BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN (spinoff of

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by LetltB on Sunday, June 16, 2013 and has 2 replies.
Somewhat different from the "Gaydar" thread, and more common than most people think.
For those of you (females) married, maybe a couple of kids, or even those females who could imagine something like this happening..by all means share your thoughts.
Anyone who does not know what "Brokeback" is: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brokeback_Mountain

There's been two instances that I personally have had female clients (one married for 25 years, the other 11) with this situation. I have to tell you with all of the female clients who have been cheated on the everyday way, the cheating "Brokeback" pain is tripled. The ultimate deceit that their husband has a gay "misteress" or simply humps gay men on the side was unbearable for both of these females. Both have divorced, one also won a huge lawsuit on a different level and separate from the divorce, the other one is about to file a lawsuit as she is now just divorced.
These men (many who, believe it or not are on a corporate level), in my opinion are as low as the pedophiles that lurk in the shadows. They use women as a "front" to cover their sexuality because they are too afraid to come out of the closet. The movie was nominated for 8 academy awards. I also notice Showtime is showing it an awful lot these days. Personally, I got half way through the movie when it came out as a rental and shut the damn thing off. Hollywood ironically calls it bi-sexuality. In this case I disagree. (obviously courtrooms do too in the case of divorce) To hide this from another human being is just LOW. These two women (and the 100's of thousands going through it or have gone through it) are entitled to know and entitled to choose whether or not they want to be with a man who is bi-sexual. When it is hidden, it is again the ultimate deception.
Without going into details, the two clients had one thing in common. Both husbands would not let the wife blow them, and the sex was almost always initiated by the females.
What would you do if you married one and found out a decade or more later?
Title got cut...suppose to be Spinoff from Gaydar thread

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