Posted by BackyardVurgeonThank you for the reply! I am a Libra, Mark is Gemini, and brother is Aquarius
What are all your signs though?
Posted by onedayThank you for the reply! I had read other stories online and people are always like "no that is horrible" so I was hoping it would not be in our situation. I was hoping the brother would maybe tell Mark before anyone, if we get to that point that we decide to tell anyone
I think it is completely fine, it was a very long time ago. And as you said, Mark dated a friend of yours before as well.
I would say as long as his brother is okay with this and can let out the information to Mark why let it stop you guys from being happy? Seems like you guys were meant to be in eachothers lives anyways.
Posted by MademoiselleFiskThank you for the reply! I was hoping he would maybe be the one to tell Mark, but only if we decide we do want to tell people. We decided we will wait maybe 4 or 5 months to see how things go
I'd run the idea by Mark first... this can be a potential shitshow within the family.
Edit: not really to ask "permission," but rather soften the news to him. Sometimes it can turn out like Legends of the Fall kinda stuff.... (jk)
Posted by onedayAnd thank you so much for saying it seems like we belong in each others lives!! I find it quite hilarious and I always really like and respected him
I think it is completely fine, it was a very long time ago. And as you said, Mark dated a friend of yours before as well.
I would say as long as his brother is okay with this and can let out the information to Mark why let it stop you guys from being happy? Seems like you guys were meant to be in eachothers lives anyways.
Posted by ArkansassyHonestly, he was the first one too! And we all have that sense of humor that if things go well, I am sure that will be brought up
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"
Posted by ArkansassyPosted by kmi924Probably during ThanksgivingPosted by ArkansassyHonestly, he was the first one too! And we all have that sense of humor that if things go well, I am sure that will be brought up
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"
I was thinking it’d be something like I go to his dads and hide, brother is like “so guys I have a new gf” and I pop out and say “boo”click to expand
Posted by ArkansassyMark (while cutting the bird): this isn’t the only thing at the table I’ve stuffed 😏Posted by kmi924Probably during Thanksgiving dinnerPosted by ArkansassyHonestly, he was the first one too! And we all have that sense of humor that if things go well, I am sure that will be brought up
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneI'm sure his girlfriend and their child would appreciate thatPosted by ArkansassyMark (while cutting the bird): this isn’t the only thing at the table I’ve stuffed 😏Posted by kmi924Probably during Thanksgiving dinnerPosted by ArkansassyHonestly, he was the first one too! And we all have that sense of humor that if things go well, I am sure that will be brought up
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"click to expand
Posted by onedayThank you so much! It's just so funny. I remember the first time we saw each other a few months after the break up. I was at a party and had heard he was coming, I was thinking "oh this might be awkward" so I was just quiet and kind of hid. When he saw me, he was like "hey *my name*! How are you, I didn't see you there!" and gave me a big hug. I like to think maybe he always liked me in a way tooPosted by kmi924Sometime things happen in very interesting ways! Like you said you would always run into him, or you happened to not enjoy the movie so you went and talked outside. Just seems like something was always conveniently pulling you towards one another. I hope things go well for you!!!Posted by onedayAnd thank you so much for saying it seems like we belong in each others lives!! I find it quite hilarious and I always really like and respected him
I think it is completely fine, it was a very long time ago. And as you said, Mark dated a friend of yours before as well.
I would say as long as his brother is okay with this and can let out the information to Mark why let it stop you guys from being happy? Seems like you guys were meant to be in eachothers lives anyways.click to expand
Posted by EchoHis name not really Mark was just saying for the internet. But still pretty crazy!
Holy crap, you basically just described my life story with my virgo ex from 5 years ago.
His name was Mark. It was 5 years ago we dated.
And he has a kid now.
That's all that was accurate.
Posted by kmi924I noticed I just had to say it thou 😂Posted by EchoHis name not really Mark was just saying for the internet. But still pretty crazy!
Holy crap, you basically just described my life story with my virgo ex from 5 years ago.
His name was Mark. It was 5 years ago we dated.
And he has a kid now.
That's all that was accurate.click to expand
Posted by Arkansassy
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"
Posted by EndlessTrue that!!!! I personally think it would be hilarious, as I'm sure his brother. If things work out, it could be a joke for years, depending on how Mark feels. Marks poor gf is a Cancer and I imagine she'll be most mad about itPosted by Arkansassy
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"
that's whats called the air sign connection
I doubt anyone in that trine actually cares but they're all wondering if anyone careclick to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Indeed so! And I just learned last night that their late mother was a Libra too. Knew me and her always got along well
This makes sense.
All three elements.
Posted by HaruukaLol the situation or the air connection?
It’s normal
Posted by MademoiselleFiskYeah! He should know but notnin any ‘special way’. It’s past that past...just move on kids and have sex already! Who knows what’s gonna happen after...lol
I'd run the idea by Mark first... this can be a potential shitshow within the family.
