Boarded the 'Confused Bandwagon'?

Who else has NOTICED.....

that there's been a FLOOD of "I'm so confused" posts on these threads lately? 😒 Seems like these days body language / what is ACTUALLY BEING DONE, or NOT DONE AT ALL is quickly overlooked/ignored (AS IF words are more important 🤦)

Stop being so confused and start SEEING more clear

Here's a good START GUIDE from those who are:

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You're welcome!

I'm confused.. what's happening? 🥴😅

Posted by Yodi

I'm confused.. what's happening? 🥴😅

So you're telling me that you really HAVEN'T NOTICED? 😂

Confusion has been pouring in like a flood 😂😂😂

Posted by Arielle83

It’s a disconnect between expectations and communication

Most definitely is. Quite sad imo.

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Yodi

I'm confused.. what's happening? 🥴😅

So you're telling me that you really HAVEN'T NOTICED? 😂

Confusion has been pouring in like a flood 😂😂😂

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😅😅 yes.. sadly I have no idea what's going on.

There's always "help me" threads on dxp if that's what you mean?🤔

Posted by Yodi

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Yodi

I'm confused.. what's happening? 🥴😅

So you're telling me that you really HAVEN'T NOTICED? 😂

Confusion has been pouring in like a flood 😂😂😂

😅😅 yes.. sadly I have no idea what's going on.

There's always "help me" threads on dxp if that's what you mean?🤔

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Bingo! And too many 😵 of 'em have that dreaded phrase: "I'm so confused".

Just trying to give 'em some guidance so that when people show 'em WHO THEY ARE....... (you know the rest)

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Yodi

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Yodi

I'm confused.. what's happening? 🥴😅

So you're telling me that you really HAVEN'T NOTICED? 😂

Confusion has been pouring in like a flood 😂😂😂

😅😅 yes.. sadly I have no idea what's going on.

There's always "help me" threads on dxp if that's what you mean?🤔

Bingo! And too many 😵 of 'em have that dreaded phrase: "I'm so confused".

Just trying to give 'em some guidance so that when people show 'em WHO THEY ARE....... (you know the rest)

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Ahhhhh okay 😅 I get it. Honestly I avoid 90 percent of them because I think they're trolling from puppet accounts..

Posted by Yodi

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Yodi

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Yodi

I'm confused.. what's happening? 🥴😅

So you're telling me that you really HAVEN'T NOTICED? 😂

Confusion has been pouring in like a flood 😂😂😂

😅😅 yes.. sadly I have no idea what's going on.

There's always "help me" threads on dxp if that's what you mean?🤔

Bingo! And too many 😵 of 'em have that dreaded phrase: "I'm so confused".

Just trying to give 'em some guidance so that when people show 'em WHO THEY ARE....... (you know the rest)

Ahhhhh okay 😅 I get it. Honestly I avoid 90 percent of them because I think they're trolling from a puppet accounts..

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😂😂😂

Posted by but_didyoudie

yeah im not reading any of that.. give me the drama and mistakes 😏

🤣🤣🤣

The "mistakes" be hella-costly 😭 They either resort to writing books, crying the blues or beggin' and pleadin'. It's crazy 😣

Posted by maiden

People need to get offline and start interacting...socially...to build skills...

Truly! "He blocked me on social media."

Yeah, getting offline? I'd say so lol

So let me get this straight...you want me to pay for advice I can easily get for free. EVERYWHERE.

Nothing wrong with people asking for advice or another input. It helps to have people tell you what they see from the outside looking in.

What’s the problem here? Sorry everyone isn’t all perfect at relationships like you..?

Posted by maiden

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by maiden

People need to get offline and start interacting...socially...to build skills...

Truly! "He blocked me on social media."

Yeah, getting offline? I'd say so lol

90% of the confusion threads involve social media apps

and the time frame for these scenarios is usually days to weeks, sometimes only a month or two

peoples' expectations are deluded

err those who end up here anyway

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Exactly!

