Cancer man acting weird. Will I get him back?

My cancer man and I have been talking for 2 months now.. I just came out of a relationship so I'm
in know hurry to get into another one, but he came along one night, and I got hooked.. But we both knew that I just came out of something serious 4 mths ago, so I made clear it's an open relationship, especially me expressing myself to him that I'm going on other dates, and that I still randomly text my ex, and I talk alot about him to the cancer man, I do feel bad, but I can't help it, I know I have been wayyy to honest, but I did it so we don't go fast, as I know he was starting to have feelings for me as I for him.. I just loved his sensitive, nurturing and caring man that he is... We went on a lot of dates, and from the day we met we never stopped texting or calling.. I know he was going thru issues with work so he expressed it to me very quickly , and how hrs staying at his parents till his renos are done at his condo.. I was very supportive and caring and was there for him through his ordeal.. The last time we saw eachother on our date , we had a great time , he introduced to his family only because he lives with them, and we just wanted to relax one night at the house on. The couch then always going out.. So we ate dinner , relaxed then the movies we decided , came back , layed down, had crazy **** and got very intimate, for this wasn't the first but it was the first to just get much closer intimately..Well we slept , got up the next morning and had breakfast and talked more then I had to go back home, so when I was leaving he asked me is this how I pack when I go see my other dates, I guess because all my bags were packed properly and there was a bag for clothes and , my blowdryer, neways I didn't understand that question and where it came from but it was weird, but I answered back to him that no , he's the only one I have been and is intimate with ever since my breakup, and then of course I went into talking about the ex again and how I packed like this to go see him , and I miss him and I told him I text hi'm
again and stuff like that.. He just stared at me and asked me to sit before I go when clearly I was almost out the door.. So I sat in his family room then he went on telling me how I'm clearly not over my ex, abd he could ne there for me as a friend and help me move on, and to move on is to fall in love with someone else .. Then he goes that he's there for anything , if I need it , a hug, or go for a walk, or whatever.. I was shocked so I had

MORE TO THE STORY!! or whatever.. I was shocked so I had nothing to say , accept I got to go, and when I was leaving I told him we are final and he was going on no were not.. So I get into my car and then he texts me 5 mins while I was on the road and he said I'm only saying this to u cause your clearly not over yr ex, and I know how it feels, and I understand and I'm here to be here for u any way I can, but can not open up my emotions to u because your still not over the ex, I understand but I just want u to be good and get your emotions straight.. I sent back but I thought this was an open relationship and I didn't know what u wanted. Neways after texting back and forth he said he'll text later, abd 2 days went by and no nothing, then I sent him a long text apologizing for my behaviour and what not, and I shouldn't talk about the ex and party too much . I sent a very genuine text.. All I got was the next morning . Hey I got your text from lastnight and I appreciate , thankyou.. I really miss him I actually do Like him. And saw potential . Have I lost my cancer man, it's been days and nothing and I am very very confused... We did close... And I miss all the texts and calls, I don't know.. Help
anyone.. Or just forget about it.. : (

THANX GUYS!!

He did you a favor. You don't need that whiny little fuck anyways. Trust me.
From here on out it will be nothing but little emotional games and mindfucks.

THX I GUESSS.LOL..I see they are a bit an emotinal roller coaster, but i see they are very kind, nice people in general.. but thx for yr input..

hi babydoll..

give him time, don't call, don't text... he'll come back. they always do (3 months max). JUST have that will power to NOT CONTACT HIM AT ALL. When he comes back again tho... be more welcoming.. be nicer.. don't bring up the ex ever again..hopefully, you got your feelings straight by then.. =)