Astrology and Love Languages

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Seajatt on Tuesday, December 14, 2021 and has 20 replies.
The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.
Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Well I believe with the right person aka your soulmate, you'll have compatible love languages.

Virgo Sun, Libra Venus and Leo Mars.

My primary is Acts of Service (Virgo tings) and secondary is also Quality Time ♡

I'm pretty sure we have all of the love languages because it'll say you have a percentage of each. I'm quite sensual so I like touching, wrapping my arms round and cuddling and doing weird touch things people I'm really comfortable around, love and trust a lot. But physical touch is my least love language apparently, probably cause I'm not too focused on using it to express my love though I like doing it to those I really trust, love and am comfortable around.
Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.
Mine is the same touch then quality time. I think it really is a huge deal to find someone with love language.

I’ve had to back burner my love language, in the past, because people think sex isn’t a big deal inside of a relationship.

This makes me sad 😔😢

Some just don’t get it.

In the end it’s about being fulfilled.

Btw-the gif you posted didn’t show up on the other thread.

Posted by allrounder
Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Well I believe with the right person aka your soulmate, you'll have compatible love languages.

Virgo Sun, Libra Venus and Leo Mars.

My primary is Acts of Service (Virgo tings) and secondary is also Quality Time ♡

I'm pretty sure we have all of the love languages because it'll say you have a percentage of each. I'm quite sensual so I like touching, wrapping my arms round and cuddling and doing weird touch things people I'm really comfortable around, love and trust a lot. But physical touch is my least love language apparently, probably cause I'm not too focused on using it to express my love though I like doing it to those I really trust, love and am comfortable around.
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Do you feel like your signs correlate to your love languages? Like virgo is sort of stereotyped as a giving sign, and there you are with an acts of service LL. What do you think?
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Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Mine is the same touch then quality time. I think it really is a huge deal to find someone with love language.

I’ve had to back burner my love language, in the past, because people think sex isn’t a big deal inside of a relationship.

This makes me sad 😔😢

Some just don’t get it.

In the end it’s about being fulfilled.

Btw-the gif you posted didn’t show up on the other thread.
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Sex is a huge deal, it's more or less the big dividing line between a best friend and a parter; the physicality. There is something to be said about shared bliss and pleasure, to me it's the realest of the languages. And I don't know why the gif didn't show, it was just a couple people doing a hi-five motion. Do you think your LL correspond at all to your signs?
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Posted by allrounder
Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Well I believe with the right person aka your soulmate, you'll have compatible love languages.

Virgo Sun, Libra Venus and Leo Mars.

My primary is Acts of Service (Virgo tings) and secondary is also Quality Time ♡

I'm pretty sure we have all of the love languages because it'll say you have a percentage of each. I'm quite sensual so I like touching, wrapping my arms round and cuddling and doing weird touch things people I'm really comfortable around, love and trust a lot. But physical touch is my least love language apparently, probably cause I'm not too focused on using it to express my love though I like doing it to those I really trust, love and am comfortable around.


Do you feel like your signs correlate to your love languages? Like virgo is sort of stereotyped as a giving sign, and there you are with an acts of service LL. What do you think?
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Well yeah, that's what I was saying Acts of Service, it's a very Virgo thing (ting) lol and I guess Quality Time could be linked to Libra Venus. I'm sure Libras admire the time spent with loved ones.

Would you correlate yours with your zodiac signs?
Posted by Seajatt
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Mine is the same touch then quality time. I think it really is a huge deal to find someone with love language.

I’ve had to back burner my love language, in the past, because people think sex isn’t a big deal inside of a relationship.

This makes me sad 😔😢

Some just don’t get it.

In the end it’s about being fulfilled.

Btw-the gif you posted didn’t show up on the other thread.


Sex is a huge deal, it's more or less the big dividing line between a best friend and a parter; the physicality. There is something to be said about shared bliss and pleasure, to me it's the realest of the languages. And I don't know why the gif didn't show, it was just a couple people doing a hi-five motion. Do you think your LL correspond at all to your signs?
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I’m not sure I understand your question. Do you mean all Sagittarius or My chart?

My big 3 are 1 water and 2 fire as well.

And it’s interesting that water signs have never gave me a hard time about using them for sex.

I guess they understand intimacy better. 🤷‍♀️
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Posted by Seajatt
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Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Well I believe with the right person aka your soulmate, you'll have compatible love languages.