Edit: not really to ask "permission," but rather soften the news to him. Sometimes it can turn out like Legends of the Fall kinda stuff.... (jk)
Posted by GemitatiI’m soooo excited!! We just had our first kiss the other night and I’ve spent the past 2 nights at his place. I think best to wait for the sex, he’s a gentleman he might be nervous. But I’m super excited for his family to find out. I haven’t seen his dad and his gf in years, as well as his aunt and uncle. I still talk to his dads gf on Facebook sometimes and we still send each other Christmas cards, and his dad used to come into my old work place sometimes for lunch. I’ll keep ya’ll posted!Posted by MademoiselleFiskYeah! He should know but notnin any ‘special way’. It’s past that past...just move on kids and have sex already! Who knows what’s gonna happen after...lol
I'd run the idea by Mark first... this can be a potential shitshow within the family.
Edit: not really to ask "permission," but rather soften the news to him. Sometimes it can turn out like Legends of the Fall kinda stuff.... (jk)click to expand
Posted by kmi924They were close too, my uncle and Mark. My uncle even went to the mothers wake and Mark sent me a “condolences” text after my uncle had passed, that was the only communication we had since the break up.Posted by GemitatiI’m soooo excited!! We just had our first kiss the other night and I’ve spent the past 2 nights at his place. I think best to wait for the sex, he’s a gentleman he might be nervous. But I’m super excited for his family to find out. I haven’t seen his dad and his gf in years, as well as his aunt and uncle. I still talk to his dads gf on Facebook sometimes and we still send each other Christmas cards, and his dad used to come into my old work place sometimes for lunch. I’ll keep ya’ll posted!Posted by MademoiselleFiskYeah! He should know but notnin any ‘special way’. It’s past that past...just move on kids and have sex already! Who knows what’s gonna happen after...lol
I'd run the idea by Mark first... this can be a potential shitshow within the family.
Edit: not really to ask "permission," but rather soften the news to him. Sometimes it can turn out like Legends of the Fall kinda stuff.... (jk)
Also it’s just crazy. I have an uncle who was super important to me growing up pass away almost 5 years ago. There’s a special song that I associate with him looking after me, and I heard the song 4 times on the radio since I started talking to the brother. Once yesterday AM leaving his house, and then again this AM. I like to think my uncle and his mother a chilling together up in heaven like “hey I have a great idea”click to expand
Posted by kmi924BothPosted by HaruukaLol the situation or the air connection?
It’s normalclick to expand
Posted by kmi924"I personally think it would be hilarious, as I'm sure his brother. If things work out, it could be a joke for years, depending on how Mark feels. Marks poor gf is a Cancer and I imagine she'll be most mad about it "Posted by EndlessTrue that!!!! I personally think it would be hilarious, as I'm sure his brother. If things work out, it could be a joke for years, depending on how Mark feels. Marks poor gf is a Cancer and I imagine she'll be most mad about itPosted by Arkansassy
"I've been inside of your girlfriend"
that's whats called the air sign connection
I doubt anyone in that trine actually cares but they're all wondering if anyone careclick to expand
Posted by nanobotHe found out the other day! He texted his brothers roommate asking “is my brother dating *my name*? And the roommate did not answer. All has been going very, very well. We are really, really liking each other. I had dinner with his family and they’re all happy to have me back. Oh well for Mark 🤷🏼♀️
Well he kinda got with someone who was a good friend of yours 3 days after your breakup.
So Mark will have to deal with it without complaint 🤷🏻♀️
Posted by HeartofTopazz5 years is a long time ago 🤷🏼♀️
Awkward
Posted by exsqueezemeExcuse me. I don’t remember you entertained anyone with a post worth laughing or crying...so STFU!
You are a disgusting fungal infection.
Posted by GemitatiThank you 😁Posted by exsqueezemeExcuse me. I don’t remember you entertained anyone with a post worth laughing or crying...so STFU!
You are a disgusting fungal infection.click to expand
Posted by ACsquareplutoThank you so much just wanted to share with the internet lolPosted by kmi924So sweet. Glad you're happy (:
Update: Things are amazing! My family is happy for us as is his family. We’re crazy about each other. Bumped into his brother at a county fair, I froze and hung back while they talked, and Mark smiled and waved at me. Neither one of us have ever been this happy and we both know it’ll last for a very, very long time. We’re in love and we promised each other at least once a day after we say “I love you” we’ll also say “always have, always will” 😭😭 he said that first and it’s been decided, and I’ve always felt the same.
Just figured I’d give update because it’s great and in case someone wanted a real life love story for the day!click to expand
Posted by Pandora101Yeah but think I’ll pass
@kmi924
is their father still alive?
just to have a complete set, you know