Cancer man interactions with a Capricorn lady and a Virgo lady.

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by CanerJason on Thursday, October 12, 2017 and has 6 replies.
Cancer man of 37 here. I have two women in my life that are causing me some emotional issues, and I wanted opinions on the matter.

The first lady is a 24 year old Capricorn that smiled at me, and seemed to enjoy my attention at first. Then as I got to know her, I started joking around with her and goofing off, only to realize that Capricorns do not like to be picked on. Now, she acts upset by my attention at all, but if I ignore her she flirts with me! For example, all week I have ignored her, today she jumped playfully in front of me in at lunch and put her food in the microwave above mine and said, "Guess I will be on top of you this time!" I offered her a fork from the drawer (I said, "wanna fork or not?") and she acted as if she got all mad and stormed away.

The other lady is a Virgo aged 24. She acted very very interested in me, until I admitted that she was desirable. Then she went as cold as all get out. So, I thought, I would take the hint and leave her be. The more I ignore her, the more she tries to playfully (flirty) get my attention. So today, I stopped to talk to her on the way out, and she very coldly dismissed me saying, "You go on, I have work to do, and I wouldn't want to hold you up."


Ugh.
My opinion would be to try dating women closer to your age. 37 is kind of ancient to a 24 year old, you're probably coming off as the creepy old guy.
They came after me, not vise versa. I am just enjoying the attention of two ladies. Lol



Posted by WildatHeart
My opinion would be to try dating women closer to your age. 37 is kind of ancient to a 24 year old, you're probably coming off as the creepy old guy.
Yes. Quite so. They are quite mixed. As an update the Virgo told me today that she told someone that we weren't dating but it was a possibility. Lol. Later she got dismissive again.

Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by WildatHeart
My opinion would be to try dating women closer to your age. 37 is kind of ancient to a 24 year old, you're probably coming off as the creepy old guy.
He's not.

Actually pulling it off pretty nicely, despite earthy girls giving him "mixed" signals.


To the OP.

Keep doing what you're doing, don't change tactics.
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Then why are they flirting with me? The Capricorn caught me not paying attention as we were walking along today, and intentionally stopped in front of me in a position that I would walk crotch first into her rear.

Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by CanerJason
They came after me, not vise versa. I am just enjoying the attention of two ladies. Lol



Posted by WildatHeart
My opinion would be to try dating women closer to your age. 37 is kind of ancient to a 24 year old, you're probably coming off as the creepy old guy.

Yeah but they don't seem interested in you lol
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Not any time soon. I am quite enjoying the attention at the moment. Besides, it wouldn't be fair to date two women at once.

Posted by Koniuchaa
So are you planning to ask them out on a date then?