Virgo Sun, Libra Venus and Leo Mars.

My primary is Acts of Service (Virgo tings) and secondary is also Quality Time ♡

I'm pretty sure we have all of the love languages because it'll say you have a percentage of each. I'm quite sensual so I like touching, wrapping my arms round and cuddling and doing weird touch things people I'm really comfortable around, love and trust a lot. But physical touch is my least love language apparently, probably cause I'm not too focused on using it to express my love though I like doing it to those I really trust, love and am comfortable around.


Do you feel like your signs correlate to your love languages? Like virgo is sort of stereotyped as a giving sign, and there you are with an acts of service LL. What do you think?


Well yeah, that's what I was saying Acts of Service, it's a very Virgo thing (ting) lol and I guess Quality Time could be linked to Libra Venus. I'm sure Libras admire the time spent with loved ones.

Would you correlate yours with your zodiac signs?
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Thanks for expanding more on your post.

And, I think so, I think the Aries and Sagittarius both play a part in desire and touch. I think the desire for quality time too is also selfish, but imo, the best kind of selfishness. Obviously all things within reason, because nobody likes a clinger.
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Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Mine is the same touch then quality time. I think it really is a huge deal to find someone with love language.

I’ve had to back burner my love language, in the past, because people think sex isn’t a big deal inside of a relationship.

This makes me sad 😔😢

Some just don’t get it.

In the end it’s about being fulfilled.

Btw-the gif you posted didn’t show up on the other thread.


Sex is a huge deal, it's more or less the big dividing line between a best friend and a parter; the physicality. There is something to be said about shared bliss and pleasure, to me it's the realest of the languages. And I don't know why the gif didn't show, it was just a couple people doing a hi-five motion. Do you think your LL correspond at all to your signs?


I’m not sure I understand your question. Do you mean all Sagittarius or My chart?

My big 3 are 1 water and 2 fire as well.

And it’s interesting that water signs have never gave me a hard time about using them for sex.

I guess they understand intimacy better. 🤷‍♀️
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Yes, I meant your sun, Mars and Venus. I was curious to know if you think or feel that they play a part in your love language expression.

I think they do for mine. I think the Pisces being so mutable, that in the moment at least, is subsumed by the Aries and Sagittarius placements. I was thinking the quality time may have come from the Pisces, but after more thought, that seems more like an Aries trait.

That's curious about the water signs, I would have thought that the cancers and certainly scorpios would have given you a hard time over it.
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Pisces Sun, Aquarius Venus and Taurus Mars- words of affirmation, acts of service and I can say physical touch, but only in regards to intimacy. Sex is a huge thing for me when I’m in a relationship, I enjoy that type of touch and connection.
Do you feel like your Aqua in Venus has any bearing on your LLs?
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Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Well I believe with the right person aka your soulmate, you'll have compatible love languages.

Virgo Sun, Libra Venus and Leo Mars.

My primary is Acts of Service (Virgo tings) and secondary is also Quality Time ♡

I'm pretty sure we have all of the love languages because it'll say you have a percentage of each. I'm quite sensual so I like touching, wrapping my arms round and cuddling and doing weird touch things people I'm really comfortable around, love and trust a lot. But physical touch is my least love language apparently, probably cause I'm not too focused on using it to express my love though I like doing it to those I really trust, love and am comfortable around.


Do you feel like your signs correlate to your love languages? Like virgo is sort of stereotyped as a giving sign, and there you are with an acts of service LL. What do you think?


Well yeah, that's what I was saying Acts of Service, it's a very Virgo thing (ting) lol and I guess Quality Time could be linked to Libra Venus. I'm sure Libras admire the time spent with loved ones.

Would you correlate yours with your zodiac signs?


Thanks for expanding more on your post.

And, I think so, I think the Aries and Sagittarius both play a part in desire and touch. I think the desire for quality time too is also selfish, but imo, the best kind of selfishness. Obviously all things within reason, because nobody likes a clinger.
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I can see that, but idk it's a love language, you know. It's just part of our nature. If you repress it, you're not being authentically who you are and will only make yourself struggle more in relationships because you won't stay with fulfilling relationships if you do that.

You need a balance of both selfishness and selflessness anyway. Life is about balance for true contentment Big Grin

Selfishness can come from a lack of giving to oneself. You don't know how to give to others or struggle to for some other reason, so you only know how to take what you want from others to get what you want instead. Cause you don't want to make the effort, so you pass the effort to others.