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by but_didyoudie

yeah im not reading any of that.. give me the drama and mistakes 😏

🤣🤣🤣

The "mistakes" be hella-costly 😭 They either resort to writing books, crying the blues or beggin' and pleadin'. It's crazy 😣

yes unfortunately but it happens still*... there is no book to do life and quite frankly i dont care anymore. like how complicated it is to simply have a good relationship with a potential love interest. too hard. like i bet harder than becoming a millionare... thats how hard it is.

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Complications definitely takes away from the joy relationships are supposed to have indeed. I understand.

Posted by Sjess

So let me get this straight...you want me to pay for advice I can easily get for free. EVERYWHERE.

Nothing wrong with people asking for advice or another input. It helps to have people tell you what they see from the outside looking in.

What’s the problem here? Sorry everyone isn’t all perfect at relationships like you..?

Negative. I'm not paying for any advice either. It's free for the most part. Otherwise, I bypass it 🤷 You're welcome to do the same.

I'm not in a perfect relationship but you won't catch me here or anywhere asking basic questions that are built upon profound confusion 😒

You say "It helps.." Sure doesn't seem that way. What I've seen from these typical threads is that there's a typical way in thinking too. Often times people will ask these questions because they seem to want someone to do the thinking for them, or, they want reassurance or validation.

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Sjess

So let me get this straight...you want me to pay for advice I can easily get for free. EVERYWHERE.

Nothing wrong with people asking for advice or another input. It helps to have people tell you what they see from the outside looking in.

What’s the problem here? Sorry everyone isn’t all perfect at relationships like you..?

Negative. I'm not paying for any advice either. It's free for the most part. Otherwise, I bypass it 🤷 You're welcome to do the same.

I'm not in a perfect relationship but you won't catch me here or anywhere asking basic questions that are built upon profound confusion 😒

You say "It helps.." Sure doesn't seem that way. What I've seen from these typical threads is that there's a typical way in thinking too. Often times people will ask these questions because they seem to want someone to do the thinking for them, or, they want reassurance or validation.

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What do you mean it’s free? Any article I tried to open up I had to pay for. That man’s website whatever.

Posted by Sjess

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Sjess

So let me get this straight...you want me to pay for advice I can easily get for free. EVERYWHERE.

Nothing wrong with people asking for advice or another input. It helps to have people tell you what they see from the outside looking in.

What’s the problem here? Sorry everyone isn’t all perfect at relationships like you..?

Negative. I'm not paying for any advice either. It's free for the most part. Otherwise, I bypass it 🤷 You're welcome to do the same.

I'm not in a perfect relationship but you won't catch me here or anywhere asking basic questions that are built upon profound confusion 😒

You say "It helps.." Sure doesn't seem that way. What I've seen from these typical threads is that there's a typical way in thinking too. Often times people will ask these questions because they seem to want someone to do the thinking for them, or, they want reassurance or validation.

What do you mean it’s free? Any article I tried to open up I had to pay for. That man’s website whatever.

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Subscribe and ENJOY the free content 😉

It'll all come to your email.

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Sjess

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Sjess

So let me get this straight...you want me to pay for advice I can easily get for free. EVERYWHERE.

Nothing wrong with people asking for advice or another input. It helps to have people tell you what they see from the outside looking in.

What’s the problem here? Sorry everyone isn’t all perfect at relationships like you..?

Negative. I'm not paying for any advice either. It's free for the most part. Otherwise, I bypass it 🤷 You're welcome to do the same.

I'm not in a perfect relationship but you won't catch me here or anywhere asking basic questions that are built upon profound confusion 😒

You say "It helps.." Sure doesn't seem that way. What I've seen from these typical threads is that there's a typical way in thinking too. Often times people will ask these questions because they seem to want someone to do the thinking for them, or, they want reassurance or validation.

