I have never been involved with a Taurus man (April 22 birthday) and am SO hurt and CONFUSED!!! Any suggestions will help at this point..This is sort of a long story but I will try to brief everything as much as possible...6 months ago He came to my house to work on my HVAC unit. He struck up conversation and we talked for a little bit. He mentioned maybe going out for dinner sometime and I told him that I was recovering from colon cancer treatments and due to the damage to my digestive tract from the radiation,I had a very limited diet and was not able to eat much. He asked if he could get my number and I gave it to him. 2 weeks later (after I had actually forgotten about him) I got a text from him asking if it would be possible to come over and talk with me some more. He did,and we hit it off really well.We sat and talked for several hours. I invited him over for dinner a few nights later and he came over and ate and seemed to thoroughly enjoy the meal...one thing led to another and we ended up spending EVERY weekend together at his house for the past 4 and half months. Suddenly,out of nowhere for no apparent reason,3 weeks ago...he just went cold on me and stopped returning my messages. I have been giving him space and not harassing him and only messaged him every 2 or 3 days asking for answers but all I got was that he felt confused and did not know what to say. Finally,he messaged me back Saturday with the most hurtful message I believe I have ever gotten..he told me that I am awesome and the way I treat him is awesome but that he was afraid that I was slowly starving myself to death and he doesn't want to watch it. he also told me that there was a woman that he has known for a long time through mutual friends but has never met in person and he felt bad for wanting to go "have coffee and talk" with her. WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED HERE??? I had recently been through cancer,a divorce,and got emergency custody of my 3 year old grandaughter when we met. He managed to repair my self esteem and my weary heart only to throw it all down and stomp it in the ground
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May 22, 2017Comments: 61 · Posts: 603 · Topics: 10
Why are you sending her to psychics?!
Op, I'm sorry to hear your story. It seems that he wasn't having serious intentions at all. That he back off like to pursue a girl he doesn't know sounds crap, even if he lying. He doesn't seem to deserve your attention.
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
I think it was just an excuse. He fancies this other woman more and wants to spend time with her without feeling guilty.
It sucks but it happens.