If you don't know how to give Quality Time to yourself, then you'll continuously seek it from others to fill any lack you feel of it.

Quality Time in a healthy person is totally fine. By definition, Quality Time is cherishing the time you spend with someone and creating memories you know you'll cherish in the future to come ♡ nothing negative or unhealthily selfish about that, in my opinion.
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Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.


Well I believe with the right person aka your soulmate, you'll have compatible love languages.

Virgo Sun, Libra Venus and Leo Mars.

My primary is Acts of Service (Virgo tings) and secondary is also Quality Time ♡

I'm pretty sure we have all of the love languages because it'll say you have a percentage of each. I'm quite sensual so I like touching, wrapping my arms round and cuddling and doing weird touch things people I'm really comfortable around, love and trust a lot. But physical touch is my least love language apparently, probably cause I'm not too focused on using it to express my love though I like doing it to those I really trust, love and am comfortable around.


Do you feel like your signs correlate to your love languages? Like virgo is sort of stereotyped as a giving sign, and there you are with an acts of service LL. What do you think?


Well yeah, that's what I was saying Acts of Service, it's a very Virgo thing (ting) lol and I guess Quality Time could be linked to Libra Venus. I'm sure Libras admire the time spent with loved ones.

Would you correlate yours with your zodiac signs?


Thanks for expanding more on your post.

And, I think so, I think the Aries and Sagittarius both play a part in desire and touch. I think the desire for quality time too is also selfish, but imo, the best kind of selfishness. Obviously all things within reason, because nobody likes a clinger.


I can see that, but idk it's a love language, you know. It's just part of our nature. If you repress it, you're not being authentically who you are and will only make yourself struggle more in relationships because you won't stay with fulfilling relationships if you do that.

You need a balance of both selfishness and selflessness anyway. Life is about balance for true contentment Big Grin

Selfishness can come from a lack of giving to oneself. You don't know how to give to others or struggle to for some other reason, so you only know how to take what you want from others to get what you want instead. Cause you don't want to make the effort, so you pass the effort to others.

If you don't know how to give Quality Time to yourself, then you'll continuously seek it from others to fill any lack you feel of it.

Quality Time in a healthy person is totally fine. By definition, Quality Time is cherishing the time you spend with someone and creating memories you know you'll cherish in the future to come ♡ nothing negative or unhealthily selfish about that, in my opinion.
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Great post. I love when I get unexpected bits of wholesomeness.

That's how I view quality time. Its a bit why i call it selfish in a tongue in cheek sort of way because for however long, that person is all mine.
I want a little of each cause I’m greedy like that.
Pisces (Sun), Leo (Mars), & Aquarius (Venus)

My love languages are Acts of Service & Quality Time.

Libra, Sagittarius, Scorpio

Quality time and physical touch
Pisces Sun/Gemini Mars/Aqua Venus ...

My love lingo is ....respecting personal boundaries and private space.
Posted by Seajatt

The thread titled 'The One' got me thinking about astrology and love languages. Do you think there is a correlation? State your sun, mars and venus, and your love language and let's see what shakes out.

Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries - and my love language is touch, with quality time coming in second.
Gem Sun and Mars. Venus in cancer. Conjunct Mercury exact!

My love language; Cooking. Making him his favorite foods, and wowing him with my abilities in the kitchen. Food is love. It’s also medicine when necessary. Taking care of him when he’s not well. Making a comfy home for him and myself, too. I also love expressing my love verbally, but sometimes words fail. So….

I like to be talked to nicely. And probably some other sappy shit I can’t think of right now.

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This thread is imcomplete without moon signs btw
Then add yours and get the ball rolling.
Posted by dontgiveup

I’m a Leo with Libra placements

I need affection, and words.

I’m affection and gift giving, acts of service myself
It’s ‘cause you’re a Leo.

“Love me. Worship me. ME ME MEEEEEEEE.”

Kinda reminds me of Citizen Kane, and what Kane’s wife told him their last night together, “you want me to love you. Sure. ‘I’m Charles Foster Kane. I’ll give you anything you want, just ask. But you GOTTA LOVE ME!’”

Orson Welles was a Taurus. The above can probably be said of them, too.

Activities.

I'm a Libra sun, Sagittarius moon, Libra Venus. My dominant sign is Aquarius.

I'm a hobbyist.