What do you mean it’s free? Any article I tried to open up I had to pay for. That man’s website whatever.

Subscribe and ENJOY the free content 😉

It'll all come to your email.

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I don’t want to lol.

I only went on it cause I wanted to see what it was

Posted by Sjess

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Sjess

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by Sjess

So let me get this straight...you want me to pay for advice I can easily get for free. EVERYWHERE.

Nothing wrong with people asking for advice or another input. It helps to have people tell you what they see from the outside looking in.

What’s the problem here? Sorry everyone isn’t all perfect at relationships like you..?

Negative. I'm not paying for any advice either. It's free for the most part. Otherwise, I bypass it 🤷 You're welcome to do the same.

I'm not in a perfect relationship but you won't catch me here or anywhere asking basic questions that are built upon profound confusion 😒

You say "It helps.." Sure doesn't seem that way. What I've seen from these typical threads is that there's a typical way in thinking too. Often times people will ask these questions because they seem to want someone to do the thinking for them, or, they want reassurance or validation.

What do you mean it’s free? Any article I tried to open up I had to pay for. That man’s website whatever.

Subscribe and ENJOY the free content 😉

It'll all come to your email.

I don’t want to lol.

I only went on it cause I wanted to see what it was

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Ok. Bye now lol

Posted by LittleStar

No one knows how to communicate these days. Its all “here I am, accept me or leave”.

Certainly seems that way 😣

"I'm so confused by this (insert sun sign) guy I met 2 months, 6 days, 3 hours, 32 minutes, and 49 seconds ago on POF. When we first started talking he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship.

One night I made this 7 course meal for us for dinner. I spent the whole day watching the Food Network and made sure everything would make Julia Childs proud. He said he loved it. Then we made love, and he left after.

I told him the next day that I love him. And he never responded to me. So I texted him later, just asking if he was okay since I hadn't heard back from him. He didn't respond back until the next day and said he hadn't seen my texts and was busy. I know he's been super busy with work lately, so I told him it was okay. So I asked him if he wanted to hang out later, and he responded telling me thank you for the invite, but he didn't have time that night to. So I asked when he thought he would be free next and he said he didn't know. So i got super upset he wasn't making time for me and sent him a mad text. But I didn't mean it.

So the next day, I apologized to him and told him I just love him so much. He said thanks and told me to watch the movie 'He's Just Not Into You'.

He hasn't responded to any of my texts for the last 6 weeks. I know I probably upset him when I texted him mad but I said I was sorry. And i know he likes me because he said my he liked the avocado toast i made as part of our dinner. Will he come back?"

Be straight forward but expect a straight forward answer. I do think people are complicated and don't want to offend people so things are left confusing.

Keep talking and moving forward x

Posted by nikkistar

"I'm so confused by this (insert sun sign) guy I met 2 months, 6 days, 3 hours, 32 minutes, and 49 seconds ago on POF. When we first started talking he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship.

One night I made this 7 course meal for us for dinner. I spent the whole day watching the Food Network and made sure everything would make Julia Childs proud. He said he loved it. Then we made love, and he left after.

I told him the next day that I love him. And he never responded to me. So I texted him later, just asking if he was okay since I hadn't heard back from him. He didn't respond back until the next day and said he hadn't seen my texts and was busy. I know he's been super busy with work lately, so I told him it was okay. So I asked him if he wanted to hang out later, and he responded telling me thank you for the invite, but he didn't have time that night to. So I asked when he thought he would be free next and he said he didn't know. So i got super upset he wasn't making time for me and sent him a mad text. But I didn't mean it.

So the next day, I apologized to him and told him I just love him so much. He said thanks and told me to watch the movie 'He's Just Not Into You'.

He hasn't responded to any of my texts for the last 6 weeks. I know I probably upset him when I texted him mad but I said I was sorry. And i know he likes me because he said my he liked the avocado toast i made as part of our dinner. Will he come back?"

I died.