotten 50/50 responses from people, to me I think she’s gorgeous, she’s pretty heavy like 220# like 5’10 but super built she maxed out on squating at 405# 😳 sex was good but it was mostly my doing..
Posted by nikkistar

Why would you even want to entertain this type of behavior and craziness?

No thanks.
Wanted to marry her the first day I saw her like 8 or 9 years ago, and she basically ended it both times like a week before I was gonna get her ring. Messes with your mind IMO, I love her to death but after all she’s done to me I don’t think I’d let myself be in a relationship with her if she even came back
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
Oh yeah, that’s me. I’ve been trying not let her games get to me but I’ve gotten to the point of like why would someone be doing this still
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Because they can.

Do you still love her?
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
Oh yeah, that’s me. I’ve been trying not let her games get to me but I’ve gotten to the point of like why would someone be doing this still
Because they can.

Do you still love her?
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I still love her to death, she texted me last night asking if I went to her house yesterday, I flew out of the state early in the morning and I’m like 90% sure she knew that
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
Oh yeah, that’s me. I’ve been trying not let her games get to me but I’ve gotten to the point of like why would someone be doing this still
Because they can.

Do you still love her?
I still love her to death, she texted me last night asking if I went to her house yesterday, I flew out of the state early in the morning and I’m like 90% sure she knew that
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Ah man... you Taurus men and you’re fierce loyalty to your lovers... even the ones that don’t deserve it. I admire that, I do.

Good luck 🤝
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
Oh yeah, that’s me. I’ve been trying not let her games get to me but I’ve gotten to the point of like why would someone be doing this still
Because they can.

Do you still love her?
I still love her to death, she texted me last night asking if I went to her house yesterday, I flew out of the state early in the morning and I’m like 90% sure she knew that
Ah man... you Taurus men and you’re fierce loyalty to your lovers... even the ones that don’t deserve it. I admire that, I do.

Good luck 🤝
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Wish she felt the same, but life isn’t perfect🤷🏽‍♂️
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Are you the Taurus guy with the Libra ?
Oh yeah, that’s me. I’ve been trying not let her games get to me but I’ve gotten to the point of like why would someone be doing this still
Because they can.

Do you still love her?
I still love her to death, she texted me last night asking if I went to her house yesterday, I flew out of the state early in the morning and I’m like 90% sure she knew that
Ah man... you Taurus men and you’re fierce loyalty to your lovers... even the ones that don’t deserve it. I admire that, I do.

Good luck 🤝
Wish she felt the same, but life isn’t perfect🤷🏽‍♂️
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It be like this sometime
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Her red flags have got red flags. I assume she has a banging body otherwise you wouldn’t be entertaining this nonsense.
I’ve gotten 50/50 responses from people, to me I think she’s gorgeous, she’s pretty heavy like 220# like 5’10 but super built she maxed out on squating at 405# 😳 sex was good but it was mostly my doing..
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I just can’t 😭😂
Posted by tiziani

Set a boundary.

If she knows she can get in touch with you and say moufy stuff to push you away while hoping you go for it, she is basically stuck in a child-parent relationship with you.

Your best shot at having some kind of an adult relationship with her is just to say "these are the hours I'll get in touch with you, I have a life to get on with, so do you", take it or leave it. And keep to that.

Even that is a very slim shot because people learn whatever they want in their own time, and it's not anyone's job to be a teacher nor do you want to be hoighty toighty with the person you care about like they're your pupil. Many people fuck it up by trying to be an authoritarian. That never works.

If you can be down to earth with it that's best. Be real that you want to work out a relationship with her and about your day. Be real about your motivations before ever speaking with her again, so you can move with conviction.

It's just about setting a boundary so you can both have some kind of a shot at an adult relationship with mutual respect.
You’re saying she may feel like a parent? Or child?

And one of our biggest problems was her lack of respect towards me a lot (she does and says some sideways shit if you upset her, or if she’s just upset in general)
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I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point


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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Her red flags have got red flags. I assume she has a banging body otherwise you wouldn’t be entertaining this nonsense.
I’ve gotten 50/50 responses from people, to me I think she’s gorgeous, she’s pretty heavy like 220# like 5’10 but super built she maxed out on squating at 405# 😳 sex was good but it was mostly my doing..
You did put your dick into the crazy ones..
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The list goes on of all the crazy shit she’s done, but it’s not like that all time, we had some really great fun times together too.
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Posted by tiziani

Set a boundary.

If she knows she can get in touch with you and say moufy stuff to push you away while hoping you go for it, she is basically stuck in a child-parent relationship with you.

Your best shot at having some kind of an adult relationship with her is just to say "these are the hours I'll get in touch with you, I have a life to get on with, so do you", take it or leave it. And keep to that.

Even that is a very slim shot because people learn whatever they want in their own time, and it's not anyone's job to be a teacher nor do you want to be hoighty toighty with the person you care about like they're your pupil. Many people fuck it up by trying to be an authoritarian. That never works.

If you can be down to earth with it that's best. Be real that you want to work out a relationship with her and about your day. Be real about your motivations before ever speaking with her again, so you can move with conviction.

It's just about setting a boundary so you can both have some kind of a shot at an adult relationship with mutual respect.
You’re saying she may feel like a parent? Or child?

