Attraction .. choice?
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by P-Angel on Sunday, April 15, 2007 and has 3 replies.
Has anyone ever met someone in person to whom they just absolutely LOVED online .. only to find out that once you saw them .. you were repelled?
Or, visa-versa .. someone you really didn't care for online .. you meet and there's an instant attraction?
If, so .. what do you make of that?
Or, visa-versa .. someone you really didn't care for online .. you meet and there's an instant attraction?
If, so .. what do you make of that?
nope...PA, I have not experienced that yet.
I guess my whole reasoning with this is .. are our attractions based off of appearances and personalities as much as we think .. or, is there more of a primal one, or instinctual?
You know, like you may dream about the perfect person and thier attributes .. but, then you meet someone who "appears" not your type .. yet, you're drawn to them like a magnet.
Do we really have as much choice in it as we think? Don't our pharamones really decide for us who is attractive and who isn't?
So, I was just curious .. if someone you met online seemed wonderful, everything you could ever imagine in a partner .. then, when you meet them .. you're like looking for a hole in the ground to go hide.
You know, like you may dream about the perfect person and thier attributes .. but, then you meet someone who "appears" not your type .. yet, you're drawn to them like a magnet.
Do we really have as much choice in it as we think? Don't our pharamones really decide for us who is attractive and who isn't?
So, I was just curious .. if someone you met online seemed wonderful, everything you could ever imagine in a partner .. then, when you meet them .. you're like looking for a hole in the ground to go hide.
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