Confused need help

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by fishworry on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 and has 6 replies.

Ok the bull i was going out with for 1 yr told me on 19th that its all over and that he doesnt have any feeling for me and wants nothing to do with plus that i should leave him alone....when i asked if he loved me he said whos to know....he broke my heart.
so thats what i did. I didnt contact him at all...usually i would call and try to resolve issues but this time i was hurt and i gave up as he told that he had long time ago.
But then i had an interview for a graduate job yesterday in the same company we worked for as interns....well he texted me to wish me good luck and encouraging me that i have work before so i will have better chance....
I am so confused as to why he texted me when he said he wants nothing to do with me....whole week i saw him on msn but we never said anything. He also said that its not his problem that i have an interview when he was breaking up with me on 19th....so why wish me luck????? or contact me.....
I text back this morning saying thanks and tell that it went ok and now waiting to hear their answer....but he hasnt contacted me back at all.
Anyone any thoughts....coz i love this guy but when he told all this i was heart broken....
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congrats on your interview going well smile
i know it's hard, but all i can say is don't expect an answer ... expectations lead to disappointment. don't read anything into him texting you - he's already told you where's he's at: it's over for him.
just take this as you would any other friend who is wishing you well on an interview. work hard, keep busy ... let him go. if he contacts you, remain friendly and don't close any doors, if you don't want to. if he's really meant for you he will come back on his own.
keep your chin up - good luck on the job smile
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Thanks scorp5pt0.
i am still waiting to hear if i got it.
i am trying not to think so much into it but cant help but think if i mean something to him.....
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it's true...if it was meant to be you will know b/c he will come back to you on his own will. my bf broke up with me last May over the phone, and told me that he just wasn't feeling it anymore and that it wasn't working out.
4 months, and quite a few calls/ texts later, he returned to me...and our relationship was back on track...so, you never know. but, if it is meant to be...it will be.
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also, i say follow your heart. as cheesy as it sounds...listen to what your heart tells you throughout. my heart told me that my bf still loved me, had never stopped loving me...so, it was very hard to believe the words he told me over the phone.
i continued to have faith in us and to listen to my heart...and it guided me in the right direction in the end!
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moonchild8....i am following my heart and i feel he loves me and he didnt mean what he said....he need time to sort his feeling....but i feel i should not contact him and just let him come to me.
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