And one of our biggest problems was her lack of respect towards me a lot (she does and says some sideways shit if you upset her, or if she’s just upset in general)
Her feeling like the child.
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See she’s told me before that she felt like my mom, and from what I can remember it was always after some situation I would be in or dealing with and she would make herself play this “mature, intelligent, protective” roll. Even if I left a dish in the sink and she’s the one who got around to cleaning it, all of a sudden she’d say she felt like my mom...
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Posted by Taurus_mn

I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point



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It’s easier said than done😔
I’m pretty sure you all are past the point of returning to anything special between you two.

All we know is your side of things and how you’re describing her. She sounds like a spoiled brat from what you say. And you obviously have felt like she’s manipulating and crazy.

I don’t even see this as you being loyal, I see this as you being crazy also for wanting this. 😂 If she is everything you say, then why continue with this toxic relationship? Nah, you all are going to end up looking like a Jerry Springer couple or that neighbor couple who won’t stop arguing and fighting. Help your future neighbors out and go find a chill girl who you can still have fun with.

For real, leave this one alone. You two REALLY sound HORRIBLE for one another. Oh and figure out the dog situation for real! The dog is allowing you all to stay in contact also, because of the “good times” you had together with the dog and wanting to both see the dog, and hang out “because of the dog.”
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I’m pretty sure you all are past the point of returning to anything special between you two.

All we know is your side of things and how you’re describing her. She sounds like a spoiled brat from what you say. And you obviously have felt like she’s manipulating and crazy.

I don’t even see this as you being loyal, I see this as you being crazy also for wanting this. 😂 If she is everything you say, then why continue with this toxic relationship? Nah, you all are going to end up looking like a Jerry Springer couple or that neighbor couple who won’t stop arguing and fighting. Help your future neighbors out and go find a chill girl who you can still have fun with.

For real, leave this one alone. You two REALLY sound HORRIBLE for one another. Oh and figure out the dog situation for real! The dog is allowing you all to stay in contact also, because of the “good times” you had together with the dog and wanting to both see the dog, and hang out “because of the dog.”


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I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point
She is broken and now has to get herself together again, just as she says, but atm she doesn't have the capacity to do so.

In what way does she mean you ruined her? Did you do anything, treat her bad?

Obviously your relationship meant a lot and probably too much to her.
What does she want from you? Nothing, it's all about her, not you. She is most likely bored, alone and miserable and uses you as a punchbag to make herself feel better about herself.

Stop it now, or brace yourself for even more crap. Because when a relationship is becoming as toxic as yours, the ol' "good times" are never coming back. Or if they do, it's for a rare and short moment that is simply not worth it. Stop living in the past and let it go.
She feels like your mom just because she cleans a dish for you? That’s calling helping and working together.
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She feels like your mom just because she cleans a dish for you? That’s called helping and working together.

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Posted by Taurus_mn

I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point
She is broken and now has to get herself together again, just as she says, but atm she doesn't have the capacity to do so.

In what way does she mean you ruined her? Did you do anything, treat her bad?

Obviously your relationship meant a lot and probably too much to her.
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No I mean I’m not some god and did everything right all the time I’m guilty of my own mistakes but nothing terrible nor treating her bad.

She texted me really late last night basically saying I hope you enjoy your time with family (on vacation right now) and just called me now to kinda talk again, longer than normal and good convo and jokes.

We lived together for two years and the plan was to get married and have kids
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She feels like your mom just because she cleans a dish for you? That’s called helping and working together.

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You mean making him a breakfast makes her his chef and I don’t even want to know what would that make her if she delivered his child? His own human making device?

Man needs to grow up and man up though I don’t see it happenning...anyone?
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Posted by Taurus_mn

I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point



It’s easier said than done😔
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Posted by Taurus_mn

I’m not to sure what to think of her and the few things she’s been doing..

A few weeks ago she invites me to the dog park so I can hang with her and our dog, goes great, later that night starts texting me about how I ruined her as a person and how she has to start from dirt and she’s gonna make herself better than ever. IMO blame shifted everything, I retreated no response.

Days later FaceTimed me late at night and we talked for almost 2 hours. Good conversation with a weird mix of her using certain things I said against me and asked about the places I’ve been hanging out cause she’s been watching me on the snap chat map. That weekend claims I’m stalking her and gets pissed. Retreated again, gave her space.

Next day or two is snap chatting me all types of random stuff. Didn’t reply much.

Next weekend, she goes to a brewery and starts texting my dad. Ends up FaceTiming him to show him the place. After bar close and she got home, FaceTimes me to talk for a little

Monday she turns her snap location off, starts texting me over snapchat and ends up sending me a text over it saying “DW says thanks dad for the pup cup.. atleast Mom scooped me up some” and sends me a screen shot of my location at Culver’s(dogs name is DW and we used to take him there all the time for ice cream)

Next day tells me I can’t call our dog, our dog anymore. But snaps me randomly all through the day.

I turned off my location and deactivated Facebook after that and she’s been sending me a bunch of snapchats that I still haven’t opened and has been calling me over the past week pretty much just to talk, FaceTimed me again one night aswell. I haven’t heard from her in two days now.

I know she’s been seeing her EX aswell but Idk how often. My question is, is she just trying to string me along? Or keep me as an option or something?

We lived together for 2 years and we’re on and off all last year, dated again from August till after thanksgiving. She started hanging with her ex after the first week of us splitting. My boat and a few other things are still at her house and she doesn’t want me to get them untill spring time.

I don’t know what to think about her at this point



It’s easier said than done😔
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Then, you've made up your mind. Stand by your convictions. And, play "King of Pain" by The Police when things get impossible.