confusing libra

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by gargi on Sunday, April 26, 2009 and has 4 replies.
I have been in a relationship with a libra for past 3 yrs. also hv a son from him, but ours is a different kind of relationship, we both are married to different people, he has a child already and hv been married for almost 10 yrs. i know its different coz we fell in love inspite of knowing our situation. however wht i find wierd here is after having a child together and going to such levels i never expected the relationship to go backwards. I mean suddenly when he saw the baby i could feel him distancing frm me. his attitude towards the child was also as if hes seeing a friends child and not his. though he insists tht he does not regret his decission to have a child with me out of wedlock. but his behaviour is very misleading. lately he suddenly stopped talking to me, has also deleted every means of communication when i asked all he said was to have patience as he says we should take a break. what does all this mean, after all tht we had and now at this age and stage i find this behaviour kiddish. He very rarely asks abt the baby, all the love talks have vanished he talks how gr8 his life is with his own family and says things like we should be friends . I know he wants to get rid of me..but wht i dont understand is WHY? i never asked him for anything for myself or the baby, even when he first saw the child after almost when the baby was a year old all he got for him was a toy. isint it wierd for a father to behave with his own child especially when he is meeting him for the first time? we have a long distance relationship so all we can do is chat or call and manage to meet only after every 2 yrs. now even tht is doubtfull as he says we might not meet again. theres lots to say...but i guess this is the jest.
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^ Lol......
I was wondering the same thing.
WOW.
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Move on and take it as a lesson and hope your husband doesnt find out that the child isnt his. You were a bit of fun but that has all ended with you bearing his child, he now wants you to remain hidden and not jeopardize his family.
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Crazy, it's like a soap opera.
It's not strange for the father not to have the same emotional attachment to the child as the mother. From what I've gathered he probably never meant for it to be a serious relationship since he remained with his wife, and never asked you to leave your husband.
Listen to what sweetheart said, it's true. The situation is not in your hands, so all you can do is move on.
Sorry, and good luck.
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